Play dough, plants, dogs (the kind with four legs, not the biped imitators), piercings & tattoos, abstract concepts, abstract art, abstract people, bowling, ice-skating, riding my scooter, playing with the kiddies.
Someone with the cognitive capacity to think absolutely and abstractly. Someone who will debate over the characteristics of society, and what it means to be a conscience being, who will stay up late with me and talk about nothing, who will sit around and drink beer with me while we toss dirty jokes back and forth, someone who values the little things in life, someone flexible who can defend their ideas, who can find the balace between stability and spontanuity, who doesn't shy away from adventure, and most importantly, someone who can laugh at themselves!
I *love* to read! :) Lately I've been reading novels by Tom Robbins such as Skinny Legs and All, Jitterbug Perfume, and Still Life With Woodpecker, various philosophy books, The Bhagavad-Gita, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, some Charles Bukowski, and a couple of fantasy books just for some light humor and reading. I really like to read in order to educate myself. I like books about Horticulture, Natural Healing, the World's Religions, Astronomy, the Paranormal, Philosophy, the History as to why this crap is such crap, Psychology, etc. . .
My children are my heros. They are the sweetest little beings on the whole planet. Some days I feel like I just can't do *anything* and one of the kids will come up to me and give me a hug, say something silly, or just be too damn cute to be sad or to feel overwhelmed. They are absolutely the best!