Health, personal growth, positive living, being a pervert, exploring and analyzing gender, sexuality, relationships, and power dynamics, being in charge, keeping busy, having boundries, fixing up my house, learning about astrology, personality theory, and theraputic approaches, sewing, cooking, eating, being crafty, watching porn, and making pretty girls feel good!
Positive, energetic, open-minded, socially-conscious, unpretentious people who challenge me, have interesting shit to talk about, share themselves and their knowledge willingly, give good advice/support, and value mutually growth-enhancing friendships. Fun queers who wanna hang out at my place, party, dirty-dance, watch movies, conversate, and gossip with me. People who give me that fun tingly feeling in my crotch!
Robots in Disguise, The Magnetic Fields, Future Bible Heros, Maple Rabbit, Peaches, Mates of State, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Tegan and Sara, Annie, Dressy Bessy, Sleater-Kinney, Chicks on Speed, Tracy and the Plastics, Le Tigre, Gravy Train!!!!, the Gossip, Team Dresch, Elliott Smith, Cub, Cadallaca, bis, Pansy Division, Jets to Brazil, Mr. T Experience, Outkast, Nelly, Lil' Kim and anything else I can shake it to!
Freeway 2, Me and You and Everyone We Know, Secretary, Sister My Sister, Hedwig, Gia, Lolita, South Park, Ghost in the Shell, The Craft, Seven, Ma Vie En Rose, 8mm, Quills, All Over Me, Better Off Dead, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory and John Waters movies.
If I had cable I would watch TNT dramas, Food Network and Comedy Central all day long and probably never leave the house again. I can't wait until the newest season of Greys Anatomy comes out on DVD. The suspense is killing me!
Anything by Michelle Tea, Carol Queen, Patrick Califia, and Kate Bornstein. Any kind of Astrology books. Invisible Monsters, Stone Butch Blues, That's Revolting!, Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies, Annie Sprinkle's Post-Porn Modernist, The Ethical Slut, The Aquarian Conspiracy, Ishmael, The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat, On Our Backs magazine, and Small Favors comics.
Anyone who lives responsibly and works to make the world a better place.