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Steven Lacey, groomsman

I knew I should have been an accountant

About Me

I'm a writer.
Rather than bore you with the endlessly-interchangeable aspects of my life compared to the millions of other MySpace denizens, I will instead provide some quotes. They are about writing, mostly, but also about love, life, and what should, in the end, always be the most important things we possess - our souls, our integrity, our compassion.
Enjoy.
"In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends." - Martin Luther King Jr.
“I'm always thinking about creating. My future starts when I wake up every morning . . . Every day I find something creative to do with my life.” - Miles Davis
"The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say, but what we are unable to say." - Anais Nin
"Many books require no thought from those who read them, and for a very simple reason; they made no such demand upon those who wrote them." - Charles Caleb Colton
"Everything a writer learns about the art or craft of fiction takes just a little away from his need or desire to write at all. In the end he knows all the tricks and has nothing to say." - Raymond Chandler
"A writer doesn't solve problems. He allows them to emerge." - Friedrich Dürrenmatt
"I write entirely to find out what I'm thinking, what I'm looking at, what I see and what it means. What I want and what I fear." - Joan Didion
"If you are pointing out one of the things a story is about, then you are very probably right; if you are pointing out the only thing a story is about you are very probably wrong - even if you're the author." - Neil Gaiman
"Authors who never give you something to disagree with never give you anything to think about." - Michael LaRocca
"From 30 feet away she looked like a lot of class. From 10 feet away she looked like something made up to be seen from 30 feet away." - Raymond Chandler
"The only time I know that something is true is the moment I discover it in the act of writing." - Jean Malaquais
"We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospection." - Anais Nin
"Writing, I explained, was mainly an attempt to out-argue one's past; to present events in such a light that battles lost in life were either won on paper or held to a draw." - Jules Feifer
"If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put foundations under them." - Henry David Thoreau
"You cannot depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus." - Mark Twain
"If you do not breathe through writing, if you do not cry out in writing, or sing in writing, then don't write, because our culture has no use for it." - Anais Nin
"Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it." - Raymond Chandler
"One of the things that draws writers to writing is that they can get things right that they got wrong in real life by writing about them." - Tobias Wolff
"One nice thing about putting the thing away for a couple of months before looking at it is that you start appreciate your own wit. Of course, this can be carried too far. But it's kind of cool when you crack up at a piece of writing, and then realize you wrote it. I recommend this feeling." - Steven Brust
"The novel is an event in consciousness. Our aim isn't to copy actuality, but to modify and recreate our sense of it. The novelist is inviting the reader to watch a performance in his own brain." - George Buchanan
"Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great." - Mark Twain
"Neither a lofty degree of intelligence nor imagination nor both together go to the making of genius. Love, love, love - that is the soul of genius." - Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart
“Dreaming in public is an important part of our job description, as writers, but there are bad dreams as well as good dreams. We're dreamers, you see, but we're also realists, of a sort.” - William Gibson
"The artist is nothing without the gift, but the gift is nothing without work." - Emile Zola
"If you can't get rid of the skeleton in your closet, you'd best teach it to dance." - George Bernard Shaw
"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage." - Anais Nin
"Security is mostly a superstition; it does not exist in nature. Life is either a daring adventure... or nothing." - Helen Keller
"In a little while, we shall all be dead; therefore, let us behave as though we were dead already." - Raymond Chandler
"All human wisdom is summed up in two words; wait and hope." - Alexandre Dumas
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My Interests

My daughter, writing, PC gaming, Mini Coopers, San Diego Padres, long drives, nightswimming, The Argonauts, San Corazon, American Spirits, filmmaking, music, books, the world at large

I'd like to meet:

No one. Everyone. Somewhere in between.

Music:

None. I hate Music. Heh.

Movies:

Yes.

Television:

Six Feet Under, The Wire, Veronica Mars, Entourage, The Closer, Battlestar Galactica (the new one), Firefly, Big Love, My Name Is Earl, Robot Chicken, Harvey Birdman, Cowboy Bebop, Lost, The IT Crowd

Books:

Cryptonomicon, The Baroque Cycle, House Of Leaves, Pattern Recognition, The Dark Tower series, Band Of Brothers, Undaunted Courage, Nothing Like It In The World, Microserfs, Life After God, Eleanor Rigby, Fight Club, The Virgin Suicides, Sin City, Palestine, Safe Area Gorazde, Join Me

Heroes:

Anyone and everyone who has challenged the status quo and managed to overcome the negative attention; not only of their own lives and existence, but those pushing their beliefs and low-grade negative energy as well. So, for example, my Mom, and even my dad(RIP). Chuck Yeager. Jason & The Argonauts. Robert Rodriguez. Helen Keller. Anais Nin. Jack Kerouac. Thom Yorke. Tony Gwynn. AND....George Washington!!!!!!11111oneoneoneone

My Blog

Drunk again

And thinking too much.It's strange....I've fought so hard to get where I am, with you. You know who you are, although I don't think you read this stuff, anymore. I know you used to....I know that you ...
Posted by Writer, blocked on Mon, 28 May 2007 11:49:00 PST

Quizzy Goodness

Take This Quiz, have some fun - How well do you know me?                    ...
Posted by Writer, blocked on Fri, 25 May 2007 09:09:00 PST

Dear world:

Please cease and desist immediately with the following:Killing friends of people I care about senselessly;Sending the ones that I love far far away;Breaking up happy loving couples that seemed so perf...
Posted by Writer, blocked on Fri, 25 May 2007 01:29:00 PST

Goodbye, Jersey

Best of luck in your travels, and I can only hope that one day we will share the same area code again.Ya know...life isn't supposed to be this hard. One down, two to go. Suck.
Posted by Writer, blocked on Thu, 24 May 2007 12:23:00 PST

The World Is Shrinking

I just found a link to this site and felt like I should share:FlickrVision Rocks The Casbah...and The UK...and New York...And Toronto..And Brooklyn, Alabama...and...It's a real time view of pictures b...
Posted by Writer, blocked on Wed, 16 May 2007 04:03:00 PST

The Trapeze Swinger

Please, remember me, happily, by the rosebush laughing with bruises on my chin, the time when we counted every black car passing your house beneath the hill, and up until someone caught us in the kitc...
Posted by Writer, blocked on Mon, 14 May 2007 08:32:00 PST

To explain....

...lest anyone get the wrong idea, I did not voluntarily engage in playing Ships Mast last night. It was more like a 'trying to stop your way too fucked up friend from leaving by standing in front of ...
Posted by Writer, blocked on Tue, 08 May 2007 11:49:00 PST

Don't try this at home, kids.

So, contrary to popular belief, Playing Ship's Mast is not nearly as fun as it sounds. In fact, it can be downright fucking terrifying. Someone has got some goddamned 'splainin' to do.   &nb...
Posted by Writer, blocked on Mon, 07 May 2007 01:31:00 PST

Doors

(read this at The Map Room open mic a few weeks ago, after being reminded of how much it meant to me by an old friend...I wrote this for an art project that my mother and I collaborated on a few years...
Posted by Writer, blocked on Fri, 20 Apr 2007 12:53:00 PST

Thank you, Branch Rickey. Thank You, Jackie Robinson.

Thank you, Branch, for thinking that the measure of a man was much more than the color of his skin. Thank you for having the temerity and the vision to make something happen when so many people were t...
Posted by Writer, blocked on Mon, 16 Apr 2007 12:56:00 PST