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Tricia

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

i love having bright, crayon colored hair and i dye it often...unfortunately i've got to find a job where they don't care what color my hair is! so right now i've got a more conventional dark brown going on...i *always* have blue eyes and i wear glasses...i'm an unapologetic fat chick who has been slowly losing weight over the past couple of years (down 130 pounds, 16 sizes so far), so i'm having to continually to re-adjust my mental picture of my body and the physical space i take up in the world...i'm a smart ass and appreciate a quick wit in people i meet...i'm very easy going and laid back, but can stand up for myself and others if the situation calls for it...i can be a cranky, bitchy and mean girl when i need to eat (i'm diabetic) or if my feelings are injured....i try to recognize when this behavior of mine is happening because i want to control myself when i act that way but no one is perfect! i can also be a demanding, haughty, blunt bitch, but at the same time i am a generous, thoughtful, and sensitive girl....i'm a people watcher and i pay attention to people's likes and dislikes (i like to be aware of both my friends and strangers too...in fact, i've startled more than one girl on a bar patio by lighting her cigarette when she didn't know i saw her asking her friends for a light)....i usually remember what and how people like things to be or what their favorite something is....i am loyal and empathetic and will defend my beliefs (i've yelled at strangers for saying "that's so gay" and i'll do it again!! i ask them to please not use the word "gay" as a substitute for "stupid" because i'm gay and i'm not stupid, dammit!!)....i have a nasty habit of climbing on my soapbox and getting very vocal and at that point i don't mind telling you what i think!....yeah, i'm extremely opinionated too and i have to remind myself with this litany (yes, i REALLY actually say the following phrase out loud to myself, as often as i feel i need to take myself down a peg or two)...."opinion, opinion, opinion!! BUT that is only MY opinion, which may or may not reflect the rest of the world's!!"....this is my reminder to myself that what i think is only one opinion out of countless points of view and when i say it to myself out loud, i have to stop and think about what i'm babbling about.....i obviously go on and on so i'll get out of here for now but drop me a line if you feel like it...after all, you DID read this far! ;)

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I'd like to meet:

new people to have fun with, people that like to play, people that can teach me something new either about the world or about me, people that stimulate my creativity and kindness, people that know other kinds of music than what i've found so far (although overlaps are absolutely acceptable!) people that know how to smile 14 different ways....as far as girls go, i want a brainy, nerdy, not too skinny girl...someone who's cute (but this is a broad category...in my opinion, there are MANY types of cute!)....an honest, loyal, girl with morals but who can be 'evil' in a good way....i'm a good girl who can be bad so i like someone who matches me there :) i'm MAJORLY hot for butch chicks, tattoos, girls with motorcycles that will take me for rides.....i love hanging on from the backseat ;)....i am and will ALWAYS BE the girlier one dammit!! will swoon for daddy dykes!

Music:

bands/singers: DMB!!! ---dave matthews band, for those who aren't fans, i admit it, i'm a freak - 10 shows and counting, still a baby davehead though...the indigo girls, melissa etheridge, blues traveler, the beastie boys, ani difranco, bjork, tori amos, blink 182, jane's addiction, jewel, simon & garfunkel, djs: ferry corsten, paul van dyk, paul oakenfold, dj tiesto, i could type in here a long time....just ask me about others! i'm always down to learn about new artists and/or styles of music....the only complaint i have about music is this: there is far too much music already written and more is be made every second so i will NEVER be able to listen to it all, much less learn it all in my lifetime....

Movies:

i like movies, but there are many i haven't seen....there are days when i watch 3-4 in a row and never leave the couch, but most of the time i'm listening to music instead......

Television:

yeah...i watch it....a lot.....too much

Books:

i HATE not having a good book to read......i have been reading since i was 2 and grew up (until the age of 11) without a tv in our house so books were our main source of entertainment.....i prefer fiction and i most enjoy books when an author researches their topic so thoroughly that i can't help but learn real facts and information while at the same time i get to read a good story....i prefer books with many, many pages in them because i read quite quickly and if the book is too short, i will finish it in only 1-2 days....i tend to collect authors instead of individual books......authors i like: cussler, jakes, auel, gabaldon, baldacci, michener, mccullough, brown (da vinci code), and so many more.....

Heroes:

freddy mercury, for the time he was here, he had the balls to be out and gay as a rock star........oprah winfrey, she made her life what it is today and is living proof that "you can do whatever you put your mind to" words we've heard all our lives but not everyone believes them......all the women over the centuries who stood up to the status quo so that they would be recognized as people and not objects or doormats, with out them i would not be able to be myself today.....dr martin luther king jr, he embodies the "dream" of every man being both an equal and brothers to everyone else....more, but these are enough for now....

My Blog

things lisa made me think about

from the movie 'the celestine prophecy'look not from the mind, but from the soul. for the life that is coming is already before us, waiting to open up the world. just look more closely, find the eyes ...
Posted by Tricia on Tue, 11 Mar 2008 01:30:00 PST

HE HAS A FUCKING GIRLFRIEND!

my ex drag queen has a girlfriend....a real LIVE woman who is jealous of me...probably not as jealous as i am of her, but still jealous of me...he tells me tonight that i am now the first of SEVEN gir...
Posted by Tricia on Wed, 10 Oct 2007 02:47:00 PST

2 dates in one night??

how lucky can a girl get?!?! i love having so many "firsts" at this age :D
Posted by Tricia on Sat, 24 Mar 2007 06:28:00 PST

tagged :)

TAG BITCH!!!"You've been TAGGED!"The rules: Once you've been tagged you have to write a blog containing ten random facts or habits about yourself. At the end of the blog entry, list up to ten people t...
Posted by Tricia on Fri, 16 Mar 2007 09:16:00 PST

what i did last night...from HER point of view....(an email i received this morning)

I've been at the bar several hours, and am close to drunk. I go up to the raised level at the back of the outdoor area, and lean over the cowboy railing there. A cute, very round, blonde in a red dres...
Posted by Tricia on Sat, 10 Feb 2007 11:28:00 PST

what i did last night...

so i went to the butch femme social at the eagle last night. now, i got lucky at work because it was slow, so my boss let me take off a couple of hours early. this was good because the social starts a...
Posted by Tricia on Sat, 10 Feb 2007 10:45:00 PST

voting

ok people...i did it :)i walked down to my polling place (a place i probably wouldn't walk to after dark) and voted just now...just waiting for the results.. 
Posted by Tricia on Tue, 07 Nov 2006 09:14:00 PST

what i did on folsom weekend

what can i say about this past weekend? it was AWESOME!! i anticipated it's arrival for weeks and now it's already gone...it started saturday morning when i went to the place where the exiles women's ...
Posted by Tricia on Fri, 29 Sep 2006 09:31:00 PST

crazy dreams

so it's 423a and no i didn't just smoke...i just woke up from this crazy horrible dream where the moral, once again, is that i need to get laid! i need to get laid in the worst possible way!!a few wee...
Posted by Tricia on Thu, 01 Jun 2006 04:45:00 PST

girls, girls, girls

so i'm sitting at my computer (obviously) and i'm wondering what it is that girls want. now i find that a kind of weird question, seeing as i'm a girl. all i know is what *i* want and i guess i'm expe...
Posted by Tricia on Wed, 17 May 2006 12:02:00 PST