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Michael Anthony

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

I can be spontaneous and casual in familiar circumstances. The familiar atmosphere allows spontaneity when I'm in my comfort zone. I can be motivated through teamwork. I like to know I am a valued team member. Patience, control and deliberateness characterize my usual behavior. I need time for some study and analysis, particularly when doing new or challenging assignments. This allows me to adjust to the changing environment. At times, I would like to slow the world down and cut out some of the activities people want me involved in. I'm eager to please others. I want others to be satisfied and I may go out of my way to accomodate others, sometimes even to my own discomfort. I prefer to help and support others rather than compete against them. I don't resist change as much as I resist being changed. I need to be an active participant in situations that will impact my work. I can be open, patient and tolerant of differences. My natural quality of being nonjudgmental is a great strength. Because I am receptive and listens well, I excel in gathering information. Outwardly, I may appear to be totally accepting of others. I may, however, have deep convictions that are not apparent to others.I am persistent and persevering in my approach to achieving goals. I find making decisions easier when I know that others I respect are doing the same thing; I then have a feeling of stability and "family." I try to use balanced judgment. I am the person who brings stability to the entire team. I prefer to plan my work and work my plan. Others may find it refreshing to have me on their team. I may want to think over major decisions before acting. I must be convinced that actions will produce the desired result. I may tend to fight for my beliefs or those things I feel passionate about. Making plans and following those plans is important to me.I don't enjoy confrontation for confrontation's sake. I feel I can win through patience and resolve. I like to know what is expected of me in a working relationship and have the duties and responsibilities of others who will be involved explained. Communication is accomplished best by well-defined avenues. I am not easily triggered or explosive, but I may conceal some grievances because I don't always state my feelings. I like a friendly, open style of communication. I will be open with those I trust; however, reaching the required trust level may take time. I'm usually considerate, compassionate and accepting of others; however, on some occasions can become stubborn. Stubbornness surfaces when my ideals and beliefs are confronted. I am quick to pick up on group dynamics and skilled in fitting in with a group. I bring both speaking and listening skills to the group.

My Interests

Backpacking all over Europe, Tennis, Volleyball, Hanging with Family and Friends, Shopping, Road Trips in my safari vehicle, Singing, Dancing

Music:

all kinds. As I get older, I find myself opening my interests...its all about variety.

Movies:

Grease, Shawshank Redemption, Joy Luck Club, Clueless, anything with Julia Roberts, anything made by Pixar, Schindler's List

Television:

Don't watch much TV. But when I do....okay, i'll admit it. I'm a reality junkie. Especially MTV's Real World and Road Rules, America's Next Top Model. Also love the Food Network: Rachael Ray, Giada, Tyler Florence

Books:

Gone With The Wind...not much of a reader.

Heroes:

Family and Friends. I take the best attributes from the people around me to improve myself as a person.