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Mrs. Lollie Bakker

Once in while, in an ordinary life, love gives us a fairytale.

About Me

There are many ways to describe me. Like every other human being on this planet I am a multi-faceted individual. However, for many years I have submitted to defining myself, simply, as teacher and singer. I am a Special Education teacher that teaches reading to students with learning disabilities, autism, and cognitive disabilities. I sing alto in Cantate. That simple mentality has been altered tremendously.
I've already come to the conclusion that I am and will always be one of the world's hopeless romantics. So it isn't surprising that the fairytale romance of falling in love with a man from a world away is a dream come true. Who would have guessed that a girl from the tiny island of Guam and a man from the tiny country of The Netherlands could fall so deeply in love?
Okay, yeah, I know... corny stuff... but I am so happy guys. I have NEVER, in all my life, felt so loved. *beam* July 28, 2007... I am now Mrs. Bakker... and loving it.
So all in all, I am ECSTATIC! *BEAMING*
My advice to all the women out there..."Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, "that's her"."~Anonymous~

My Interests

My Husband. Singing. Teaching a bunch of MIDDLE SCHOOL kids (although, this is VERY STRESSFUL). SINGING in Cantate helps relieve that! OH I love READING TOO...

I'd like to meet:

I am not picky when it comes to the people I meet. I love meeting new people. It's exciting, almost like the feeling I get when I get a new cycle of students. Hee hee... Similar to the feeling of...OH, do you remember that feeling you got when you were a kid and you opened up a box of new crayons? Well, THAT'S IT really..Wait, I am wrong. I don't think I have the heart and patience to meet people who are superficial or racist and fail to see the beauty and worth of all God's children. *For those of you who know me... you know that I get along with EVERYONE AND ANYONE* Lately though, I've not had the will to even TRY to start a foundation of friendship with people who are plastic. Therein lies the ULTIMATE CHANGE in me.

Music:

OH OKAY here we go... When it comes to singing I LOVE Choral music and Jazz.However, when it comes to listening to music I profess to be a lover of music. With that being said it opens up the doors to EVERY SINGLE GENRE OF MUSIC. From CLASSICAL TO HEAVY METAL and beyond. To name only one particular genre would be a little hypocritical wouldn't it? When I was riding the bus in high school, I was the only girl to have a mixed tape (Yeah yeah I said TAPE and not CD sheesh.. dating myself aren't I?) of Debussy, Bach , Pachebel Canon in D mixed in with Metallica, Faith no More, Enya, Santana, Chicago, Eagles, and Steely Dan. *wink* I LOVE MUSIC!!!!!!!!!

I have to give some RECOGNITION to a few of my favorites though:
TWO WEEKS NOTICE : Richie, Mike, Cedric, Brian, Mario, Vince, and Doug (formerly)

MONISKAT 7: Jason, Juan, John, Jimi, Jeff, Mike, Dawn

SIRENU:Marc, Bert, Andrew, Logan

FUSION : Mitch, AC, DeeMo, Atlas

RoMZ Tha ILLAMNTL

SIKMIND

Maseha: Rich, Bert, Marc, Davey, Logan

Movies:

The Color Purple, Harry Potter, Goonies, The Never Ending Story, Princess Bride, SpaceBalls, The Labyrinth, The Dark Crystal, The Lord of the Rings, CrashI love drama, romantic comedy, some action, some thriller, NEVER EVER horror (I'm much too much of a scaredy cat), I love movies that come from books, science fiction, fantasy...I find emotional situations in most movies I watch. Let me put it this way, I cried during The Lord of the Rings... I READ IT... I KNEW the story... BUT I cried anyway... POOR GANDALF!u

Television:

Grey's Anatomy, Charmed, Gilmore Girls, Ugly Betty, Heroes...

Books:

My favorite authors are Judith McNaught, Johanna Lindsey, Julie Garwood, Diana Gabaldon, and Jude Deveraux. If you know your authors you'll notice that these are all Romance novelists. I get so much grief for that... sheesh... there's nothing like a predictable, happy ending story for a really stressful day. I do like an occasional brain enhancing, thought provoking, can-not-put-it-down-or-stop-reading-or-you-will-lose-your-mi nd book... books like The Lord of the Rings... Once in a while. CURRENTLY: Harry Potter book 7

Heroes:


Chamoru's are of a Matrilineal society. My hero, therefore, is naturally a woman. More specifically though, she's my grandmother. Dolores Untalan Pangelinan was an extremely strong woman.
During WWII, despite being threatened with death and punched 18 times on the face, she held onto the notion that her love for her beau, my grandfather, was stronger. In 1944, she and my grandfather were secretly married by a priest under the cover of darkness.
She raised 7 loving and headstrong children. She raised some of her grandchildren as well, me included.
After being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, the doctors gave her 6 months to live. She fought back and lasted 9 years!
In 1994, despite being bedridden for many years, my grandmother finally had her church wedding. She rode into mass dressed in a beautiful cream colored island style wedding dress and golden ballerina slippers on a decorated hospital gurney. I have never seen so many people at one celebration.
She was an amazing woman. I am privileged to have known her for as long as I did. I love you mama!

My Blog

Eternal Rest Grant Unto Him Oh Lord, Rest in Peace FJ.

FJ... from my perspective...Today was his funeral.  Frank Joseph Arceo Pangelinan, Jr., my cousin, Fj.He was one of the oldest in my generation of the family.  The second oldest, in fact.&nb...
Posted by Mrs. Lollie Bakker on Tue, 13 Feb 2007 06:59:00 PST

Holland, Efteling

We woke up at around 8 ish.  I ate cereal that tasted like Sugar Smacks... you know, the cereal with the frog?  Got on our way to the Efteling.  Dennis and I in one car and Marcel and h...
Posted by Mrs. Lollie Bakker on Sun, 31 Dec 2006 03:33:00 PST

Holland, 2nd day of Christmas

Family Dinner at Patrick and Marlies'.  We had gourmet.  Basically, these electric powered grills are set out in front of the family and we have to cook our food in front of us.  It was...
Posted by Mrs. Lollie Bakker on Sun, 31 Dec 2006 03:12:00 PST

MERRY CHRISTMAS from Holland_Monday

Okay, so it's now 9:56 A.M.  Den and I just woke up.  No one else in the house is awake yet though.  It's very nice waking up next time him.  MOST ESPECIALLY when I have bad dreams...
Posted by Mrs. Lollie Bakker on Mon, 25 Dec 2006 01:02:00 PST

I'm in Holland_Sunday

Woke up at 10:30 today!  WOOHOO!!!! Well, I DID wake up at 5:30 but I FORCED myself  back to sleep.  Last night when we got home Den and I realized that Mom had the table set up for bre...
Posted by Mrs. Lollie Bakker on Mon, 25 Dec 2006 12:56:00 PST

I'm in Holland_Saturday

I woke up early once again.  Gladly, not freakishly early... 6:45 A.M.  That's doable... at least it isn't 5:30 A.M.  Dennis is frustrated that I'm awake so early.  Apparently, I a...
Posted by Mrs. Lollie Bakker on Sat, 23 Dec 2006 10:29:00 PST

I'm in Holland_Friday

Slept in Sneek last night in Dennis'old room.  It is conveniently the computer room as well and there is a door that leads directly into the shower room.  I say shower room because there is ...
Posted by Mrs. Lollie Bakker on Fri, 22 Dec 2006 01:52:00 PST

I'm in Holland_Thursday

Today is my BIRTHDAY.  YAY! Happy Birthday ME! (AND SABETE *MUAH* )I woke up quite LATE according to my standards here!  I woke up at 10:55 A.M.  Mom and dad woke us up when they called...
Posted by Mrs. Lollie Bakker on Thu, 21 Dec 2006 12:24:00 PST

I'm in Holland_Wednesday

I met Den's bestman, Roald Meyer, and his girlfriend, Hendrika, last night.  We went to their house at around 8:30 last night.  It was a really nice evening.  They have a beautiful home...
Posted by Mrs. Lollie Bakker on Wed, 20 Dec 2006 02:14:00 PST

I'm in Holland_Tuesday

http://www1.snapfish.com/thumbnailshare/AlbumID=54734576/a=1 4487204_14487204/t_=14487204So, I woke up at 5:30 again today.  But, I think I should be said that I slept freaken EARLY!  I slept...
Posted by Mrs. Lollie Bakker on Tue, 19 Dec 2006 11:53:00 PST