I support the Midwifery Model of Maternity Care .
Women's bodies were designed to conceive, grow, nurture, and deliver babies! Pregnancy is a natural life process, and birth is a beautiful bodily function. Pregnancy is not a disease, and childbirth is not a catastrophe waiting to happen!
YOU CAN DO THIS!!!
"Your baby's birth is a life-changing event, and it is your experience -- not the hospital's, not the doctor's -- to remember and cherish. If you seize the opportunity to prepare for and expect a positive birth experience, you'll most likely find that giving birth increases your confidence and strengthens your self-image -- which will make you a more capable woman in all aspects of your life." -- The Official Lamaze Guide: Giving Birth with Confidence
"Some writers have observed that, for a laboring woman, having a baby has a lot of parallels with making a baby: the same hormones, the same parts of the body, the same sounds, and the same needs for feelings of safety and privacy. How would it be to attempt to make love in the conditions under which we expect women to give birth? ... Undisturbed birth is possible in a variety of settings, but must always involve a feeling of emotional security for the birthing woman. A familiar and supportive companion, such as a midwife or doula, can play an important role in creating and protecting a private space for the laboring woman, especially in a hospital setting." -- Dr. Sarah J. Buckley, MD - Ecstatic Birth: Nature's Hormonal Blueprint for Labour
Ten Tips for a Healthy Pregnancy
1. Learn as much as possible about the wonderful ways that your body is changing and about how your baby is growing. Talk to your mother, your friends, and other women about pregnancy, labor, and birth. Attend an early pregnancy childbirth class, read books, and watch videos about normal pregnancy and childbirth.
2. Think about whether you want to give birth at a hospital, at a birthing center, or at home. Choose a health care provider who will be able to assist you in your chosen location and who helps build your confidence for pregnancy and childbirth.
3. Eat a well-balanced diet, paying attention to the recommendations of the food pyramid. Drink more milk, or foods that substitute for milk, and eat a little extra protein. If you don't eat several servings of fresh fruits and vegetables every day, take a prenatal vitamin that contains folic acid. Drink lots of water - six to ten glasses a day - and choose real fruit juices instead of sodas.
4. Avoid substances that may be dangerous for you and your baby, such as cigarettes, alcohol, and street drugs. Do not take any medications, even over-the-counter medications, unless you have discussed them with your health care provider.
5. Stay active! Continue exercise programs that you were doing before you became pregnant, according to the recommendations of your health care provider. If you were not exercising before becoming pregnant, consider yoga, walking, or swimming. Start with short periods of exercise, and gradually increase the amount of time you are exercising.
6. Get plenty of rest. Listen to your body to determine if you need short breaks during the day and to determine how many hours of sleep you need at night.
7. Talk to your baby and enjoy your growing bond with him. Research now shows that babies react to the sense of touch as early as ten weeks of pregnancy. A little later, she can react to light, your voice, music, and other sounds.
8. Try to minimize the stress in your life and practice stress management techniques such as slow, deep breathing and relaxing various muscle groups when you feel under stress. You can learn these techniques and other strategies for relaxation in childbirth education classes.
9. Plan your baby's birth. For most women, birth is normal, natural, and healthy. Learn as much as possible about what birth is like in the location you have chosen. Ask questions about the six care practices that support normal birth . Childbirth preparation classes will help you understand what happens during childbirth and will help you and your partner learn positions and movements which will aid labor and ways to cope with the stress and pain.
10. Enjoy this special time in your life! Your partner, your family and friends can help make the most of this wonderful transition. Have confidence in your body's ability to grow, nourish, and give birth to this baby as women have done for centuries.
I'm always on the lookout for expectant parents who want a beautiful birth experience.
You can have a healthy, informed, supported birth. Knowledge is Power! It's your body, your baby, your birth, your way! I support YOU and your birth plan.
Whether you:
~ are having your baby in a hospital, birth center or at home
~ will be attended by a doctor, nurse or a midwife
~ are doing this alone, with your partner, or surrounded by family / friends
~ expect to use medication or to go all natural (or anywhere in between!)
~ have an uncomplicated or high-risk pregnancy
~ are a first-timer or have given birth before
...you can be assured that, as your doula, I will respect your wishes, protect your rights and create a positive, encouraging, mother-friendly atmosphere.
Private or group childbirth preparation classes and customizable Doula services available. Please contact me for a free consultation.
I love all families and I gladly partner you wherever, whenever and however you are in life's journey. A Doula for every mother who wants one!
ICEA and DONA trained. (Certification in progress!)
What being a doula means to me
My Doula practice is Mother Friendly !
RECOMMENDED READING:
The Rights of Childbearing Women
Considering a Labor Doula? What You Need to Know
Burger King and Birth: Have it Your Way
Kmom's Top Ten Hints for a Better Birth
Having a Baby in America
Pushed Birth -- What to Expect. Really.
Why Transparency in Maternity Care Matters
What Women Aren't Told About Childbirth
"Fish Can't See Water" -- The Need to Humanize Birth
Pain in Labour: Your Hormones are Your Helpers
Blue Ribbon Baby - Optimal Pregnancy Nutrition
Meeting Your Nutritional Needs: MyPyramid for Pregnancy and Breastfeeding
Easier Birth Through Fetal Positioning
Medical Risks of Epidural Anesthesia During Childbirth
Vaginal Birth After Cesarean: Checklist
101 Reasons to Breastfeed Your Child
Full Disclosure: Circumcision Information for Health Professionals and Parents
Bonding With Your Newborn
Kangaroo Care: Why Does It Work?
10 Reasons to Wear Your Baby
Ten Reasons to Sleep Next to Your Child at Night
National Vaccine Information Center
Considering Ultrasound? Consider This:
Questions about Prenatal Ultrasound and the Alarming Increase in Autism
Ultrasound: More Harm than Good?
Ultrasound: Weighing the Propaganda Against the Facts
Ina May's Guide to Childbirth
The Big Book of Birth
The Complete Book of Pregnancy and Childbirth
Childbirth Without Fear
Baby Catcher
The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth
Adventures in Natural Childbirth
The Doula Book
The Nursing Mother's Companion
The Happiest Baby on the Block
So That's What They're For!
The Vaccine Book
Ina May Gaskin
Penny Simkin
Henci Goer
Erica Lyon
Peggy Vincent
Dr. Sears
Gloria LeMay
Marsden Wagner
Michel Odent
Elizabeth Davis
Robbie Davis-Floyd
Barbara Harper
Sarah J. Buckley
Jennifer Block
Doulas Of North America
International Childbirth Education Association
Lamaze International
The Coalition For Improving Maternity Services
Childbirth Connection"
La Leche League
Genital Integrity Resources
Attachment Parenting International