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Tony Stark

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

I never judge anyone based upon their words. I judge people based upon their actions. "Actions" includes the caliber of friends they choose to keep, because your friends are indicative of your own character.
A few quotes I dig:
"How old would you be, if you did not know how old you were?"
"Did you ever notice that when somebody is blasting music real loud in their car, it's never a good song?"
"No food tastes as good as being in shape feels."
"What would you try, if you knew you could not fail?"
"What you focus on, you win. What you neglect, escapes you."
"I have a good story on my hands and it would be good to speak for people who have no voice."
- Cameron Duncan
"But it ain't about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can GET hit ... and keep ... moving ... forward."
- Rocky Balboa
"My wife just told me that you can't say "homo", so if you're offended, I'm sorry your homo little feelings got hurt. Seems like the whole world is turning homo, but you can't talk about it."
- Jay Adams
"(Your girlfriend was) 20 years old huh? Some things never change. ;) You get older but the girls stay the same."
- My friend Melissa
"Be good... Oh, wait. You can't. So have fun being bad."
- My friend Pepper
"Shut the fuck up."
Matthew 12:37
(King James Version)
(That's really NOT a joke, by the way. Find a Bible and read it. Matthew, Chapter 12, Verse 37 really DOES basicly say, "Shut the fuck up." ... of course, I'm paraphrasing a little.)
I don't own a car. Only a motorcycle. This either makes me exceptionally cool like The Fonz or exceptionally juvenile. I leave it to you to decide, although I don't really care which choice you make. I made this:
Learn To Ride A Motorcycle
I skate. A lot. I made this:
www.LearnToRideASkateboard.com
I have a lot of bicycles. I ride them a lot. I made this:
Learn To Buy A New Bicycle
I've been known to pilot hang gliders. Used to do it a heck of a lot. I made this:
Learn To Fly A Hang Glider
I sometimes take pictures. Here is a link to see some of them:
My Photography Website
I wrote and published a vampire novel that you can buy online. I did it back in 1997, so I guess I'm "resting on my laurels" as a novelist. There are about 20 pages that are so astoundingly brilliant and well-written that I'm stunned to imagine I wrote them. The other 480 pages pretty much suck ass. Here is a website to read chapter samples and order a copy:
The Gothic Rainbow
I wrote, directed, produced and edited an award-nominated independent-film. Here is a webpage to watch the trailer and buy the DVD:
The Unseelie Court
You Are 38% Evil
A bit of evil lurks in your heart, but you hide it well.
In some ways, you are the most dangerous kind of evil. How Evil Are You? /div

My Interests

Once upon a time, I was into photography , hang gliding, writing (novel/short stories) , and making movies (directing/editing) . I still like watching movies, good conversation with great friends, skateboarding, bodyboarding (don't do it enough), skateboarding, clubbing, skateboarding, and DANCING to 80s underground/alternative tunes, white-water-rafting (only did that once, but want to do that again too), exploring Southern California, skateboarding, motorcycling, exploring Southern California ON a motorcycle, and mountain biking. I'm a former AD&D gaming geek, former SCA (Society For Creative Anachronism) member, former BMX freestyler, and used to ride horses a hell of a lot - loved horseback riding and equestrian stuff, if it's outdoors, I will most likely enjoy it.

I'd like to meet:

How about who I do NOT want to meet?

    Anyone with a profile full of photos of you and your friends holding drinks up to the camera in bars. Ugh. No. Stay away from me. Vapid alcoholic barflies who don't know how to have a good time without being wasted are too far below me on the evolutionary scale. People with photos taken in a mirror. You're too stupid to use a goddamn timer, you're not intelligent enough to associate with me. Move along.
There you go. Those 2 stipulations alone eliminate 90% of the people on MySpace.
Also, I do not want to meet ANY of the people who are in this video:
I quote David Spade:
"MySpace is a great way to keep in touch with friends who you don't care enough about to actually have a conversation with. Why bother calling to say "How are you?" when you can just surf to their page and post an MPEG of a guy farting on his cat?"

Music:

1000 Homo DJs, Acid Horse, Adiemus, Alan Silvestri, Alien Sex Fiend, Alphaville, Amy Grant, Android Lust, Anthrax, Anything Box, Apoptygma Berzerk, Attrition, Azure Ray, Babes in Toyland, Bad Religion, Baltimora, Battery, Bauhaus, Beastie Boys, Bel Canto, Bif Naked, Billie Holiday, Big Audio Dynamite, Big Black, Bigod 20, Bikini Kill, Bjork, Black 47, Bongwater, Bonnie Raitt, Book Of Love, Bow Wow Wow, Bryan Ferry, Cabaret Voltaire, Camouflage, Chemical Brothers, Circle Jerks, Clan Of Xymox, Clannad, Click Click, Clock DVA, Cocteau Twins, Coil, Contagion, Cop Shoot Cop, Corey Heart, Cranes, Crowded House, Current 93, Curve, Cyndi Lauper, Damage Manual, Danny Elfman, David Bowie, Dead Can Dance, Descendents, Deep Forest, Delerium, Depeche Mode, Die Krupps, Dieselboy, Die Warzau, Don McLean, Doubting Thomas, Duran Duran, Echo & The Bunnymen, Einsturzende Neubauten, Emiliana Torrini, Enigma, Enya, Erasure, Eurythmics, Fables, Faith & The Muse, Faith Hill, Faith No More, Flesh For Lulu, Flock Of Seagulls, Frank Sinatra, Front 242, Frontline Assembly, Funker Vogt, Garbage, Gary Numan, Gene Loves Jezebel, George Michael, Gordon Lightfoot, Graeme Revell, Haujobb, Harry Connick Junior, Heart, Henry Mancini, Hole, Hooters, Howard Shore, Ice T & Body Count, Iggy Pop, Indigo Girls, In The Nursery, InterMix, Jack Off Jill, James Horner, James Taylor, Jane Siberry, Jane's Addiction, Jerry Goldsmith, Jesus & Mary Chain, Jewel, Johan Sebastian Bach, John Williams, Kate Bush, Kid Rock, Killing Joke, King Missle, KMFDM, Kodo, Kraftwerk, L7, Ladytron, La Floa Maldita, Leather Strip, Lee Ann Womack, Legendary Pink Dots, Len, Lightning Seeds, Lords of Acid, Loreena McKennitt, Louis Armstrong, Lou Reed, Love & Rockets, Lycia, Manufacture, Massive Attack, Mazzy Star, Meat Beat Manifesto, Medicine, Medieval Babes, Mercurine, Mentallo & The Fixer, Michael W. Smith, Mike Oldfield, Ministry, Miranda Sex Garden, Moev, Morrissey, Mr. Mister, Mussolini Headkick, My Bloody Valentine, My Life with Thrill Kill Kult, Negativland, Neucleus, New Order, Nine Inch Nails, Nitzer Ebb, NOFX, Numb, Offspring, Oingo Boingo, OMD, Paleface, Pepper Acton/McGowan, Pet Shop Boys, Peter Gabriel, Pigface, Pink Floyd, Pipe Choir, Pixies, Poison, Pop Will Eat Itself, Prodigy, Psychadelic Furs, PTP, Public Image Limited, Rage Against The Machine, Rammstein, R. Carlos Nakai, Real McCoy, Recoil, Revolting Cocks, Rick Springfield, Robert Rich, Rob Zombie, (Henry) Rollins Band, Run DMC, Sarah McLachlan, Scandal, Sex Pistols, Shriekback, Sigue Sigue Sputnik, Sinead O'Connor, Single Gun Theory, Siouxsie & The Banshees, Sisters of Mercy, Skinny Puppy, Skrew, Snake River Conspiracy, Social Distortion, Soft Cell, Steve Roach, Stiff Little Fingers, Sting, Suicidal Tendencies, Suicide Commando, Sun 60, Suzanne Vega, Swans, Switchblade Symphony, The Beloved, The Cowboy Junkies, The Cramps, The Cure, The Dead Milkmen, The Glove, The Machine In The Garden, The Pogues, The Ramones, The Replacements, The Smiths, The Tear Garden, They Might Be Giants, Think Tree, This Ascension, This Mortal Coil, Tom Petty, Tom Waits, Tones On Tail, Tori Amos, Transvision Vamp, U2, Velvet Acid Christ, Vidna Obmana, Violent Femmes, VNV Nation, Voice Of The Beehive, Voltaire, When In Rome, White Zombie, Will, Wolfgang Mozart, :Wumpscut:, X Marks The Pedwalk, Xorcist, Yello

Movies:

The Abyss, The Adventures Of Baron Munchausen, Airplane!, Akira, Alien, Aliens, Always, Amadeus, Amazon Women On The Moon, Apocalypse Now, Back To The Future, Barton Fink, Beetlejuice, Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Big Trouble In Little China, The Black Cauldron, The Black Hole, Blade Runner, The Blues Brothers, The Boy Who Could Fly, Braveheart, Brazil, The Breakfast Club, Buckaroo Banzai, A Bug's Life, Butch Cassidy & The Sundance Kid, Cannonball Run, Chaplin, Chasing Amy, A Christmas Story, The City Of Lost Children, Clerks, A Clockwork Orange, Close Encounters Of The Third Kind, Closetland, Contact, The Craft, The Crow, Dark City, The Dark Crystal, Dead Poets Society, Die Hard, Dogma, Donnie Darko, Dracula, Dragonheart, Dune, E.T. The Extra Terrestrial, Edward Scissorhands, Escape To Witch Mountain, Excalibur, Explorers, Faerie Tale: A True Story, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, The Fifth Element, Fight Club, Final Fantasy, The Fisher King, Freeway, Gandhi, Gattaca, Ghost In The Shell, Ghostbusters, The Goonies, Gremlins, Hamlet, Harold & Maude, Harry Potter, Hearts Of Darkness, Heathers, High Fidelity, Highlander, Hook, Independence Day, Indiana Jones, It's A Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World, Jabberwocky, Jacob's Ladder, James & The Giant Peach, Jaws, Jesus Of Nazareth, Jumanji, Jurassic Park, Labyrinth, Lady In White, Ladyhawke, The Last Starfighter, The Last Supper, Legend, Little Noises, A Little Princess, Logan's Run, Lord Of The Rings, Lucas, Mary Shelley's Frankenstein, The Matrix, Mindwalk, The Mosquito Coast, Naked Lunch, Natural Born Killers, The Neverending Story, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Noises Off, Office Space, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Peter Pan, Pete's Dragon, Pink Floyd: The Wall, Pretty In Pink, The Princess Bride, Pump Up The Volume, Raising Arizona, Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves, Romeo & Juliet, Say Anything, The Secret Garden, Secretary, The Secret Of N.I.M.H., The Shawshank Redemption, Sixteen Candles, Snow White, Something Wicked This Way Comes, Space Camp, Stand By Me, Star Wars, Starship Troopers, Superman, Tank Girl, Ted & Venus, Terminator, Terminator 2, This Is Spinal Tap, Three O'Clock High, Time Bandits, Toy Story, Toy Story 2, TRON, Tucker, Twelve Monkeys, 2010, The Unseelie Court , V: The Miniseries, WarGames, Weird Science, What Dreams May Come, Willow, Willy Wonka & The Chocolate Factory, Young Frankeinstein (that's "Fronkinsteen"...)

Television:

Sex & The City (never watched it on cable, only on DVD), Robin of Sherwood (1984 BBC programme shown on Showtime), Star Trek: The Next Generation, Inside The Actors Studio, The Larry Sanders Show
Since I grew up in the 70s and 80s, I used to like:
Amazing Stories, The Twilight Zone, The Little Rascals, Batman (yes, with Adam West), CHiPs, The Greatest American Hero, The Smurfs, The Dukes Of Hazzard, B.J. And The Bear, Knight Rider, The Cosby Show, The A-Team, Family Ties, Laverne & Shirley, Happy Days, Mork & Mindy, 3-2-1 Contact, Beyond 2000, MTV (you remember - back when they played music videos...)

Books:

" The Thomas Guide "
by Rand McNally (What do you expect? - I live in LA!)
"The Bridge Across Forever"
by Richard Bach
"One"
by Richard Bach
"Illusions"
by Richard Bach
"Jonathan Livingston Seagull"
by Richard Bach
"The Catcher In The Rye"
by J.D. Salinger
"Nine Stories"
by J.D. Salinger
"Ariel"
by Steven Boyett
"Where The Wild Things Are"
by Maurice Sendak
"A Wrinkle In Time"
by Madeleine L'Engle
"The Stone & The Flute"
by Hans Bemmann
"The Neverending Story"
by Michael Ende
"Faerie Tale"
by Raymond E. Feist
The Gothic Rainbow
by me

Heroes:

Charlie Chaplin
Charlie was 29 years old when he wed Mildred Harris; she was 16.
Charlie was 35 years old when he wed Lita Grey; Lita was 16.
Charlie was 47 years old when he wed Paulette Goddard; Paulette was 25.
Charlie was 54 years old when he wed Oona O'Neill; Oona was 17.
Charlie and Oona were married for 34 years...
Nice going, Charles!

My Blog

How Much Did That Cost You?

Short Rant: Two social graces and manners that your parents should have taught you and people need to be reminded of: 1. Never ask a total stranger how much something cost them. That is rude and inapp...
Posted by Tony Stark on Mon, 24 Mar 2008 09:45:00 PST

What Happened to All the Nice Guys?

I DID NOT WRITE THIS! I FOUND IT ON A BEST OF CRAIG’S LIST RANT! I do not belive in plagarizing, so it’s important to me to note when I am not the author of a blog. But, damn, I sure wish ...
Posted by Tony Stark on Fri, 14 Mar 2008 01:34:00 PST

To The Homeless Dude Shitting On Chandler Boulevard

Dear Homeless Dude, I realize that you will never read this. Yet in some esoteric, new-age-hippie, transcendental kind of way, I felt I had to put this message out into the universe and perhaps you mi...
Posted by Tony Stark on Thu, 13 Mar 2008 09:10:00 PST

All Relationships Are Temporary

My childhood was spent being raised by my maternal grandparents in the 1970s.Neither of my grandparents were very affectionate people. That is not to say they were mean at all. They weren't cruel or h...
Posted by Tony Stark on Mon, 24 Dec 2007 11:01:00 PST

"The Harlot's House" by Oscar Wilde

We caught the tread of dancing feet,We loitered down the moonlit street,And stopped beneath the harlot's house. Inside, above the din and fray,We heard the loud musicians playThe 'Treues Liebes Herz' ...
Posted by Tony Stark on Wed, 28 Nov 2007 06:47:00 PST

What Democracy Means to Me

"What Democracy Means to Me"by Johnny Carson, 11 September 1991To me, democracy means placing trust in the little guy, giving the fruits of nationhood to those who built the nation. Democracy means an...
Posted by Tony Stark on Tue, 13 Nov 2007 08:06:00 PST

Is It A Celebrity Sighting If You Dont Know The Celebirty?

So I'm at Borders tonight looking for the issue of Thrasher Magazine that reviewed my skate video.There's some bearded dude across the aisle from me looking at music magazines. Some black chick comes ...
Posted by Tony Stark on Wed, 03 Oct 2007 11:26:00 PST

The Dumbest Girl In The World?

Check out this email correspondance. It all begins with me writing to an old friend that I haven't seen for awhile...-------------------------------------------21 September 2007From: EricTo: The GirlS...
Posted by Tony Stark on Mon, 01 Oct 2007 05:17:00 PST

Integrity & Devotion

"This is a song about a couple of adult people who have spent, oh, quite a long time together, until one day one of them gets restless and decides to ... leave. Wether it's the man or woman who left i...
Posted by Tony Stark on Tue, 28 Aug 2007 08:39:00 PST

You Can’t Have Lloyd Dobler!

Having a conversation with a girl and something occured to me. She mentioned wanting to find her own Lloyd Dobler. Lots of women feel that way. I can't blame them. I do my best to be like Lloyd. He's ...
Posted by Tony Stark on Mon, 27 Aug 2007 11:52:00 PST