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~Chey~

The secret to success in life, is to be ready for your opportunity when it comes. - Benjamin Disrael

About Me

Honestly, this is difficult for me to explain, as I am still in a stage of self discovery. I dont really know who I truly am but I am trying to find out. I know that I am ambitious, and that I strive for things and that I create goals for myself. I am aware of some of my characteristics but am not sure how put together, what they make me. I analyze and think things, situations, events, and people to death. I want to be happy and stress free and able to face lifes battles confidently and without fear, and also come out on top. I always do eventually come out on top, but in the process of it I tend to get bruised on some kind of way. I am a people pleaser and I want so much to be accepted by others so I dont always speak up for myself and get into situations where I feel obligated to in some way support someone. I have always been this way and have always felt like an outsider who no one thinks about unless I am right in front of them. I have been working on supporting myself and although it sounds a little harsh, let others fend for themselves. I need to do this now and I am sure that once I can handle this, down the line I can find a happy medium. I am actually really excited about this self-discovery of mine. I have been through soooo much, but I guess what doesn't kill me only makes me stronger.

My Interests

My little sisters :) Making Music, Laughing, $Tacos, Inside Jokes, and other things I'm too lazy to list

I'd like to meet:



Here are My Minions!
I have A few friends friends.

He's more annoying than Chuck Norris

My Best Friend

Wayne Brady

One of my Lil' Sisters

My Artist Page

He Really Makes Me Laugh

My Plei Partner in Crime

PLEI Every Friday!

The Plei Animator/Cheater

The Ringleader of the Plei Men's Taboo Council

The Plei Observer/Sometimes a Plei'er

My Life Saver

He Makes Me laugh Too

Batman/The Terminator

My Hero (Yes, they're Real)

My Here Partner in Crime

View All of My Minions

Music:

Absolutely everything except country and classical. I love Aaliyah, Colplay, Ciara, Chemical Brothers, etc. Too many to name. I am listening to St. germaine now, I love acid jazz. Nightmares on wax. absolutely love bohemian rhapsody, got to see "we will rock you" in London and it was awesome. I love blue man group music, seeing them live is like a mind fuck though. Aerosmith, Al Green, Alinis Morisette, jill Scott, Musiq, Erykah Badu, Maxwell, Missy, Timbaland, Amanda Perez, Billy Holiday, Bjork, Black Sabbath, Air, Blur, Bob Marley, Cafe del Mar, Pink Floyyd, the Prodigy, Cardigans, Counting Crows, the Cranberries, D'angelo, Dabarge. I have about 600 more artists to name and I am so lazy, so eventually I will have them all listed, that's enough for now. Cafe del Mar, Trey Songz (oh my god he's so cute, like R.Kelly, only, he can actually sing. Debarge, Christion, Maxwell, Ashanti, Bobby Valentino, Twista, Carl Thomas, Donell Jones, Beyonce, and Kelly, but not Michelle, 'cause she can't sing. Linkin Park, Limp Bizkit, Jill Scott, ok that's enough for now, I am soooo lazy. haha. a new friend put me on to ani difranco "untouchable face" u should listen to that too... o and "self evident" by her too... ( ha ha i am so lazy...i actually cut and paste that from an email. lol... i got that itus. LOL, Joss Stone, Lenny Kravitz, did I say Kanye already?

Movies:

Boomerang, Color Purple, Queen of the Damned......Ok so I know I am a bit late, but I just saw Office Space in it's entirety, commercial free, and I laughed my ass off! Hilarious! Juice, Poetic Justice, Boys in the Hood, Baby Boy(even though most of my friends hate that movie) I just saw Crash, and it was crazy, but sooooooo true. And I saw Sin City, how utterly amazing! Just finished watching Uptown Girls for the 2nd time right now, and I cried at the end during the ballet receital. God I'm such a chick. Elephant, this independant film about this tennagers who shot up their school.

Television:

Curb Your Enthusiasm, which is the most hilarious underrated show ever. Of course the Chappelle show, South Park. Real world, Laguna Beach, pretty much anything reality. I know, pretty sad. The big Comeback is pretty funny too, watching that now. I just love seeing people who have more embarrassing awkward moments than I do, it gives me hope. Everything MTV, the L Word, although I missed the 2nd season since I was in Scotland I have some catching up to do. And of course:

Heroes:

Erik, for living out every man's fantasy.

My Blog

Driving While Black!

Last night Cris and I were driving on the 210 freeway going west bound on our way to Plei. We were lighted by the police officer around 9 pm. We tried to pull over on the freeway but the officer told ...
Posted by ~CHEY~ on Sat, 09 Dec 2006 11:33:00 PST

My First Midlife Crisis

I regret to inform you all that I have just bought my second official anti-aging product. Well, the first one was some ponds face cream, so I dont know if that really counts. But the second one, now...
Posted by ~CHEY~ on Fri, 03 Feb 2006 12:31:00 PST

LL Cool J Concert

Ok, so this morning I was listening to 100.3 the beat on my drive to work as usual.  Today was "Car-eoke" Thursday and they said they needed people to call in and sing R-Kelly.  Since I ha...
Posted by ~CHEY~ on Fri, 04 Nov 2005 11:04:00 PST

Halloween Party- 4 girls dressed as guys............

I usually bore you with words upon words describing my crazy adventures, so this time I am trying something new and will let the pictures speak for themselves.  If you have any questions about a ...
Posted by ~CHEY~ on Sun, 30 Oct 2005 01:45:00 PST

So Simple India.Arie

Now that you're right here,Let me whisper in your earNow that you're listening,Let me tell you how I fillI've been trying to formulateThe perfect words the perfect wayI can't hold it back no moreI got...
Posted by ~CHEY~ on Thu, 27 Oct 2005 01:15:00 PST

Sigur Ros

Tickets to see Sigur Ros at the Hollywood Bowl: $34.50 Convenience Charge for the tickets: $9.00 Fee to have the tickets emailed: $2.50 Driving to and from the concert: A quarter tank of gas Parking: ...
Posted by ~CHEY~ on Thu, 06 Oct 2005 03:14:00 PST

Keys to my heart

The Keys to Your Heart..http://images.blogthings.com/keystoyourheartquiz/hear t.jpg" height="100" width="100">You are attracted to those who have a split personality - cold as ice on the outside but ho...
Posted by ~CHEY~ on Thu, 15 Sep 2005 05:57:00 PST

Quitiing Smoking

So I have decided to give up smoking.  I had my last cigarette 2 days ago.  I thought I was doing well, and then Tweet's "Smoking Cigerettes" comes onto my Ipod.  You just have to read ...
Posted by ~CHEY~ on Wed, 14 Sep 2005 01:32:00 PST

I'm such a crackhead. hahahah, just kidding, Crack is Whack!!!!

Went out last night and didn't go to sleep until exactly 6:01am.  I think I have set a new record.  Anyways, my best friend Jazz is in town and her sisters and us went out last night to Bar ...
Posted by ~CHEY~ on Sun, 11 Sep 2005 10:11:00 PST

I am so lucky to be alive right now, that was a close one, I love you all! New Pics!

So I was driving to a friends house after getting out of a club Friday night at around 2:30am. Why I chose to drive from Ontario to Compton, after being up at 5am Cali time, working for 4 hours, flyi...
Posted by ~CHEY~ on Sun, 04 Sep 2005 10:08:00 PST