Being the "number one" fan of a band isnt about having all of thier c.ds, listening to them every hour of every day of every week, or knowing all the words to every song by heart, its about moshing it the fuck up at every show you go to & waiting 6 hours in the fucking freezing cold just to meet the very people that made you who you are today. Also, music doesnt define you as a person, so stop listening to the "in" bands just because you think its "cool", come on people. Listen to what makes you happy.