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Cherry

Cherry … Cherry … QUITE CONTRARY !!!

About Me

SISSY … there is nothing in this world I want more than to live, love, dance and prance as a SISSY.I’d rather be a girl, but since that was not my fate, I’ve chosen to be a Sissy … a girl by choice. I’m not a transsexual … I’m not a woman trapped in a man’s body. I don't hate being a male … but it does bore me and seem like a waste of a life, a life time and a lifestyle. I would not mind being a Woman … all my heroes and role models are Women … but, I can not pretend to possess that precious brilliant soul that gives Women such compassion, selflessness, humanity, wisdom, strength and beauty … so spontaneously and instinctively. So, I choose to be Sissy.I choose to be Sissy for several reasons. First, the term invites derision and lowers one to the status of female. No, I’m not saying females are of a lower level, quite the opposite, but I am saying there is a prejudice, a bigotry, the most universal on this planet, that seeks to put Women in this position. But, I see things differently, I see Women as the perfection of humanity and want to be like them … so I chose to be a Sissy. I want everyone to call me a Sissy. I want all the people who think of Women as lesser souls to condemn, berate and denounce me. I want them to think lesser of me (a generic male who wants to be a girlie) than they do of Women. I want to bask in their ignorance and prejudice … knowing the truth. The word “sissy” (you can look it up), simply means, “little sister.” That is who I want to be, every Woman’s little sister … following in her path … learning from her … and becoming every day more, and more, like her. I choose to be Sissy proudly.I reject the more common terms of “transvestite” and “crossdresser.” I do not want to be “trans” male. I want to be a full pledged Sissy. I do not want to “cross” dress. I want dress, look and act as myself, a Sissy. I could not imagine living my life in anything other than panties … it is my natural and true affinity … to do otherwise would be crossdressing. The only time I actually see myself in the mirror, the real, and only, me, is when I am living as my Sissy self.It is not always so serious, being a sissy. I mean, I really love my panties, lipstick, pretty shoes, and all the color, the freedom, the art, the expression, the fun that comes with being girlie and enjoying it to the fullest.I suppose I’m a lesbian. I know I find the concepts of “lesbian feminism” very intriguing. I don’t thing one is properly defined as either female or male simply by their genitalia, nor do I thing such an arbitrary requirement exist to identify one’s self as lesbian, straight or whatever. I am attracted to identify as female and/or feminine and who appreciate me in the feminine sissy persona. So, I suppose that makes me a lesbian. There is nothing so sensitive, or exciting, to my being than to be handled intimately by a feminine spirit as a feminine being.Yes, I used the term, “to be handled,” I am inescapably passionately passive, perhaps submissive, and naturally a “bottom.” While this is what excites and fires my deepest passions, it is not a kink. It is simply my dream, my fantasies, my needs, my reality. I am a pleaser, a giver, a person who conquers her own needs through surrender.I am not into pain for pain’s sake, nor BDSM per se. I am, however, strongly attracted to a dynamic D/s relationship. I am very interested in an Obedient relationship. I have many doors to pass through in order to fulfill myself as a Sissy but I often lack the courage to take these steps. For me Obedience is a journey into personal liberation and wholeness. At the same time, it is an intense bond with the person who will rule, guide and dominate me. I also seek Vulnerability. I believe that weakness and being protected are the true gifts one has to give to any special person who accepts me as her supplicant. To surrender fully, to be physically dependent upon her, is my debt, and my gift of adoration. Finally I seek Humility, the practice of putting another’s will before my own. To be able to accept my dominant’s view and desire of me as primary to my own. I do not seek, nor do I identify, punishment as a form of correction. I do, however, understand the purpose and value of corporal acts of authority in order to confirm the total supremacy of the will of the dominant, and the total powerlessness of the submissive.Obedience is also my sexual preference, just as Sissy is my true gender. I have certain sexual preferences that are innate to me, but my ultimate preference is to act out the will of my Superior. No matter what she may order, I know the act is ultimately to please Her … hence my choice of sexual preference.While this could be a tall order in certain scenarios, I have to admit that while I am not in the least attracted to masculine persons, (nor do I prefer to act out in the masculine myself), I am not at all repulsed or offended by the male member itself. There is an old joke drag queens tell about tucking their penises up between their legs to achieve the female illusion. They quip, “It’s not that I mind having a cock shoved up my bottom, I just wish it were not my own.” Ladies who have a penis, either by choice of attachments, or by birth, are extremely erotic and welcome to my submission. It’s only dicks on pricks that I do not naturally find desirable.So, this is me. Sissy, sexy, submissive, feminist, giving … Cherry.

My Interests

FEMINISM ~ CIVIL RIGHTS ~ HUMAN RIGHTS ~ JUSTICE ~ PEACE ~ LINGERIE ~ PANTIES ~ SHOPPING ~ LIPSTICK ~ HIGH HEELS ~ VINTAGE LINGERIE ~ FORMAL GOWNS ~ PETTICOATS ~ MICRO MINI SKIRTS ~ SISSY MAID SERVICE ~ D/s ~ FEMDOMME ~ SPANKING ~ ~ STRAP-ONS ~ WIGGLES & GIGGLES ~ MUSEUMS ~ TRAVEL ~ ART ~ and being a very PRETTY MISSIE PRISSY SISSY!

I'd like to meet:

Same thing – Panties and Politics. First, all of us who just naturally dress in panties have some things in common; a view and an unspoken understanding of a world of affection and romance, color and warmth, sensuality and sensitivity, passion and empathy, courage and conviction. It is soft, it’s frou-frou, it’s ruled by our emotions and our deepest feelings ~ in a word, it’s girlish. And, girlishness is a good thing. LADIES ONLY PLEASE. It you’re wearing panties “right now” you’re someone I could feel a real connection with. My private world here is a Lady’s Powder Room, a Femme Sanctuary – no men allowed. I LOVE the company of women! Next, politics? Well, lets just say a Lady who is smart enough to have an opinion, especially about herself. I LOVE STRONG WOMEN, real strong women, intelligent, with high self esteem and a brain, with a wit and a will, they are not afraid to show. A Woman who thinks enough of Herself, and the Female experience, to understand how a male would want to strive to be a Sissy as an ideal and a prize. A Woman who knows the world prejudice of male preference is no more than an ocean of ignorance and sees a male who endeavors to free himself of the prejudices as an exception and a merit. A Woman who speaks her mind, not just her mouth, and compassion with conviction. A Female Supremacist, or Dominate? Yes, in the real and self accepting vein, not just a costumed character. A Woman whose domination and power is not just in her whip or her boots, but in her gift of Femaleness and her value of that gift. Nevertheless, I LOVE “take charge” Women who understand I am not a man, but a Sissy; and that I need their strength, their guidance and their passion to free myself to the beauty and happiness I seek. I am, vulnerable, I am weak, and I know these are gifts to given to, and to be received from, compassionate strong real Women. I would love to know ladies I can look up to, or at least be accepted among for and what I really am.What DOES NOT MATTER is Race, Sexual Orientation, Gender (as long as you identify as a Lady), Adult Age, Nationality, Religion, Size, etc. Simply put, if we're both wearing a panties right now, we already have a basic connection and a common feeling and exprience. Thank you !!!!LESBIANS ~:~ GODDESSES ~:~ FEMINIST ~:~ TRANSSEXUALS ~:~ FEM DOMMES ~:~ LESBIAN FEMINIST ~:~ LADIES ~:~ MADAMES ~:~ LESBIAN SUPREMIST ~:~ MISTRESSES ~:~ WOMEN OF COLOR ~:~ QUEENS ~:~ LIBERALS ~:~ FEMALE SUPREMIST ~:~ RADICALS ~:~ SISSIES ~:~ QUEERS ~:~ LESBIAN TRANSSEXUALS ~:~ MOMMIES ~:~ ACTRESSES ~:~ PROSTITUTES ~:~ TRANSVESTITES ~:~ BISEXUALS ~:~ LIPSTICK LESBIANS ~:~ BOSSY WOMEN ~:~ CROSSDRESSERS ~:~ ACTIVIST ~:~ WHORES ~:~ MEAN GIRLS ~:~ HOMOSEXUALS ~:~ GIRLIE GIRLS ~:~ BULL DYKES ~:~ TEACHERS ~:~ MAKE UP ARTIST ~:~ SLUTS ~:~ HAIRDRESSERS ~:~ RADICAL LESBIAN FEMINIST ~:~ FAG HAGS ~:~ FASHION DIVAS ~:~ NYMPHOMANIACS ~:~ SISSY MAIDS ~:~ BITCHES ~:~ FEMALE SPIRITS ~:~ VIRGINS ~:~ DOMINATRIXES ~:~ ARTIST ~:~ SMART GIRLS ~:~ WRITERS ~:~ RADICAL: WOMEN ~:~ PANTY PEOPLE …..

Music:

I AM PROUD TO BE A SISSY !!! I am not merely a "transvestite" or a "crossdresser." I am a full blown SISSY to the core of soul and happy for it. If you have an issue with that take it up with the GODDESS who created me or that Fairy Godmother lady who sprinkled all that wonderful sissy fairy dust all over me!!!

Movies:

LADY SINGS THE BLUES and THE COLOR PURPLEView full size

Television:

The L WordHistory Channel, PBS, Front LineAMERICA'S TOP MODELMSNBC COUNTDOWN with Keith Oberman

Books:

READING IS FUN-A-MENTALA CHARM SCHOOL FOR SISSY MAIDS by MISTRESS LORELEII read this, the joys of a Sissy from a Woman’s point of view, and understood for the first time that I truly was and wanted to be OBEDIENT, VULNERABLE and HUMBLE toward Women. I also realized my soul totally craves being a panty slave and Sissy Maid! Here is an excerpt:“The ideal sissy maid, quivering with fear, slowly raises his skirts for the punishment he knows he deserves. Without a struggle, he lays himself over his Lady’s lap, only raising his eyes to beg for mercy from a Mistress who, he knows, will not supply it. During the castigation he may moan, weep, or wriggle, but he does not resist. At the end of the spanking, he thanks his Mistress for her attention to his development. Later, as he stands in the corner, he shifts occasionally but doesn’t rub the red ass he is still displaying.”GIRLFRIEND: MEN, WOMEN and DRAG by HOLLY BRUBACHThis is actually a very FEMINIST book. The author studied drag all over the world; from Thailand to Brazil, from Paris to New York. She found out the reason it was unacceptable for boys to be girls, except in theater, is due to the world wide gender bigotry that presupposes being male is always preferable to being female. Obviously, we can not have boys being allowed to admit they’d rather be girls if we are going to maintain that myth! So, the rule is; boys shall not “admit” to waning to be girls. I loved this book! It freed me. It made me a confirmed Feminist and for the first time able to not accept, but appreciate being a Sissy! Imagine, if we accepted that it was okay for boys to want to be girls, we would have to admit that Women were equals to men. I think it’s past time we changed the world!

Heroes:

One is not born a woman, one becomes one. --Simone de BeauvoirALICE WALKER [The Color Purple] explains a Womanist is to Feminist what the color purple is to lavender. “A woman who loves other women, sexually and/or nonsexually. Appreciates and prefers women’s culture, women’s emotional flexibility...and women’s strength. Sometimes loves individual men, sexually and/or nonsexually. Committed to survival and wholeness of entire people, male and female. Not a separatist, except periodically, for health. Traditionally universalistic. With this personal mandate Walker rejects social labeling that fixes categories and dictates behavior. She does not apologize for or explain her desires; periodic political changes; or inclusive vision of color. This makes Walker a palatable representative of race, gender, even same-sex desire—tempered with heteronormativity.”" Never argue with an idiot. They'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience."“SEX is so much more then just penetration... its a certain touch on the inner part of your wrist with a simple finger nail, a certain lick on the inner part of your thigh, a certain scent when you inhale deeply in the back of your mates neck!. It's the satisfaction of holding your mate so close you can feel there pulse resonate through out your whole body! SEX fails in comparison to the sheer JOY of making love.” Posted by TS-Secrete on Black Planet“. . . Women have been taught to suspect the erotic urge, the place that is uniquely female. So, just as we tend to reject our blackness because it has been termed inferior, as women we tend to reject our capacity for feeling, our ability to love, to touch the erotic, because it has been devalued. But it is within this that lies so much of our power, our ability to posit, our vision. Because once we know how deeply we can feel, we begin to demand from all of our life pursuits that they be in accordance with these feelings. . . .”“But the true feminist deals out of a lesbian consciousness whether or not she ever sleeps with women. I can't really define it in sexual terms alone although our sexuality is so energizing why not enjoy it too? But that comes back to the whole issue of what the erotic is. There are so many ways of describing "lesbian." Part of the lesbian consciousness is an absolute recognition of the erotic within our lives and, taking that a step further, dealing with the erotic not only in sexual terms. . . .”“While Black sisters don't like to hear this, I would have to say that all Black women are lesbians because we were raised in the remnants of a basically matriarchal society no matter how oppressed we may have been by patriarchy. We're all dykes, including our mommas. Let's really start getting past the shibboleths and taboos. They don't really matter. Being able to recognize that the function of poetry or any art is to ennoble and empower us in a way that's not separate from our living, that belief is African in origin.”Audré Geraldine Lord (1924 – 1992)

My Blog

ART and FEMININITY

I grew up in a family of artist. Not art lovers, or gallery goers, actual artist & painters, sculptors, photographers & I was just chatting with a very bright and curious lady on line who asked me wh...
Posted by Cherry on Mon, 18 Aug 2008 04:13:00 PST

The Inner Femme and All Women

A man will reveal, in his inner female, exactly what his attitude is to women. A woman, whose identity, unfortunately, eludes me now, wrote these profound words, paraphrased here. She was referring ...
Posted by Cherry on Mon, 07 Apr 2008 07:39:00 PST

PRETTY

I want to be pretty. There & I said it and, I mean it. When we were little, they always told the boys to make a muscle and show everybody how "strong" we were. Then, they would have the girls come in...
Posted by Cherry on Mon, 24 Sep 2007 06:51:00 PST

To You My Friends ....

I wanted to share this with all of you who are kind enough to notice me. It was written as a reply to one individual (on another contact website), but it really applies to all of You who care enough ...
Posted by Cherry on Fri, 27 Jul 2007 04:22:00 PST

Sexism, Feminism and Sissyism

That thing inside you, that tickles you and makes you smile is enough. Maybe it's all there should be. For me, it's seeing myself, and being myself, as my girlie self. I love my panties. I love ...
Posted by Cherry on Fri, 23 Mar 2007 02:04:00 PST

If You Show Me Yours ~ I'll Show You Mine

I don't think I could imagine being very happy if I were not a sissy. Being a sissy is so delightful, so much fun, so giving and rewarding, so innocent, healthy and opposite the care and burdens of l...
Posted by Cherry on Mon, 01 Jan 2007 08:54:00 PST

SISSY HEAVEN

I want to try them all on!...
Posted by Cherry on Mon, 31 Jul 2006 07:48:00 PST

Sissy Heaven

Isn't this what Heaven must be like!?...
Posted by Cherry on Mon, 31 Jul 2006 07:47:00 PST

What Sissy Heaven Must Look LIke

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Posted by Cherry on Mon, 31 Jul 2006 07:57:00 PST

ALICE WALKER - WOMANIST - THE COLOR PURPLE

Alice Walker is one of my heros. She is best known as the author of the book, "The Color Purple," which later became the movie. I admire Alice Walkers individualism. She had the courage to have an i...
Posted by Cherry on Thu, 08 Dec 2005 10:06:00 PST