Movies:
BABEL, the million dollar hotel, ZUSAMMEN IST MAN WENIGER ALLEIN, elementarteilchen (but I havent read the book), DONNIE DARKO, City of Good, Trainspotting, American Beauty, SOMERSAULT, Garden State, Dr. Strangelove, Lolita, Brasil, GLOOMY SUNDAY, Snatch, Fight Club, The Edukators, L'auberge Espanol (Wiedersehen in St. Petersburg), Herr Lehmann, Was nützt die Liebe in Gedanken, Nackt, Before sunrise, Before sunset, Memento, Charade, K-pax, Match Point, MY SUMMER OF LOVE, Bin Jip, old boy 21 grams, The Virgin suicides, Sin City, Pulp Fiction, Reservoir Dogs, Natural Born Killers, Sexy Beast, In the mood for love, One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest, all 50ies black/white movies with bette davis or audrey (especially when I am ill) and many more
Books:
Milan Kundera - Die unerträgliche Leichtigkeit des Seins, Josè Saramago - Die Stadt der Blinden, Haruki Murakami - Sputnik Sweetheart/Mr.Aufziehvogel, Sven Regener - Herr Lehmann/Neue Vahr Süd, Thomas Bernhard, Oscar Wild - The picture of Dorian Grey, Audrey Niffenegger - The Timetraveller's wive, Anna Gavalda - Zusammen ist man weniger alleine, Max Frisch - Homophaber, ...