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About Me

I never make my bed.What's the point when you are just going to get back in it anyway?! The first thing I do in the morning usually is sneeze. I have short nails and short hair. I would be barefoot all the time if I could. I wear very little make-up and never wear high heels...cowboy boots all the way. My best friend is a black cat with more personality than many of the guys I have gone on dates with. I hate routines, but I crave comfort and safety. I prefer the west coast to the east coast and have a strange affinity for animals, especially primates. My favorite fruit is a raspberry. I love caramel, candelight, and native american flute music. I always have a part of me looking at the past when it should be looking ahead to the future. I am anal about my teeth. My idea of a great Sunday only needs a bed and a TV (and a great companion). I am an honest, loyal, introvert. My friends are very important to me. Connection is very important to me. I like doing dishes and hate doing laundry. I am a Buddhist who listens to Korn...go figure!? I like surprises. I am addicted to Coca Cola classic and nothing else. I have learned that physicality is fleeting, but healing is real. I am embarking on the greatest journey of my life so far, abandoning everything I have held safe for the last 10 years or so...to move into the person I know I truly am. I have waited for this. I have worked hard for this. Somewhere in California, my true destiny awaits. I am not your average girl, my world has different rules...but the rewards are greater and profound. I am worth it.
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My Interests

Psychology, Primates, Buddhism, cooking, healing, meditation, friendship, relationships, cats, counseling, curing MS, the psychological needs of people living with a chronic illness, quantum theory, Psychotherapy, the Law of Attraction, Network Chiropractic. .. language=javascript src="http://www.tut.com/CSRandomText/CSRandomText.cgi?id=The Universe&t=j"..

I'd like to meet:

Brandon Boyd...Edward Norton...the Dalai Lama...John Welwood...real people with real things to say and to teach. People who are open and giving and kind. My future husband... People who are strong, stable, and have integrity. Kind people only! Anyone closer to enlightenment than I am! Michael Beckwith. Mike Dooley. People who realize it is more important who you are spending the time with than what you are spending time doing. People who are more interested in life than work.

Music:

Octane (www.octanerocks.com)I am ga-ga over these Philly guys, Linkin Park, Tool, Korn, Evanescence, Eminem, Maroon 5, John Mayer, Fiona Apple, Sarah Mclaughlin, Metallica, Snow Patrol. It is a wide range, I know...it depends on my mood. ..

Movies:

Dirty Dancing , Officespace, Van Wilder, Memento, Primal Fear, American History X, Blair Witch, Swingers,Butterfly Effect, Vanilla Sky, Fight Club, Bowling for Columbine, Ledgends of the Fall, Shrek, Alladin, Dr. Doolittle series, Mean Girls, old 80's movies, Crash. I love movies that make you think... The Secret has changed my life.

Television:

I watch way too much tv, but hey there are worse things, right. Depends on my mood, anything from CSI to re-runs of I Love Lucy. Looking forward to the 4400 coming back soon.

Books:

Most recently I have been reading about love! Love and Awakening by John Welwood and Perfect Love, Imperfect Relationships, both amazing books! I read anything that grabs me...most of it is linked in some way to a spiritual path or psychology. Read a lot of self help books and poetry, like Rumi and Kahlil Gilbran, stuff like that. Also get into a novel once in a while, too. Psychotherapy is somewhat all consuming, there is always a new book to read, a new path to investigate...that's why I love it!

Heroes:

His Holiness The Dalai Lama, Christopher Reeve, Michael J Fox, my Mom-mom. I think everybody needs a hero.

My Blog

Christmas Dinner

Christmas dinner...made by me, for me... Hoisin Salmon with Garlic Quinoa and vegetables for dessert I made sauteed nectarines and bananas with homeade whipped cream (to die for). Who...
Posted by vixen on Tue, 26 Dec 2006 07:49:00 PST

I would really like to meet someone

someone kind and considerate. someone who respects my opinion and encourages me to have one. someone who listens and delights in my mystery. someone who inspires me to grow, expan...
Posted by vixen on Sun, 08 Oct 2006 01:19:00 PST

I can hardly believe it!

I am actually seeing clients! I feel as if I have been in school forever dreaming of a day when I would feel competent enough to step into the therapist role. The thing I have learned is i...
Posted by vixen on Sun, 08 Oct 2006 11:52:00 PST

cell phones

Ok, I don't mean to offend anyone but since this is "my space" I think I get to have an opinion here, right?I hate when people talk on thier cell phone all the time...like last week I went to the mall...
Posted by vixen on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

What to say to them

I look all right; I know I do I know that I look norml to you But I can't do the things you want me to... and I know you don't believe it's true. It hurts when you look at me that way. I know t...
Posted by vixen on Sat, 17 Sep 2005 03:20:00 PST

my mantra

"Have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves as if they were locked doors or books written in a very foreign language. Don't search for the answers,...
Posted by vixen on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Our darkness

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be...
Posted by vixen on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

just a thought

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our p...
Posted by vixen on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST