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Darla

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About Me

I am a diehard fan of all types of music and yes, I really would like to be a jazz singer! I firmly believe that we all have strengths within us and that things do happen for a reason. I also believe in good karma vs. bad karma.I hate the "r" word and will not hesitate to say so. This word is thrown here and there and used so much that people don't stop to think about the ramifications of this word or the history behind this word and the persons who this word has been applied to. Frankly, I'd like to see this word eradicated for good from the English language. A lofty goal perhaps but one whose time has come.found this fantasy layout at HOT FreeLayouts.com

My Interests

Singing all types of music, black & white photography, writing poetry, watching classic movies (such as Mildred Pierce, Imitation of Life), flea markets (you can find some cool stuff there!), watching music videos (there's a lot of good ones on YouTube!); and collecting meaningful quotes. "Never doubt that a small group of committed,thoughtful people can change the world. Indeed, it's the only thing that ever has."--Margaret Mead

I'd like to meet:

I'd like to meet people who are open minded, compassionate, and passionate in their beliefs, particularly when it comes to the rights of all persons, not just some persons. I'd like to meet people who aren't homophobic, xenophobic, and all around are accepting of all people. I'd also like to meet people who love to laugh (and not at the expense of others), enjoy life, enjoy music, and believe that everyone has strengths within them. Life is too short to be hating on people, besides there's enough of it on reality television!

Music:

Peter Gabriel, Sting, Prince, Etta James, Nina Simone, Bill Withers, 80's music (I can't let it go!), Motown, U2, Mary J. Blige, k.d. lang, world music, and the list goes on and on. I love a little bit of everything!

Movies:

Millions, Jumping Jack Flash, Plan 9 From Outer Space (because it's so bad, it's good!), Imitation of Life, Little Miss Sunshine, The Color Purple, Spaceballs, The Usual Suspects, Best In Show, and V for Vendetta.

Television:

The Closer (Thank you..), Ugly Betty, King of the Hill, Law & Order: SVU, and Scrubs.

Books:

Their Eyes Were Watching God-Zora Neale Hurston; Amazing Grace-Jonathan Kozol; The Accidental Buddhist-Dinty W. Moore; and Words of Paradise: Selected Poems of Rumi.

Heroes:

Peter Gabriel because he has been a tireless leader in human rights and amnesty; Barbara Ehrenreich because she really told it like it is in her book "Nickel and Dimed: On Not Getting By in America" for so many people who are non-existent in the eyes of our government; Tyne Daly, whose portrayal of a social worker on "Judging Amy" was such a refreshingly real approach of what it really is like to be a social worker; and Maya Angelou, for always being an inspiration to me for not just her phenomenal poetry but for her being such a "Phenomenal Woman", (one of my favorite poems by Maya Angelou, check it out sometime!)

My Blog

Music as a way of dealing with loss

Yesterday morning my grandma died peacefully in her sleep in a hospital with my aunt by her side. She was 80 years old and meant the world to me. A day or two before she died she looked at my aunt and...
Posted by Darla on Tue, 15 Jan 2008 08:25:00 PST

Poem "I’m Not Even Here"

Not even hereAs you stare right past meEyes as cold as black coal You stop talking as soon as I walk in as if I wouldn't notice the lack of dinBut to you, I'm not even hereBe off with me, I'm not your...
Posted by Darla on Sat, 01 Dec 2007 08:23:00 PST

I’ve been tagged by Vintage Lana so I hereby acquiesce

Top 10 things interesting things about me1. Like VintageLana, I too converted to Judaism about 10 years ago. I went to my first ever Jewish wedding and was touched with the beauty and traditions of it...
Posted by Darla on Tue, 30 Oct 2007 09:03:00 PST

Reclaiming my faith and spirituality

You ever find yourself just wondering, where do I fit in spiritually in this world? Does the song "Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For" run often through your head?? I know the answer to these ...
Posted by Darla on Fri, 28 Sep 2007 03:46:00 PST

YouTube, apathy in the world

YouTube has become a favorite site of mine, particularly since I've found a lot of my favorite 80's videos, videos from lesser known artists (Patti Griffin, Jane Siberry, and gasp, the Eurogliders) an...
Posted by Darla on Wed, 22 Aug 2007 05:22:00 PST