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Nessa

Mallomars complete me

About Me

Mom of four, wife of one. Writer since childhood, cat owner, and collector of pop-culture ephemera (ask me about my K-Tels). Coca-Cola and chocolate wake me up in the morning, and iTunes keeps me awake while I work. I would find it impossible to cook without cheese; I could live on pizza, if forced. I have never driven a car or any other motor vehicle (unless Atari Pole Position counts). Speaking of which, arcade-style video games are the best, because you can move your whole body along with the joystick. Sitting in a soft sofa is no way to shoot down aliens! Video games I love: Gorf, Galaga, Omega Race, Missile Command, Tempest, and Snood. I'm not a fan of being cold, per se, but winter makes me feel intensely creative and wakeful (especially at night). And finally, many thanks to http://www.whateverlife.com for helping me figure out the code for this personalized myspace.
WHY I ADORE FRANCIS DUNNERY: My favorite video of all time. Still leaves me spellbound and grinning. WHY I ADORE TODD RUNDGREN: My favorite song of all time...it never fails to reach deep into my heart and understand me.

My Interests

Writing, music played loud, quilting, knitting, d.j.ing, genealogy, reading, looking for aurora borealis, seeking joy.

I'd like to meet:

The guy who invented the translucent plastic filaments that secure price tags to clothing, so I can complain about them.

Music:

Genesis, Francis Dunnery, John Mayer (and his Trio), John Doe, Todd Rundgren/Utopia, Kasim Sulton, Squeeze, Pearl Jam, The Beatles, Ben Kweller, Count Basie, Peter Frampton, Kelley Stoltz, Sondre Lerche, Michael Penn, The Bay City Rollers, Steely Dan, Cibo Matto, Wide Mouth Mason, Al Green, Slau, Sufjan Stevens, the dBs, Led Zeppelin, the Fratellis, U2, Jimmy Smith, King's X, James, Bucky and John Pizzarelli, Silverchair, Journey, KC and the Sunshine Band, King Crimson, the Hold Steady, Novillero, Steadman, Ben Folds, the Boomtown Rats, the Nashville Attitude, the Shoes, Bram Tchaikovsky, the Knack, Sloan, Queen, David Ryan Harris, the Odds, anything released on Stiff Records, everything Motown, Fleetwood Mac, Brad Paisley, Gomez, Maggi Pierce and E.J., Jamie Cullum, the Partridge Family, Marvin Gaye. And many, many more.

Movies:

Blades of Glory, The Philadelphia Story, Flirting with Disaster, Trees Lounge, Saturday Night Fever, Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back, Toy Story, Rocky Horror Picture Show, My Bodyguard, Animal House, High Fidelity, anything with Liam Neeson (but especially Michael Collins and Rob Roy), A Hard Day's Night, E.T., Joe's Apartment, Xanadu, anything Marx Brothers.

Television:

Kids in the Hall, Gilmore Girls, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Freaks and Geeks, My So-Called Life, Monty Python's Flying Circus, Seinfeld, The Brendan Leonard Show, Green Acres, Roseanne, pre-Disney Nickelodeon Doug, the early days of Comedy Central, Pee-Wee's Playhouse, Black Adder, Bosom Buddies, The Mighty Boosh, Flintstones/Jetsons (the Hanna-Barbera yin/yang), The X-Files, The Dick Van Dyke Show, Bob Newhart, Uncle Floyd, Cheers, Taxi, The Carol Burnett Show, General Hospital.

Books:

Kick Me by Paul Feig, The Real Animal House by Chris Miller, any Beatles biography, any Beat literature, Angela's Ashes by Frank McCourt, Veronica Ganz by Marilyn Sachs, Yonnondio by Tillie Olson, I Never Loved Your Mind by Paul Zindel, Trinity by Leon Uris, Harriet the Spy by Louise Fitzhugh, Cherry by Mary Karr, Birthday Letters by Ted Hughes, A Guide to Recognizing Your Saints by Dito Montiel, poetry anthologies: Sylvia Plath, Anne Sexton, John Donne, Gerard Manley Hopkins, Billy Collins, Dorothy Parker, Richard Brautigan, Charles Bukowski.

Heroes:

Captain Kangaroo/Mister Rogers (the yin/yang of live-action, old-school kids' shows), Charles Winans, Harpo Marx, Jon Stewart, Eddie Izzard, Lynda Barry, and my nana, Tutta Pinette Arnold.

My Blog

Entangled

The non-specific longing that engulfed me at age 15 remains the most sustained spasm of feeling I have ever experienced. I had always been prone to crushes and flights of fantasy, but as my freshman y...
Posted by Nessa on Sat, 26 May 2007 09:39:00 PST

The Diamond Anniversary

On May 8, 1932, a 35-year-old woman prepared for her wedding. A wedding she never expected to have, which resulted from a love story she never expected to be living. Her intended was 28 years old, a C...
Posted by Nessa on Wed, 09 May 2007 11:41:00 PST

Dear Hamish,

Thanks for your note! When your mom told me how much you love funk music, I was just bowled over, and I couldn't get to the iTunes to make that mix disc fast enough. It's not every fourth-grader who ...
Posted by Nessa on Tue, 23 Jan 2007 11:02:00 PST

Sweet honesty

Avon made a perfume called Sweet Honesty back in the day (by the way, that's Pam Dawber of Mork and Mindy fame).Sort of Avon's answer to the ubiquitous Love's Baby Soft, which I actually never smelled...
Posted by Nessa on Sat, 06 Jan 2007 02:04:00 PST

"I challenge you to a game of beer pong"

The quoted sentence above was said to me exactly half my life ago. My senior year of college, which had just begun, was proving...tricky. I had just completed my final officership in my coed fraternit...
Posted by Nessa on Thu, 26 Oct 2006 11:46:00 PST

UPDATE: Our visit with Dot

Yesterday our whole family piled into a tiny room at an eldercare facility and enjoyed an hour with our dear friend Dot. It truly was the smallest room I've ever seen in such a facility...and that's s...
Posted by Nessa on Sun, 22 Oct 2006 03:07:00 PST

Meeting Ellen

There's a lot of paternalism about genealogy. The surnames that motivate most family historians are paternal--understandably so, since those names stay the same (well, nearly, given the vicissitudes o...
Posted by Nessa on Fri, 20 Oct 2006 01:19:00 PST

Tiger's eye

Technically, it was our first date, but we never called it that. You took me to the movies...Rocky, what, III? "Eye of the Tiger"...that one. A Sunday evening. You and I sat as close as we could with ...
Posted by Nessa on Fri, 13 Oct 2006 09:28:00 PST

UPDATE: Nonagenarians II

Thank you so much to everyone who commented on last night's blog. I was comforted and heartened by your words. In true smalltown style, I found out about Dot's situation this afternoon. You see, when...
Posted by Nessa on Wed, 11 Oct 2006 07:52:00 PST

Nonagenarians

I'm done with the word "old". To the best of my ability, I'm going to try to avoid it. It's a judgement, it's a distancing and a defense mechanism, it's unfair. Case in point: two people I am proud to...
Posted by Nessa on Tue, 10 Oct 2006 09:22:00 PST