P®in©e ©ha®ming profile picture

P®in©e ©ha®ming

Never Doubt That A Small Group Of Committed People Can Change The World. Indeed, It Is The Only Thin

About Me

I'm a dreamer. There are so many things I want to do in my lifetime and it upsets me to know that I more than likely wont be able to accomplish them all. I want to become an event planner, so that I can put together large events cooperations, the stars, and non-for profit organizations. I want to learn how to become a dancer, which includes ballroom dancing, hip-hop, contemporary,etc. I want to be on So You Think You Can Dance after I become a better dancer. I want to create my own clothing line, even though I have no idea how to sew or any of the technical stuff. I want to be in a tv shows, movies, and make the story I wrote about my grandma into a movie. I want to be able to do something to help change people's lives. I want to walk through a park with my special someone and it start to rain, then just stand there and kiss. I want to not feel like an equal to straight people. I want to get married somewhere special in Chicago. I want to find my soulmate. I want to do something to be remembered even after I'm not alive. I want my voice to be heard and to be more confident in myself. I want to live my life to it's fullest.

Ok. I've been thinking a lot and I've realized that I have a lot to say. Now remember this is what I think, you dont have to like what I say, but just respect my opinion for what I have to say. Ok Im going to just start writing stuff so it might be a little random. Here it goes!

1. I cant stand Laguna Beach, all those people on the show bother me so much that they are so fake. All that they prove is that teenagers this day are only interested in bitching about other people and talking behind others back, even if they are already friends with them. Partying is great but that shouldnt be the focus of your life. There is more to life than being rich and popular.

2. Girls need to stop thinking about what others think about eachother. You are who you are and that the way you should be. You should be your own person. Everyone is beautiful in their own special way even if they might not think that they arent on the outside. Looks arent everything and everyone should stop focusing on them because there can be so much beauty besides the part on the outside.

3. Guys need stop worrying about being a man! You dont have to be some sport fanatic testostorone filled neanderthal to be a man. Also you should have repsect for women in the fact that they arent some sort of property or trophy that you have. Show that you care about hem and dont make them feel like shit because you are so dumb that you dont even realize how amazing they are. Show some respect for yourselves and the people around you by not being an asshole. Ok this kinda of goes for both sexes, but whatever. People need to stop making fun of other people. Its beyond reason what makes something fun about causing other people pain. I know I got made fun of through out grade school and junior high for being fat, and it was the most traumatic part of my life. I still have self image issues to this day. It just makes me sick when other people have to make other peoples lives a living hell when they just cant do anything about it.

4. I dont understand why people smoke or do drugs. Its impossible that you have not heard that they are bad for you. Why would you want to do something to yourself that is that bad to you? I dont care that it might make you happy for a few minutes or hours because in the long run youre just taking more than that in your quality of life.

5. Your sexual preference is not a choice! Why would I put this on upon myself when I know how difficult is to be different. Yes I like guys. And for straight guys just because I like guys doesnt mean Im attracted to you because more than likely I dont and even if I did its not like I would do anything to you. Im not contagious. We should have to rights that all other have, which includes not being harassed by ignorant people, being abled to get married and be happy. We are no different than any other of you. I dont care what the bible says because I do know in my heart that God or whatever you believe in would not create people he didnt mean to be created. He wouldnt create something thats a sin when its born. Being gay is NOT a sin!

6. I'm not a relationship guru or anything, but I do know communication is the most important thing. I constantly listen to my friends talk about their bf/gf and how they're not getting along. I ask " Did you talk to them about it ?" Then they would say " I don't think I need to or what's the point? " AGH!!! Well if they don't get it talk them about it. Communication is such an important part of a relationship. Not just saying whats wrong , but you have to listen to your bf/gf;s point of view and see where they're coming from. Don't ruin your relationship because you're to stubborn to talk about something.

7. It seems that the gay community has gotten the stereotype of being " promiscous " (nice way of saying it). Well unfortunately it's not all that wrong. Don't get me wrong I mean there are plenty of guys that want a relationship and are faithful , but it seems that are so many guys that are just looking to hookup . I have to admit I used to be like this. I'm not proud of what I did in the past and I do wish I could go back and change some things like most people. You become at great risk of spreading STDs , especially ones like HIV that are just beyond horrible . Sex is amazing obviously, but it isnt worth the risking your life . Not only that, but finding someone you love is such an amazing thing and everyone should experience that.

Ill think of more later. I know its random, but whatever. lol

Wake Up
And Pay Attention!Turn Up Your
Speakers & Listen! Why do
people commit suicide?Why do
people cut themselves?Why do
girls become anorexic and bulimic?Why do
kids bring guns to school?Why do
we get depressed and start abusing meds?Why do
girls feel the need to act like sluts to impress guys?Why cant people
show their sexuality freely, without worrying about being judged?In the Bill Of Rights,
it says we have freedom of speech!So why
are we so afraid to speak up for ourselves? MyGen Profile Generator

My Interests

Hey Guys I really want people to know about the group that I go to called Pride Youth. It has really been a positive influence on my life and I thought more people should know about it. Here's the info on it and please let me know if you have more questions about it and I'll send you the addresses.

Youth Centers are safe and confidential spaces for people ages 13 to 18 who are lesbian, bisexual, transgender, gay,or questioning their sexual identities. Trained adult staff are on site to help with making sure the center runs smoothly. We meet in gay-friendly spaces. We have our own room with a CD player, books, magazines, and snacks. We have rules to insure safety and confidentiality. This is a fun place where you can be exactly who you are, no more no less. If you want to learn more about yourself, meet others like you, and have a great time, then get connected with the Youth Centers of the Pride Youth Program.

Guidelines:
1 - Confidentiality: What is said in group, stays in group. This includes who was or was not at group and who does or does not attend group. Both youth and adult staff are bound by this guideline. Adult staff will break confidentiality on only three occasions. These occasions are when you state you are in immediate danger of harming yourself, harming someone else, or being physically or sexually abused. In these cases, our utmost concern is your safety and we will break confidentiality in order to keep you safe.

6:00 - 7:00 = arrival, socializing, homework, reading, etc.
7:00 - 8:00 = check-in & peer support
8:00 - 9:00 = group activity

Schedule:
Wednesday Evenings 6-9pm
Northfield, IL

Thursday Evenings 6-9pm
Palatine, IL
(This is the one I attend)

I'd like to meet:

.... a

Music:

Rascal Flatts, Imogen Heap. Fall Out Boy, Panic at the Disco, Keith Urban, The Wreckers, Ciara, MIMS, Beyonce, Gwen Stefani, Ryan Cabrera, Akon, Nickel Creek, Dashboard Confessional, Jack Mannequin, Gym Class Heroes, The Hush Sound, Carrie Underwood, much more......

Movies:

Final Destination, Crash, Anchorman, Dogma, Deep Impact, The Day After Tomorrow, Tommy Boy, Donnie Darko, Cruel Intentions, Scream, I Know What You Did Last Summer, Saw, The Hills Have Eyes, Mean Girls, Elf, The Island, Big Fish, Moulin Rouge, The Perfect Score, Hocus Pocus, Homeward Bound, Italian Job, too many!

Television:

Family Guy, Desperate Housewives, Bones, American Idol, Dancing With the Stars, So You Think You Can Dance, Next, Comedy Central Presents, South Park, Crossing Jordan, CSI Miami, Medium, America's Next Top Model, COPS Old School: Power Rangers, Legends of the Hidden Temple, Global GUTS, Pete and Pete, Are You Afraid of the Dark, Angry Beavers, Wild and Crazy Kids
Destinations................

Books:

Lovely Bones, more to come.....

My Blog

This Says It All.....Haha

Decided to take an IQ test. What could be more fun than taking a test after getting out of school and hour ago. hahaNot gonna lie I was kinda surprised. Better than I thought. Take it and share result...
Posted by P®in©e ©ha®ming on Wed, 29 Nov 2006 01:03:00 PST

Ask Charlie!

The days are going by so quickly and its feels as if I'm falling of the edge of it all. It's hard to believe yesterday was my brothers one year wedding anniversary, and my sisters will be coming up so...
Posted by P®in©e ©ha®ming on Tue, 01 Aug 2006 10:03:00 PST

So Ridiculous, Must Read!

    Well to start off I hope everyone had a great fourth of July.  On July 3rd I went to see the fireworks dowtown in Millenium Park with some friends. We watched the fireworks (no...
Posted by P®in©e ©ha®ming on Thu, 06 Jul 2006 11:09:00 PST

I'm On What?!?!!?

So I definately just found out today that I was put on a YouTube video as a part of a "Myspace Gorgeous Boys" montage thing. I think its funny that someone who saw it happened to run across my profile...
Posted by P®in©e ©ha®ming on Wed, 10 May 2006 09:57:00 PST

Some Fucking People (Read This)

Some fucking people are unvelieveable. So this girl send me a message saying: "Why the fuck do you want an airbrushed photo you fake piece of shit. and dat #1 to homecoming, like you had more dates" F...
Posted by P®in©e ©ha®ming on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST