The quest for more knowledge, the meaning of life, the philosophical questions—my mind is always occupied, and what’s exciting is when I get to follow through with an insight and do something. I am an abstract future thinker, looking at things from different perspectives. I embrace change, I love life, I treasure and welcome my life lessons for I recognize that the world teaches you what you need to learn. I’m about the relationships and possibilities and enjoy anything with deeper meaning that leaves me wondering, with more questions to ask and things to untangle. Connecting for me means being able to intuitively ask questions of people to get them to go deeper into the things they are talking about. Inspiring others, helping them find their purpose or meaning, being a different kind of leader from what’s traditional—that’s really gratifying. I just do that naturally. The challenge is opening up people’s minds to have their own original thoughts. I’m a listener and guide. I need a balance between people contact and working on my projects and I don't hesitate to break away from interactions when I get tired out. Thus, my regular sabbaticals.I love independent projects and reading (I have a home library like my grandma!) and writing (I am a writer!). I do my best thinking alone, being alone to go inside and center myself. I have always been drawn to the spiritual that's why I have a lot of spiritual supplements to keep me balanced. ;
Things I love: photography, bonding with my loved ones, scrapbooking, singing, performing onstage, blogging, crafts, personality tests and other self-improvement tools, quotes/quotations, cooking (my favorites are pasta and desserts!), baking, researching (Google-ing?!), pampering myself (spa/salon/home), magazines, detoxifying my life, dancing, beauty, fashion, blings, traveling, stargazing, concerts, great conversations, watching DVDs or movies, relaxing, Boracay, my cousin's beach house in Montemar, Singapore, HongKong, Miss Saigon Broadway Musicale...Piolo Pascual is my ultimate crush (oh well, who doesn't find him attractive?! Hehe)...I'm shifting to a simpler lifestyle right now...I just want my peace and quiet. I'm a sucker for CALAMANSI, I love tomato-based foodies, I love Meiji Macadamia Chocolate, Mountain Dew, Sprite Ice, Skyy Vanilla, Absolut Kurant, Pier One's Zombie, Embassy's Weng Weng and Hypnotique, Dunhill Red Perfume for Men, the theme color of Tiffany&Co., the smell of coffee in the morning, my unique tuna sandwiches, playing and cuddling with my daughter
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The only correct actions are those that demand no explanation and no apology.~Red AuerbachNow that I'm 30 and officially/legally single (not to mention more street smart, more discerning, and more assertive), I already know who I'd like to meet as my future partner. Now, this part will separate MEN from BOYS:
I would love someone with a stable head above his shoulders (read:mature) who can totally understand the complicatedly simple (or simply complicated) me! I'd love to have a man after God's own heart. A man of integrity, character and principles who can manage our relationship well. Lord, please give me someone with a PURE heart and PURE intentions! I just know that if I raise my standards (same for my self-standards), I will also be given a quality man who will go through God's strict screening process. Here's His plan for my lovelife (okay...at this point...men with impure intentions, back-off hehe!):
Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone, to have a deep soul relationship with another, to be loved thoroughly and exclusively.
But God says to a Christian, "No, not until you are satisfied and fulfilled and content with living, loved by me alone, with giving yourself totally and unreservedly to me alone. I love you, my child, and until you discover that only in me is your satisfaction to be found, you will not be capable of the perfect human relationship that I have planned for you. You will never be united with another until you are united with me, exclusive of anyone or anything else, exclusive of any other desires or longings.
"I want you to stop planning, stop wishing, and allow me to give you that most thrilling plan existing, one that you can't imagine. I want you to have the BEST! Please allow me to bring it to you. You just keep watching me, expecting that satisfaction, expecting the greatest things, and know that I Am. Keep learning and listening to the things I tell you. You must wait!
"Don't be anxious. Don't worry. Don't look around at the things others have received. Don't look at the things you think you want. You just keep looking off and away up to me, or you'll miss what I want to show you.
"And then, when you're ready, I'll surprise you with a love far more wonderful than you would ever imagine. You see, until you are ready and until the one I have for you is ready (I am working this very minute to have both of you ready at the same time), until you are both satsifeid exclusively with me and the life I have planned and prepared for you, you won't be able to experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with me...and this is perfect love.
"Dear one, I want you to have this most wonderful love. I want you to see in the flesh a picture of your relationship with me and to enjoy materially and concretely the everlasting union of beauty and perfection and love that I offer you with myself. Know that I love you utterly, I am God Almighty. Believe and be satisfied."
--Author Unknown
Gary V songs, Songs by Black Eyed Peas, After the Chase songs, Hed Kandi Music, Drop the Pressure, My Immortal, Please Don't Ask Me, Drop It Like It's Hot, The Day you Went Away, A Moment Like This, Songs by Moony, I'll Remember, On My Knees, Come as you are, God is the Strength, Shining, I will be here (my future wedding theme song!), Run, You are, I'm free, Everything that has breath, There is none like you, I could sing of your love forever, Be still, Calling us to Believe, and a whole lot of praise music!
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Jerry Maguire, Indecent Proposal, Ever After, Dirty Dancing, Pretty Woman, Somewhere in Time, Bone Collector, The Cutting Edge, Bridges of Madison County, 'Till there was you (hahahaha promise!), HKSL (cheezy!), Only You, Untamed Heart, While you Were Sleeping, Forever Young, Bad Boys I&II, A Walk to Remember, Green Mile, If Only, The Passion of the Christ, Sleepless In Seattle,Green Card, Finding Nemo,Schindler's List, Hitch, How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days, The Italian Job,Ever After,The Bodyguard,The Silence of the Lambs, Ghost, Titanic, Saw, Panic Room, Zodiac K., Fatal Attraction
F.R.I.E.N.D.S. - keeps me laughing even in my darkest days, Oprah
MY BIBLE, A Woman After God's Own Heart, He's Just Not That Into You, When God Writes your Love Story, Heritage, Chicken Soup for the Mother's Soul, Quest for Character, It's not about me, 7 Habits, The Joy of Beauty, God...where is love?, What to do when you don't know what to do, I Kissed Dating Goodbye, Not even a hint, Heavenly Man, and all books by: John Maxwell, Greg Behrendt, Stephen Covey, Joshua Harris, Max Lucado, and our pastor, Ed Lapiz.
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