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Love Is a Losing Game

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About Me

"I am what I am." Down to earth diva with a laid back attitude. Love to laugh and have a good time. I am too smart for my own good and rarely bite my tongue. Oh yeah I'm kind of a brat too. LOL
Screen Names
AOL: nicoleray85
Yahoo: nicole.phoenix
RULES TO LIVE BY:
•Rule One: Find Your Will
You will need that passion to drive you to make it happen against seemingly impossible odds.
•Rule Two: Do You
Once you have found your will you have to package it and present it to the world.
•Rule Three: Walk This Way
Getting educated is the way to make it happen. Whether you study in college or the school of life, knowledge and experience will give you the tools you need for success.
•Rule Four: The Blueprint
You'll need a road map to success. Create a vision to help you see where it all fits. Focusing on the big picture will help you edit out the things that distract you from success.
•Rule Five: Play Your Position
Don't act like you are too full of it. Have the humility and respect to do your job to the best of your ability, whether it's digging ditches or answering the phone. That's how all great leaders get started.
•Rule Six: Embrace The Struggle
Learning to love the hard times can make you stronger, wiser and more willing to take risks.
•Rule Seven: Get Connected
Build relationships that last forever because success in business depends on positive human interaction.
•Rule Eight: Step Outside Your Box (M.I.X.)
It will help you blow up your ideas to a global level. You have to be open to people from all walks of life because business is the only true melting pot.
•Rule Nine: Don't Let Cash Rule
Greed can trip you up. Money matters, but it's only a means to more options, freedom and security for the future.
•Rule Ten: Flex Purpose, Not Power
It's never too soon in your career to pick up a few management skills and learn how to lead.
-Mr. Kevin Liles
Mad TV - Can I have your number # 2
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Fellas if this looks remotely familiar to you...do yourself a favor and learn how to spit some game. Lol!
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My Interests

Music: It is the driving force of my life. Music compliments my mood, energy, philosophies, beliefs, and expression. Without it I would be lost...

Travel: I have a ton of places I need to see before I check out.

Networking: Our lives are the sum of our experiences. The more people you meet, the richer your life experiences. You can learn so much from others.

Shopping: For some reason this activity never gets old

Fashion: I am obsessed with all things aesthetically pleasing

Horticulture: If you're on the same tip on...enough said

Black People: Culture, History, Art, Music, Literature, Politics, Music, Film

I'd like to meet:

These are people that I would like to come to my crib for a fly ass dinner party. Think of it as my version of Oprah's Legends Ball... I love to laugh! Nothing would please me more than to chill with this dude for a minute. This man is a living legend!!! I love him soooo much. It's always been my dream to have him sing at my wedding. This woman is insane but that's usually the way it goes with phenomenally talented people. John Coltrane Miles Davis Outkast This man is so awsome: amazing talent, incredible business and fashion sense! "And I sport fly shit, I should win an ESPY" Mr. Sean Carter ladies and gentlemen. Kanye West Russell Simmons Kevin Liles Biggie Cornel West Only presidential candidate I've ever had a crush on. Oh Barack! Assata Shakur Marcus Garvey Sidney Poitier Zora Neale Hurston Richard Wright Malcolm X Gabrielle Coco Chanel Gianni Versace Donatella Versace Marc Jacobs Betsey Johnson

Music:

If there were a soundtrack to my life these would be the artists listed...Aaliyah * Alicia Keys * Amerie * Amy Winehouse * Anthony Hamilton * Augustana * Bad Brains * Beenie Man * Beyonce * Bilal * Black Star * Bob Marley & The Wailers * Bun B * Busta Rhymes * Calvin Richardson * Carlos Santana * Case * Cee-Lo * Chaka Khan and Rufus * Chris Brown * Chrisette Michele * Christina Aguilera * Ciara * Clipse * Common * Corrine Bailey Ray * Cutris Mayfield * D'Angelo * Damian Marley * Dead Prez * Dennis Brown * Destiny's Child * Dialated Peoples * Donnie * Donny Hathaway * Dru Hill * Dungeon Family * Dwele * Earth, Wind, and Fire * Erykah Badu * Estelle * Eve * Faith Evans Fallout Boy * Fela Anikulapo Kuti * Fergie * Floetry * Foo Fighters * Frankie Beverly and Maze * The Fuugees * Ghostface Killah * Gnarles Barkley * The Go! Team * Goapele * Gorillaz * Gwen Stefani * Gym Class Heroes * H-Town * India. Arie * Isley Brothers * Jackie-O * James Brown * Jamie Foxx * Jay-Z * Jennifer Hudson * Jet * Jimi Hendrix * Jodeci * John Legend * Junior Mafia * Justin Timberlake * Juvenile * K-Os * Kanye West * Keisha Cole * Keke Wyatt * Kelis * Kelly Price * Kindred The Family Soul * Lady Saw * Lauryn Hill Lil' Mo * Lil Kim * Weezy * Lily Allen * Lost Boys * Ludacris * Lupe Fiasco * Luther Vandross * Lyfe Jennings * M.I.A. * Miariah Carey * Mark Ronson * Maroon 5 * Mary J. Blidge * MC Lyte * Method Man * Mint Condition * Missy Elliott * Monica * Mos Def * Musiq Soulchild * N.E.R.D. * Nas * Nelly Furtado * Nicole Wray * No Doubt * The Notorious B.I.G. * The O'Jays * Outkast * Killer Mike * Papoose * Pharrell Williams * Portishead * Prince * R. Kelly * Reheem Devaughn * Raphael Saadiq * Raul Midon * Rhian Benson * Rick James * Smokey Robinson * Teena Marie * Rihanna * Sizzla * Robin Thicke * The Roots * Sa-Ra * Sean Paul * The Shirelles * Shyne * Slum Village * Stevie Wonder * Swizz Beatz * T.I. * Lil Scrappy * Talib Kweli * Tamia * Tank * Terry Callier * Three-6-Mafia * Too Short * Trina * Tupac * Tweet * UGK * Usher * Van Hunt

Movies:

The Color Purple * 40 Year Old Virgin * Any Dave Chappelle DVD * Westside Story * Requiem for a Dream * Crash * the Dollhouse * Jawbreakers * Godfather * Goodfellas * Blow * Crooklyn * Do The Right Thing * Skool Daze * Carmen Jones * Dumb and Dumber * The Breakfast Club * Sweet Sixteen * Pretty In Pink * Friday * Next Friday * Friday After Next * and so on...

Television:

The Flavor of Love * Parking Wars * Cheaters * Maury * Death Note * Family Guy * Chelsea Lately * The Boondocks * Sucker Free * Intervention * Futurama * Reno 911! * Living Single * Martin * The Simpsons * The First 48 * What Not to Wear * Project Runway * I Love New York * Animal Planet * Discovery Channel * Cartoon Network...

Books:

Assata - Assata Shakur Their Eyes Were Watching God - Zora Neal Hurston The Rose That Grew From Concrete - Tupac Shakur Tar Beach - Faith Ringold Coffee Will Make You Black

Heroes:

Mommy Papi Grandma My Boo

My Blog

It’s gonna happen...

Today's horoscope says: "Choose to be more hopeful that things will get better. Thinking it helps it happen." I really like my proverb for today because it feels like just what I needed. Staying focus...
Posted by Love Is a Losing Game on Thu, 27 Dec 2007 12:01:00 PST

This is gonna be my new thing...

My horoscope today says: "Make an effort to catch up with someone outside of your regular circle of friends." I'm not really into astrology. Actually not at all. I give the whole thing about as much v...
Posted by Love Is a Losing Game on Wed, 28 Nov 2007 10:30:00 PST

How I'm Feeling

Seems I only have a blog entry when I'm bored out of my damn mind. An idle mind is the devil's playground or at least that's what they say. So how am I feeling? As if anyone cares...lol. Damn I can't ...
Posted by Love Is a Losing Game on Mon, 05 Feb 2007 08:28:00 PST

Only two hours and forty eight minutes til my shift is over!

I don't think anyone is really going to keep up with my blog but it's about one in the morning and I'm stuck at work with nothing else to do. I've been on myspace for quite sometime but never eally go...
Posted by Love Is a Losing Game on Thu, 28 Sep 2006 10:13:00 PST

What is this supposed to be about?

I'm not really sure what I'm supposed to be writing in here. This is something like a journal I'm guessing. Well for now I don't have too much to say but I'll think of something......
Posted by Love Is a Losing Game on Tue, 10 Jan 2006 12:23:00 PST