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Whats a Goon to a Goblin

About Me

I am a 37 year old single black mother of two sons, christopher (18) and Colin (8). They are my world right now. I am not on the hunt but enjoy the company of a secure and confident man (i just love to hear a man's voice. I am not a little skinny girl, so you won't find that here. I am 5'8.5 and i would really love a taller man but it seems they only like short women (a complex i think!!) I'm a force all by myself but two would make it better, man was not meant to be alone. I have been a single mom for way too long but know that i can take care of myself, some men find that intimidating. That is the life of a black woman unfortunately, when we see shortfalls we step up, but then others want to knock us down for being too strong. Well i cannot help that except that the man for me will have to be stronger. Well, i think that might be enough for now... don't want to be percieved as a hater, because that i am not. I LOVE MEN!.... ..I edited my profile at Freeweblayouts.net , check out these Myspace Layouts!
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My Interests


Sports...not dedicated to any particular team though. Reading, dancing, I just like to enjoy life, so game for just about anything.


My Black Man My Black Man I know times are hard for you I know you got dreams and goals too I know you feel pain but I do too No one truly knows what you go through But I know you’ve got the blues My Black Man Its okay cuz mama loves you My Black Man Its okay cuz I love you Your children do too We got ya back when no one else do You’re beautiful From the top of your head to the bottom of your feet Your love so sweet Baby no need to run from me I just want to love you tenderly STAND UP KING! Show us the way The path to brighter days You are our souljahs Warriors So fine, you take my breath away I pray you stay cuz we need you We need you I need youYour skin, your smile, your eyes, your style, the way you kick game, the way you wil' out, your chin, your clothes, your Timbs, your scent, Damn, you drive me wild Ooooh Chile’ Ooooh Child Things are gonna get easier Things will get brighter Black Man My Black Man Stop treating “us” bad The women who died to have you Who struggled to take care of you And your brothers too Love is me, Love is you Get rid of the anger and let some love grow in you I love you I love you I love your intelligence Your perseverance To do what you have to, to make it Natural Born Hustler, My Brother Always cool, calm and collected Until someone cross’em, then they be vexed Love the swagger No matter the hood cuz it’s all good Pray you stop blaming “the man” for your issues No excuses Cuz he didn’t put the gun in your hand Tell you to pull the trigger Didn’t tell you to rob the local drug dealer And he didn’t tell you to rob the pizza man Can I get a AMEN? Your decisions impact not only your life, but those around you Come’on dude It’s like a Domino effect One fall, we all fall We are a family Extended maybe But family, all the same Black Man, Black Man Stand up beside your Black Queen And show us what a man is supposed to be What Black Love really looks like Show our sons what it means to be a King Show our daughters how a King treats his Queen Raise her self-esteem so she can’t tolerate BS Shit life is so stressed I just wanna be your safe haven The one you can trust Your Bonnie to your Clyde The one with who you ride Get it together Black Man Love who you are and who we be Let’s expand this family tree I love you Black Man How about loving me?

I'd like to meet:

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ... enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to...A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE something perfect to wear if the employer, or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .. a youth she's content to leave behind....A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ... a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age....A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .... a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE . one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .... a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ... eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal, that will make her guests feel honored...A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ... a feeling of control over her destiny...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... how to fall in love without losing herself..EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without; ruining the friendship...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY..EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... that her childhood may not have been perfect..but it's over...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... how to live alone even if she doesn't like it...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... where to go... be it to her best friend's kitchen table... or a charming inn in the woods... when her soul needs soothing...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... what she can and can't accomplish in a day...a month...and a year...

Music:


I love it all; rap, r&b, jazz, gospel, even some country music; Learning to appreciate some of the slower music... like a good slow dance LOL

Movies:

hmm, i watch so many, nothing stands out in my mind.

Television:

forensic files, Snapped, Investigators, Murder by the Book, City confidential; in otheres words i think i know how to commit the perfect murder. lol

Books:

I love James Patterson's book, i would have sworn he was black when i first started reading him. Jeffery deavers has a lot of soul too. Trying to get into Mary Higgins Clark, she puts out so many, she should keep me busy between my other authors. I loved Dean Koontz, but he's becoming a little too Stephen King for me.And hats off to david baldacci

Heroes:

My biggest hero would be my Dad, he loved life and hardly anything kept him from doing exactly what he wanted to do... I want to be like that when I grow up!! I have some great people in my life... unfortunately it is sometimes hard to see their greatness without stepping back and taking a hard look. Christopher is still discovering himself, but will be a great man as soon as he knows it too. Colin, my goodness, he is so strong and can laugh at almost anything he honestly keeps me going.
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Getting to Know Me...
Name Leila Michelle
Nickname Lei (lee)
Birthdate December 28, 1969...same as Colin
Birthplace Detroit, MI Same as Colin
Hometown San Jose, Ca
Eye Color & Hair Color Brown
Height & Weight Big & beautiful
Occupation / School Customer Service
Righty or Lefty Righty
Heritage African American
Favorite Color Blue
Favorite Animal None
Favorite TV Show / Movie .."Imitation of life.."
Favorite Cartoon
Favorite Song Anything slow and easy
Favorite Sport Basketball
Favorite Actor / Actress Hank Rolike
Favorite Musician D'angelo
Favorite Athlete Cheryl Miller
Favorite Comedian Katt Williams
Favorite Food Fettucine
Favorite Drink Lynchberg Lemonade or Boone farms LOL
Favorite Number 11
Favorite School Subject Math
Favorite Clothing Sweats
Favorite Book I read a lot, dont know
Favorite Snack Food Ritz
Favorite Season Fall,love the colors
Hobby Reading
Talent
Age of first kiss i think 8, i got my ass whupped too
Age you lost your virginity 18
Age you got married 24
Age you had your first kid 20
Have you ever been drunk Yes..will never drink Tangueray or Jagermeister again
Have you ever gotten high no
Have you ever been arrested yes
Have you ever been in a fight yes w my sister only
Have you ever been in an accident no
Fears bugs
Most important possession(s) my children...even though i dont own them, but everything else can be repalced
Pet Peeve stupidity
Number of Tattoos o
Number of Piercings 4
Best quality loyal
Best physical trait lips???
In the opposite sex...
Cute or Sexy sexy
Taller or Shorter taller
Lips or Eyes eyes
Petite or Big big
Sweet or Caring sweet
Easygoing or Serious easygoing
Sensitive or Loud loud
Thoughts on...
Abortion only if absolutely necessary
Gay Marriage not for me
Gun Control no such thing
God is Good
Aliens yeah
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My Blog

Is life to short to dance with ugly men???

Just asking, its a bumper sticker i had on my first car (16) and i swore by it. I'm 36 now, I think it's okay to dance with them now LOL. ...
Posted by who...me? on Thu, 04 May 2006 06:34:00 PST