•I'm just a girl who craves art in all its forms
•I have a healthy fascination with all things associated with creativity, darkness, beauty and glam
•Writing, Reading, and Music are my forms of oxygen
•Beauty feeds me
•I'm strong minded and self-assured and cannot be pushed around
•I say more than I should. I don't say enough
•I was born wild, this terrible compulsion to behave normally is the result of being brought up by an asian mother
•I refuse to drown in society. I am not limited by a set of rules
•I often sip from the well of knowledge...it leaves me drunk on propoganda
•You can talk to me about anything. Consider me unshockable
•I'm here for my own amusement.
•Do not think of knocking out another person's brains because he differs in opinion from you. It would be as rational to knock yourself on the head because you differ from yourself ten years ago...
4 The Individualist (aka "The Romantic")
Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.
How to Get Along with Me
Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me. Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision. Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!
What I Like About Being a FOUR
my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
my ability to establish warm connections with people
admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
being unique and being seen as unique by others
having aesthetic sensibilities
being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me
What's Hard About Being a FOUR
experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair
feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved
feeling guilty when I disappoint people
feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me
expecting too much from myself and life
fearing being abandoned
obsessing over resentments
longing for what I don't have
FOURS as Children Often
have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games
are very sensitive
feel that they don't fit in
believe they are missing something that other people have attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood
feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)
FOURS as Parents
help their children become who they really are support their children's creativity and originality are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
are sometimes overly critical or overly protective are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed
My life is guided by the concept of Existentialism.
I choose the meaning and purpose of my life.
“Man is condemned to be free; because once thrown into the world, he is responsible for everything he does.†“It is up to you to give [life] a meaning.†--Jean-Paul Sartre
“It is man's natural sickness to believe that he possesses the Truth.†--Blaise Pascal
Existentialism
95%
Utilitarianism
75%
Justice (Fairness)
70%
Hedonism
60%
Kantianism
40%
Apathy
30%
Nihilism
20%
Strong Egoism
15%
Divine Command
5%
I Have a Melancholic Temperament
•Introspective and reflective, I think about everything and anything.
•I am a soft-hearted daydreamer. I long for my ideal life.
•I love silence and solitude. Everyday life is usually too chaotic for me.
•Given enough time alone, it's easy for me to find inner peace.
•I tend to be spiritual, having found my own meaning of life.
•Wise and patient, I can help people through difficult times.
•At my worst, I brood and sulk. My negative thoughts can trap me.
•I am reserved and withdrawn. This makes it hard for me to connect to others.
•I tend to over think small things, making decisions difficult.
"I feel like death warmed over..." ~ Christopher Moore
R.I.P BRANDON LEE 2/1/65-3/31/93