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The Woe Kitten

And then the Woe Kitten said, Woe Unto Thee!!!

About Me


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I'm a girl who has grown up into this 28 year old woman's body. I have a B.A. in Psychology and work as an addiction counselor. (If I could, I'd stay home and enjoy the sunlight, the wind, and the green things every day.) I moved from Charleston, WV to the Baltimore area in October of 2004 to expand my experience and horizons. And I am learning all the time.
One of the most important lessons that I am learning every day is that it's okay to be who I am and to feel what I feel. Instead of denying my emotions, I am learning to experience them and let them pass. I think we all know how to do this as children, but other people and our society teaches us to feel shame for showing certain aspects of our personalities and indoctrinates us with a fear of being "wrong". Which then generalizes to a fear of being. I am seeking to deprogram myself and learn how to just be.
I am also seeking to unlearn my cynicism. And what a difficult task it is proving to be!
I love to laugh. I want to spend my life laughing, growing, seeking, and being. I curse a lot. My sense of humor is a combination of twisted and goofy and borders on the fringe of unacceptable at times. I'm a geek who loves a good graphic novel or MMORPG. I'm an extremely passionate person. When I love, I love with everything I have. And when I hate, it is with vengence. I'm learning the futility of hate and anger. I much prefer the peace I get from acceptance. I have become cynical and I am trying to unlearn this.
My family, my friends, and my wonderful boyfriend are the most important things in my world. I am so thankful for the beauty I have witnessed and the pain that continues to make me wise. My possessions do not define me. My nieces make me glad to be alive and excited about one day being a mother. My best friends are mostly men. I'm not afraid of death; that is when we learn all that we don't know. But I find that I'm often afraid of life; mostly I'm afraid of the things that I don't know. I try to remember that it is all only an eternal cycle. It all comes around full circle.
As you to me, and I to thee, until all circles cease to be.

My Interests



Check out the movie that I was in!!!!

THE SESSION: Part I, Part II, Part III

The first love in my life was music. From the time I was 8, I was hopping around on my bed in front of my mirror singing into a hairbrush, pretending I was a rock star. In short, I love to sing. I write song lyrics & poetry and I was learning to play guitar, but I stopped when I moved to Baltimore. Dave has started teaching me a little. I need to practice! Listening to and critiquing other's music is also big hobby. I adore seeing/hearing live music, especially local live music.

I love to watch movies or read a good book and then dissect it with friends.

I enjoy traveling and sightseeing. We usually travel at least once a month.

I enjoy reading, whether it be fantasy, suspense, or horror fiction, poetry, history, or biography. I also enjoy chronicling my life events in my blog.

I've gotten increasingly interested in politics since moving to DC last year and seeing the heart of the machine for what it is.

Nothing makes me happier than simply being with my friends and/or my family. No matter what we're doing, it's golden and precious.

I work out a few days a week with the hope of becoming physically healthier. It seems to be working. I love to swim. Like to hike & bike, though it's been ages. I used to love yoga. Haven't done it in a billion years, but I'd like to take some classes and then do it at home.

I'd like to meet:

I'd like to meet friends who can make me laugh, provide me with stimulating conversation, and who can inspire me to continue learning and challenging my limits.

Celebrities I'd like to meet: the 14th Dali Lama, Maynard James Keenan, Tori Amos, Ani Difranco, George R.R. Martin, Neil Gaiman, Johnny Depp, Chuck Palhanuik, Quentin Tarentino, & Tim Burton.

Celebrities I'd like to have met: Anias Nin, Ayn Rand, Ghandi, Hunter S. Thompson, George Orwell, John Lennon, Shakespeare, Edgar Allen Poe, Mozart, Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung & Jesus.

Music:

Everything but pop country, bubblegum pop, & crappy gangsta' rap. I'm a huge fan of folkish style music with quirky, intelligent lyrics. I love whimsical music and music with a melancholic wistfulness. And loud, aggressive, intelligent rock n' roll kicks ass!

Bands that frequent my cd player: Tool, Tori Amos, A Perfect Circle, Ani Difranco, Radiohead, Incubus, Cold Play, The Cranberries, Fiona Apple, U2 (older stuff), Nellie McKay, Ben Folds, Dar Williams, Hed PE, Mr. Bungle, and Lorenna McKennit.Dave got me listening to the Dead Kennedys, Mr. Bungle, Peeping Tom, Bad Religion and a little of a bunch of other music. Let's just say I have a whole list of CDs that I need to check out.

Local Bands (WV & B'more) : Kat Box, The Recipe, Split Nixon, The Pistol Whippers, Noizbox, Byzantine, Guiness Clarke's Wine, Woodswork, VooDooBlue, Agenst of the Sun. (I need to get out and see more live stuff!)

Movies:

V for Vendetta, Fight Club, American History X, Kill Bill I & II, Hero, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The Big Lebowski, Memento, Donnie Darko, Magnolia, Equilibrium, Adaptation, Way of the Gun, The Godfather, The Usual Suspects, True Romance, Shawshank Redemption, Schindler's List, The Green Mile, Snatch, Lock Stock & Two Smoking Barrels, American Beauty, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Matrix, Spiderman, Gladiator, The Others, Lord of the Rings trilogy, Star Wars trilogy, Indiana Jones movies, Edward Scissorhands, Legend, Moulin Rouge, Chicago, Spirited Away, Big Fish, Young Frankenstein, Almost Famous, High Fidelity...I'm sure there's more, but I'm tired.

Television:

I don't watch television any more. I don't have cable and I don't miss it. Mostly, it's full of subtle (and some not so subtle) messages telling you the "correct" way to think, act, and feel. The news is full of information designed to keep us in a state of anxiety. The advertisements are full of messages that tell us that we're not complete unless we have whatever it is they're selling. And the advertisements strategically placed in between segments of the high anxiety stuff so that we get the idea that buying whatever it is that they're selling will relieve our anxiety. Brilliant! (Way to go Ed Bernays!) However, when I did watch TV I watched the following:Invader Zim, The Boondocks, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, The Simpsons, Southpark, Futurama, The Daily Show, The History Channel, The Discovery Channel.

Books:

The Illuminatus Trilogy, 1984, The Lord of the Rings trilogy, George R.R. Martin's A Song of Ice and Fire series, Invisible Monsters, Choke, Lullaby, Great Expectations, Alice in Wonderland, Through the Looking Glass, Crime and Punishment, The Sandman Comic Book Series, The Black Dog of Fate, To Kill a Mockingbird, Atlas Shrugged, The Fountainhead, Pride and Prejudice, As I Lay Dying and more!

Heroes:

My mother, Diana, & my father, Garland, for being such wonderful parents. My grandmother, Ellie, for being a strong woman and a survivor. Dave for learning to live life every day with me. Sean Burns for being an amazing friend. Also Tori Amos, Maynard James Keenan, Ani Difranco, Bono, Neil Gaiman. Anyone who knows how to be as they are in their natural state - spontaneous and blissful!

My Blog

there is no growth without pain

Lately I've often felt like my heart is going to burst out of my chest.  Sometimes I imagine there is an intricate maze of twine wrapped around my nerves and my heart.  And sometimes it fee...
Posted by The Woe Kitten on Wed, 12 Mar 2008 08:11:00 PST

Winter and Life

WinterFor the past week, the weather here has been fluctuating between a spring chill and the winter cold.  I am not ready for spring.  I feel as though we've barely had a winter.  Two ...
Posted by The Woe Kitten on Mon, 11 Feb 2008 11:24:00 PST

It’s nice to be home

I spent the week of Christmas with Dave and his family in Kansas City.  I had a lovely time.  They were all wonderful, intelligent, and quirky just as he said they were. I look forward to ge...
Posted by The Woe Kitten on Sat, 05 Jan 2008 10:13:00 PST

sup pump, a mouse, and Christmas plans

My house has a sup pump.  It's pumping sup as we speak.  Whenever I say sup pump aloud, I have the impulse to say sump pump...or sump pup.  Neither of which is correct. What is sup anyw...
Posted by The Woe Kitten on Wed, 19 Dec 2007 06:13:00 PST

The Session: My first acting job!!!!

Hello, my friends!  The movie that I've been talking about, is finally finished and ready for your viewing and critiquing. Just go back to my profile page and scroll down a bit.  It's there ...
Posted by The Woe Kitten on Fri, 14 Dec 2007 04:02:00 PST

hospital gowns and little acts of unkindness

On Thanksgiving Day, just after Ken had arrived and he and Shawn began making Thanksgiving dinner, Dave told me that he had been having chest pains and numbness in his arm since the night before. ...
Posted by The Woe Kitten on Tue, 04 Dec 2007 04:28:00 PST

if only, acceptance, and honoring the memory of my friend

The news of Sean's autopsy report confirmed the thoughts that I had in those first moments last Tuesday after I got Ben's phone call.  I thought, "My god. He finally killed himself. He just would...
Posted by The Woe Kitten on Sat, 01 Dec 2007 07:12:00 PST

news video of Sean

Do you guys remember when Sean and Camille were in that accident last year?  Well the video is still up.Sean and Camille on the news...
Posted by The Woe Kitten on Tue, 27 Nov 2007 09:04:00 PST

Brother Burns and the Family

It was really hard to function "normally" today knowing that Burnsy's not in the world.  I didn't schedule any clients for session today because, quite frankly, I felt like I needed counseling.&n...
Posted by The Woe Kitten on Tue, 27 Nov 2007 08:26:00 PST

Sean

One of my dearest friends died yesterday.  I am heartbroken.  I want to talk to him, but I can't.  Sean, my friend, my brother.  I just wish I could talk to you right now.  I'...
Posted by The Woe Kitten on Wed, 21 Nov 2007 02:52:00 PST