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Rape Declaration Project
radio call in program informal discussion of the issue and the possible redress
The Rape Declaration Forum.
Tune in to 99.5 FM in New York City and streaming live on
web and archived at www.wbai.org
Hosts:
Rebecca Myles and Jay Grayce
Engineers: Tony Ryan and T-Dub (alternating)
After a long hiatus, unfortunately we are
back. The news isn't getting better. Reports are now
coming out of Iraq concerning the U.S. Military's
covering up rape in its ranks while in country , there
are ever more stories in New York of young women being
murdered by their boyfriends, and to everyone's dismay,
the violence against women, children and more
increasingly men, is continuing without abatement worldwide.
For newcomers: the Rape Declaration Forum is a
call-in radio live broadcast, which allows the abused to
freely relate their stories to a wide and diverse
audience over the airwaves in the New York region, and
globally on the internet. It is aired monthly on 99.5 fm WBAI.
Each broadcast typically features a pre-taped
interview with an abused person who is given free space
to explain in depth, the trauma of their abuse and
subsequent results, and perhaps lessons learned. This is
followed by anyone who calls in to add or respond to the
issues raised during the set up piece. The number to
call on the night is 212-209-2900. The show was
conceived by Donald Vance and is co-hosted by Jaye
Grayce and Rebecca Myles and engineered by Tony Ryan and
T-Dub.
So please join us, tune in, call in.

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Every Two and a Half Minutes Submitted by darceyw on Sun, 2005-09-25 22:53.Every two and a half minutes, somewhere in America, someone is sexually assaulted.How'd we come up with that number?Here's the math. There are 525,600 minutes in a non-leap year (365 days x 24 hours x 60 minutes = 525,600). That makes 31,536,000 seconds per year (525,600 minutes x 60 seconds = 31,536,000).According to the US Department of Justice's National Crime Victimization Survey — the country's largest and most reliable crime study — there were an average of 200,780 sexual assaults each year in 2004-2005 (the most recent data available).So: 31,536,000 divided by 200,780 comes out to one sexual assault every 157 seconds, or about one every two and a half minutes.Sexual assault vs. rape One more thing we should point out: Notice that we said one "sexual assault," not one "rape." What's the difference? Sexual assault is a broader category that the Justice Department uses to classify rape, attempted rape, and other violent felonies that fall short of rape (which it defines as "forced vaginal, anal or oral penetration").Of the estimated 200,780 annual violent sex crimes, 64,080 were completed rapes. So, if you want a figure that covers only rape and excludes attempted rape and sexual assault, divide 31,536,000 by 64,080. That comes out to one rape every 492 seconds or so, or about one rape every 8 minutes.Feel free to use these figures in your own materials. If you need a source, cite RAINN calculation based on USDOJ NCVS data.
Did you know that the average age of a woman being raped is sixteen to twenty-four years old? That one out of four women will be sexually assaulted in their lifetime? That most rapes are committed by acquaintances or dates?
unravel myths about rape
for example, that the woman is a seductive individual asking to be raped.
learn how to avoid becoming potential targets for a rapist.

MYTH VERSUS FACT

Rape Awareness

MYTH: Rape is an act of passion.

FACT: Numerous studies of convicted rapists have revealed that

men have various motives for raping women, yet none of

the studies has shown sexual gratification as a primary motive.

The reasons given most often by rapists are power,

domination, revenge, and humiliation. Rape is an act of

aggression and violence accomplished through sexual

means.

MYTH: Rape is committed by insane, violent sex maniacs.

FACT: As many as 80% of all assaults involve acquaintances. An

assailant might be someone you know intimately. They may

be a coworker, a friend or a family member.

MYTH: Sexual assault is an impulsive act.

FACT: Seventy-five percent of all assaults are planned in advance.

MYTH: Only young, pretty women are assaulted.

FACT: Survivors range in age from infancy to elderly, and their

appearance is seldom a consideration. Assailants often

choose victims who seem most vulnerable to attack: old

persons, children, persons with physical or emotional

disabilities, substance abusers, and homeless persons.

Men are also attacked.

MYTH: If an attacker doesn't use a weapon, it's not rape.

FACT: A weapon is not necessary for rape to occur – physical force,

psychological pressure, and the victim being under

the influence of drugs or alcohol - all count as rape.

MYTH: You cannot be assaulted against your will.

FACT: Assailants overpower their victims with the threat

of violence or with actual violence. Especially in cases of

acquaintance rape or incest, an assailant often uses the

victim's trust to isolate her/him.

MYTH: A person who has really been sexually assaulted will be

hysterical.

FACT: Survivors exhibit a spectrum of emotional responses to

assault: calm, hysteria, laughter, anger, apathy, shock. Each

survivor copes with the trauma of the assault in a different

way.

MYTH: If it is really rape then the victim will report it to the police

FACT: Sexual assault is the most underreported crime. Only one in

three victims report their assault. The most common reasons

given by victims for not reporting these crimes are the belief

it is a private or personal matter and that they fear reprisal

from the assailant.

MYTH: Women frequently "cry rape."

FACT: Women rarely lie about rape. The FBI reports that false

accusations account for only 2% of all reported sexual

assaults. This is no higher than false reports for any other

crime.

MYTH: If your husband or partner forces you to have sex it’s not

rape.

FACT: If anyone forces or coerces you to have sex against your

will, it is rape. Even if the perpetrator is your husband or

partner. In fact, 14% of women are victims of rape

committed by their husbands.

MYTH: Most sexual assault offenders are African American.

FACT: Rape happens to women of every color. Over 90% of all

sexual assaults occur between people of the same race or

ethnic background.

MYTH: If the victim isn't a virgin, then it's not rape.

FACT: The victim's past sexual history has no bearing on whether or

not she was raped. Even if she has had sexual relations with

the rapist before, if she was forced to have sex with him

against her consent, it is still rape.

MYTH: "She asked for it." Women often provoke rape by their own

behavior: wearing provocative clothing or non- traditional

clothing, going out alone, staying out late, being friends

with boys/men, being drunk, etc.

FACT: No one asks to be sexually assaulted. Nor does anyone's

behavior justify or excuse the crime. People have a right to

be safe from a sexual violation at any time, any place, and

under any circumstances. The offender, not the victim, must

be held responsible for this crime.

MYTH: Gang rape is rare.

FACT: In 43% of all reported cases, more than one assailant was

involved.

MYTH: It is impossible to sexually assault a man.

FACT: Men fall victim for the same reasons as women: they are

overwhelmed by threats or acts of physical and emotional

violence. Also, more than 60% of sexual assaults that

involve an adult male victim are gang assaults.

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The story of the Iraqi Venus

The following article has little to do with rape as it has more to do with the type of options women are left with when they are in an abusive relationship and experiencing unknown hardship during a t...
Posted by ::the rape declaratioN forum:: on Mon, 20 Oct 2008 02:08:00 PST

Rapist tries to avoid indefinite prison sentence

By NICHOLAS K. GERANIOS, Associated Press Writer Thu Oct 16, 5:09 AM ET SPOKANE, Wash. - Convicted rapist Kevin Coe is a "perfect predator" who should remain locked up indefinitely, a prosecutor...
Posted by ::the rape declaratioN forum:: on Thu, 16 Oct 2008 06:29:00 PST

As the torch passes on:

I just wanted to briefly introduce myself and to thank D for this special opportunity to be part of something which is not only profound but also necessary for all people; especially those who are in ...
Posted by ::the rape declaratioN forum:: on Wed, 08 Oct 2008 10:18:00 PST

::september broadcast::

::september broadcast:: ...
Posted by ::the rape declaratioN forum:: on Sun, 28 Sep 2008 02:38:00 PST

::afghanistan::

 Rape allegations force Afghan gov't crackdownBy HEIDI VOGT, Associated Press Writer Mon Aug 11, 1:15 PM ETKABUL, Afghanistan - Ali Khan braved death threats and public scorn to out the powerful ...
Posted by ::the rape declaratioN forum:: on Mon, 11 Aug 2008 02:10:00 PST

::AND OVER IN RUSSIA::

or::what + the FUCK!!?!??!::http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/08/05/russia n-judge-rules-sexua_n_117071.htmlRussian Judge Rules Sexual Harassment Is Okay As It Ensures Survival Of Human Racestumble di...
Posted by ::the rape declaratioN forum:: on Fri, 08 Aug 2008 10:02:00 PST

::an editoriaL::

Paul Rieckhoffhttp://www.huffingtonpost.com/paul-rieckhoff/sexual -assault-and-the-mi_b_117171.htmlPosted August 5, 2008 | 11:50 PM (EST)Read More: Department Of Defense, Gates, Iava, Mental Health, Mi...
Posted by ::the rape declaratioN forum:: on Thu, 07 Aug 2008 04:59:00 PST

::july broadcast::

::july broadcast::the current predicament of women who seek to date.download the broadcast ...
Posted by ::the rape declaratioN forum:: on Fri, 01 Aug 2008 03:17:00 PST

::the result of "sensitivity training"::

::interviewees needed::    this is an open call for interviewees:the Rape Declaration Forum is a call-in radio live broadcast, which allows the abused to freely relate their stories to ...
Posted by ::the rape declaratioN forum:: on Tue, 29 Jul 2008 12:21:00 PST

::june broadcast::

or ::whither goes the rdf? stay tuned:: ...
Posted by ::the rape declaratioN forum:: on Thu, 03 Jul 2008 02:47:00 PST