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jonathan

I am here for Dating, Friends and Networking

About Me

I don't have much to offer you, just myself. Everything I do have is a result of me busting my ass to get it, even the respect people show me, and if that's not good enough for you, F*** you. I do what I can for who I love. I am a great guy to have as a friend, and really have never had an enemy..... well nothing I couldn't handle. O:-) There are still good guys out there in the world, ladies, its just that in my case, I am too considerate to approach a woman. I'm the Bar Manager at the world-famous Toc Bar and I'm used to sitting behind the bar and watching guys bounce from one girl to another, trying to find anyone that'll pay them attention, so as a result, I rarely approach a woman. I am the most spontaneous person you could meet, but at the same time, I am used to structure. I am equal parts chaos and order.... if you don't believe me, just go out with me one day. I get these urges and HAVE to act on them. I've traveled a lot, all through Central America (Panama 3 times) and Amsterdam and Kenya, playing basketball internationally in tournaments. I am racially open minded, and usually find myself attracted to Asian and Hispanic women for some reason, but a woman is sexy nonetheless and I do appreciate beauty, internally and externally. I am a musically driven person; I love a good beat and a new sound, and I love dancing, and can actually keep a pretty good rhythm..... for a white boy:-p. I am an upfront, honest person, who won't lie to you and will tell you exactly what I think.... most of the time. I love playing softball, and miss it, since I can't find a team to play with on the East Side. *sigh* Oh well! :-) I am a strong person; I try to be self-sufficient and make no excuses for who I am or what I do. Love me or hate me, take me or leave me, I am still the same person with, or without your help. I hate asking favors of people, but have found that by doing so of your "friends", you find out who among them are true. I have come to realize who in my circle of friends are true and real, and love them for that with all of my heart and will do anything I can for them. Over anyone else, my sister is my girl.... my Boo (yes that is her nickname I gave her). :-) If I am in a dilemma, I think, if I do this, what will my sister think? Well, that's me..... thanks for reading my profile. Drop me a line if you want to be a friend..... you can never have too many. I have all three messengers: [email protected] for MSN, ocelot4381 for yahoo, and silverserfur7 for AIM, although I never really use it that much.

My Interests

I don't know if you can list sleep as an interest, but its something that I do well, so I am listing it anyway. I love music, and though I am not the best dancer in the world (far from it) I love to get out on the dance floor and dance with nothing to care about. I like sports; I'd rather play them than watch them. But if I have to watch them, I'd rather do it in person. I am definitely a people person; I love watching people and how they interact with each other.

I'd like to meet:

Hmmmm, I don't have a certain set criteria of person I'd like to meet. You can never have too many friends, and I am always looking for new people to hang out with, although I do have my set group of people that will hardly ever change. I am looking for hot women for sure though... you can never have too many beautiful women on your friends list. :-) But more than anything, I would love to have good people. The world seems to be running short on them, and I want as many as I can have around me.

Music:

I love to dance to r&b/hip hop. I like salsa and meringue too, although I really can't dance to it...... yet ;-). My favorite band would have to be Incubus. They have very profound lyrics that are more than just random words strung together to make something that sounds good. I appreciate a wide range of music, as long as it isn't country. Lately, my musical tastes have been growing. I believe music is expressions of the soul, and so much can be said in a few verses.

Movies:

Oh wow. I love movies too. I can go on a Sunday morning at 10 am and watch a movie and be happy. I know it sounds odd, but there is something about watching a movie by yourself in a theater. I love the Matrix movies, Snatch was a great one also. Devils Advocate really makes you think and was a great take on Paradise Lost. Blame it on me being male, but there is something that intrigues me about vampire/superhero movies with people who are responsible for the safety of mankind. I love some romantic movies, yet hate them at the same time. They represent what we all look for in life, the perfect love, and yet its such a struggle to find. It creates a yearning, like where the hell are you!?!??! A Walk in the Clouds was a great movie, as was Sweet November. I will be the first to admit, I cried like a baby in that one.

Television:

I have to admit, my tv is always on. Not so much that I am watching it, I just like the extra light in my room, as well as the background noise. When I do watch, its has to be cartoons. Simpsons, Futurama, King of the Hill, Family Guy..... :-) there are more, but I am sure you would just think I am wierd.... :-p

Books:

I used to be an avid reader, and the only reason I don't do it now is that I can't devote myself to it as well as I used to be able to. I will sit down and not move for hours if I could and just read. I read Jurassic Park in one day, if that lets you know how devoted I can be to reading. Now, I am just a magazine reader... Maxim & Mens Health are my weapons of choice. :-)

Heroes:

Special thanks to to my dear friend Macie of MACIEdesigns for remodeling my page on here. Kudos to you, girl!!!
Fuck heros.... Heros can change in a day. They are human and prone to mistakes just like any average human. My heroes are my friends... Cesar is my boy. We've been through a lot in a little over a year, and his character has been proven too well to me. Even though she doesn't have it yet, Jessica is a good friend who was there for me when I totalled my car. She was there Cesar had his trouble, and I know she will be there in the future when I make my stupid mistakes. Melissa is another girl I love to death, even though she got a man now. (yes I know the grammar is wrong) Courtney::aka::MsLoVe... is me in a females body. Check her profile out in my friends list. She is a hottie and just her presence or a few words with her makes me feel beautiful too. Sara, my sis, my partner in crime....You would think that we'd butt heads with her being a Leo and me an Aries, but we get along anyway. We do have our moments though. She is stubborn, self-righteous, and self-centered sometimes, but a wise man once said, The thing about another person that drives you nuts... are qualities that you yourself possess. Anyway, she's my girl and I will fuck anyone up that gets in her way (does that sound too harsh?). :-) Damn, we've done some wild things that would get us kicked out of our house if our parents found out, Lol. Love you, Boo.

My Blog

A realization.....

I am not the person I was yesterday, and I will never again be the person I am today. I will not apologize for what I have become because I will not turn my back on what I was. I am what I am and have...
Posted by jonathan on Wed, 16 May 2007 05:51:00 PST

When life gives you lemons....

Ok, if you're a friend of mine, then you know what type of year my family and I have been having. My grandfather has had multiple surgeries on his esophogas trying to correct the disease that has been...
Posted by jonathan on Wed, 15 Nov 2006 03:24:00 PST

Since I'm on the soapbox.....

Granted I'm not perfect, but watching the news lately, people blaming their misdeeds on things that happened to them in their childhood makes me so mad! When something bad happens to you, you are...
Posted by jonathan on Wed, 04 Oct 2006 09:56:00 PST

This year in retrospect.....

I know this might be kind of early to reflect on a year that still has a few months left, but about this time last year is when my life really started turning around, so I'm celebrating from Oct. last...
Posted by jonathan on Wed, 04 Oct 2006 09:41:00 PST

Second Chances........

Although I really don't care for Nickelback and ugly-ass Chad Kroeger, I watched a music video on VH1 or MTV one weekend morning when I got in from Toc at some un-godly hour of the morning that tied i...
Posted by jonathan on Mon, 01 May 2006 06:01:00 PST

And then!......

Damn, for those of you that do't know me, my life is one big blog anyway, but.... so like some of you know, my dad is sick and down on his back at the moment, so being the nice guy that I am, I deci...
Posted by jonathan on Mon, 24 Apr 2006 10:20:00 PST

Ok, so last night.....

I couldn't sleep, and since I was taking today off I decided (last minute) that I was going to go out to Shadow Bar and Toc to hang out with my friends. As soon as I walk in the door, I have a shot th...
Posted by jonathan on Mon, 24 Apr 2006 09:03:00 PST

Fair warning fuckers.......

The day of reckoning is upon us and its gonna be uglier than Joan Rivers when she wakes up in the morning (don't ask).... anyway, my 25th birthday is coming up *cough april 3rd*, and if you don't know...
Posted by jonathan on Fri, 10 Mar 2006 03:50:00 PST

my 24 years of wisdom

24 years of wisdom All I can say is wow. I am not supposed to be alive at this moment, and yet I've lived to see my 24th birthday. All I can say is that I am thankful to God for a protecting hand o...
Posted by jonathan on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Nice guys finish last.... A good article that I can relate to

NICE GUYS FINISH LAST By: Garrett Hols It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it's not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish th...
Posted by jonathan on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST