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Debbie

The world is a dangerous place, not because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on a

About Me

My baby "Emme"Tribute to my Mother: "You can shed tears that she is gone or you can smile because she has lived. You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back or you can open your eyes and see all she's left." I see your face in my mind's eye and I miss you (and Dad) every single day of my life.Due to circumstances that have happened recently in my life, I am starting over. I have put everyone else first all of my life, let people use me, abuse me emotionally, take advantage of me, make me feel like I was worthless, turn their backs on me, etc. etc. For the first time, I'm taking control of me. No one else has that power over me anymore and no one else ever will again. We all have choices to make every day of our lives. I own who I am, I take responsibility for the mistakes I have made and the ones I will make, I know right from wrong. I will NOT be responsible for choices made by others any more. You are responsible for WHO you are. We are humans, therefore we do make mistakes. Only fools don't learn from the errors of their way and continuously repeat their mistakes. Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want. When you are truly loved, you know; when you are told you're loved for someone else's advantage, eventually, you learn that too.. and you have to know when enough is enough. Honesty is a virtue... live your life to the best of your ability.. You are only a failure if you don't try. I have recently become an advocate for fighting for animal rights and working on stiffer penalities in child abuse cases. Some of the sites and videos showing how animals are abused.. domestic, wildlife, farm animals, will turn your stomach and make you feel terrible at the treatment these animals are forced to endure every day of their lives from birth. They FEEL and they HURT just like we do.. what these animals know only is pain and fear and hunger and abuse. No living creature should ever be in this position.. animal or human. I am working on putting up some links for anyone interested in signing petitons, or just finding out what is going on and adding their voice to saying this is not acceptable and we want it changed..now. Probably one of my BIGGEST pet peeves is so called child protection agencies. It horrifies me that the people who should be protecting abused children, Child Welfare Services (CWS) are, from everything I've seen and read, doing more harm than good. How can they EVER possibly return an abused child back to the abuser, know that child lives a life of terror, pain, hurt, stress, fear daily.. never knowing where or WHY the next attack is coming? In my opinion, the CWS should be held just as accountable as the actual abuser when a child is harmed or murdered. They constantly return these children to parents/caregivers who have repeatedly had them removed because of abuse and yet they return them over and over again? Our society is so messed up that it seems almost hopeless that anything good will ever come out of it. On a completely different note, isn't it funny how sometimes you sit back and enjoy the show... waiting to see the big fall that is coming ... some people get exactly what they deserve.. what goes around comes around ... karma will get you ...

My Interests

Hercules - World's biggest dog! GOOD LORD!!!Music, books, people, animals, writing.. most things can be interesting at any given moment.

I'd like to meet:

I'D like to meet: Princess Diana, Randy Pausch, Shannon amd Tracy Tweed, Gene Simmons, Lance Henriksen, Diane Lane, Dianne Keaton, Jon Bon Jovi, Billy Wirth, Cher, Criss Angel, Tina Turner, Marilyn Monroe, Mother Teresa, Albert Einstein, Elvis Presley, The Beatles, Stephen King, Jodi Picoult, Carole Lombard, Lucille Ball, and many many many more that I don't have time to name....Kelsey Briggs was born in Oklahoma December 28, 2002 to Lance Briggs and Raye Dawn Smith. Her parents divorced before her birth. Raye Dawn began dating Michael Lee Porter. In January 2005 the first incidence of child abuse regarding Kelsey was reported. In April of 2005, Raye Dawn Smith married Michael Lee Porter. In March of 2005 OKDHS removed Kelsey from her mother's home. In May of 2004 Kelsey lived with her maternal grandmother, Gayla Smith. By mid June of 2005, months of documented abuse of Kelsey had been reported. The abuse included a broken collarbone, multiple abrasions, new and faded bruises from head to toe, both legs broken at the same time (these were listed as "spiral" fractures which means someone forcefully twisted her legs). THREE doctors with combined experience of 90 years all agreed Kelsey's broken legs were caused by child abuse. In June of 2005, after numerous court hearings Judge Craig Key (hope you sleep at night you fucking idiot!!!) sent Kelsey back to live with her mother and stepdad because according to this judge "Kelsey's abuser is unknown." Throughout all of this, Kelsey remained in state custody of OKDHS and was SUPPOSED to be supervised by state agencies (why do this fools nearly always fail to protect the children who need them the most). Kelsey's biological father, Lance Briggs, was in Iraq fighting for our country. Four months after the courts returned Kelsey to her mom and stepdad, on October 11, 2005 Kelsey was either hit or kicked SO HARD in the abdomen.... it killed her. Cause of death was listed as blunt force trauma to the abdomen. Kelsey's mom and stepdad were the ONLY ones with her the day she died. (Some reports say only her stepfather was home.) Kelsey died 2 days before her biological father Lance returned from Iraq bringing Kelsey a stuffed camel as a gift.Two weeks after her death her 25 year old stepfather was charged with first degree murder. Her 26 year old mother was later charged with two felonies of CHILD NEGLECT and ENABLING CHILD ABUSE.In April of 2006 Kelsey's body was exhumed for a 2nd autopsy and sexual abuse was documented. This little 2 year old girl went through 9 months of not only being brutally physically abused but also sexually abused. She was just a baby!!!!!Michal Lee Porter, Kelsey's LARGE stepfather's charges were amended to include sexual abuse.After Kelsey's death Michal Lee Porter and Raye Dawn Smith were divorced.February 2, 2007 a plea negotiation was entered and approved by Kelsey's paternal family. Michael Lee Porter plead guilty to a reduced charge of ENABLING CHILD ABUSE. He received a sentence of 30 years in prison with no possibility of parole for 25-1/2 years.July 7, 2007, Kelsey's mother Raye Dawn Smith was found guilty of ENABLING CHILD ABUSE. She was sentenced to 27 years in prison without the possibility of parole for 23 years. The courts stated that Kelsey's mother KNEW or SHOULD HAVE KNOWN about Kelsey's abuse.Many "supporters" of Kelsey's mother, Raye Dawn Smith, are saying she was "railroaded" and knew nothing about the abuse. How could she NOT know. This was NOT an isolated incident. It played out over MONTHS. It has been stated that Michael Lee Porter was jealous of Kelsey and felt that Raye Dawn did not give the attention to HIS children he felt she should.No matter how you look at it, a LOT of people failed Kelsey.A new law was passed in Oklahoma and named for Kelsey to prevent this type of failure in the Oklahoma State System.Kathie Briggs, Kelsey's maternal grandmother runs a site in Kelsey's honor -- Kelsey's Purpose -- it's a free site.http://www.Kelseyspurpose.org..

Television:

Gene Simmon's Family Jewels; Grey's Anatomy; Nip/Tuck; Sex and the City; The "L" Word; Gilmore Girls; Medical Incredible; The Discovery Health Channel; A&E (actually, just about anything on this channel); Documentaries; Movies; The Weather Channel (yeah I know I'm a goof but I find weather fascinating); The History Channel; Biography; Animal Planet; Orangatan Island; Planet Earth; Notorious

Books:

Currently reading: Everything I can get my hands on by Jodi Picoult

Heroes:

My Mom and Dad. I miss them both more than words can ever express. Randy Pausch: Watch "The Last Lecture"..this was a man that "got it".. he knew how life should be lived and he lived it that way right until the end. This is the kind of man I wish I could find...but I think they broke the mold with him.. and there aren't any out there that come close to be as amazing as this man was.Eve Carson: A star fell from the sky. She would've made such a difference in this world.

My Blog

Loved Ones Lost

Today is the one year anniversary of my Mom's passing.  It's not going to be a good day for me at all.  I'm really feeling the loss... my heart is so broken and I don't think it can ever be ...
Posted by Debbie on Mon, 19 May 2008 07:18:00 PST

It’s fitting......

It’s fitting that the weather forecast calls for thunderstorms on Saturday, April 5th.  That would’ve been my Mom’s 85th birthday.... the heavens are as angry as I am that she d...
Posted by Debbie on Wed, 02 Apr 2008 08:44:00 PST

Living in the Hood

Living in the hood for me is not a figure of speech but the "real" thing.  We moved into this house when I was still a youngin and my parents refused to move away when the little family area star...
Posted by Debbie on Thu, 13 Mar 2008 11:43:00 PST

Family

When you're young you take for granted that your family will always be there... your parents will never die... your parents never make mistakes.. home is always the place you feel the safest and most ...
Posted by Debbie on Fri, 07 Mar 2008 05:44:00 PST

My Mother

Today I drove by the road that led to the rehab center where you had been sent after a hospital stay to gain your strength back so you could come home.  Tears clouded my vision as I drove past th...
Posted by Debbie on Mon, 28 May 2007 07:57:00 PST

New Widow Video

http://www.burning-village.com/video.php   Check out the new Widow video... leave lots of comments!!!!   Thanx... xoxoxo Debbie ...
Posted by Debbie on Thu, 17 Nov 2005 04:11:00 PST