Any standup philosophers, workers of the world, clairvoyant schizophrenics, midget stalkers, pregnant Episcopalian priests, eugenicists (serious ones), Salma Hayek, anyone who drinks single-malt scotch.However, any of these must also want to laugh, go on adventurous dates in Manhattan, engage in endless witty banter, see interesting films, talk about great books, go to Mets games, listen to concerts on weekday nights in Central Park with a blanket and bottle of wine, tease playfully, take a cab home drunk at 4 am, sleep till noon on Sundays, and other such activities...
Johny Cash, Elvis Costello, Tom Waits, Everything But the Girl, Brave New Girl, Portishead, Bob Dylan, ambiant music from 70's porno films, Tenacious D, De la Soul, Thin Lizzy, Soulwax, Rage Against the Machine, Def Leppard, Journey, Bruce Springsteen, the Vines, Jet, Siah, Interpol, most all jazz except the easy listening kind, Radiohead, etc...
The Hot Spot, Leaving Las Vegas, The Hairdresser's Husband, Last Tango in Paris, A Streetcar Named Desire, The English Patient, Frida, City Lights, The Mission, Cinema Paradiso, Fight Club, The Matrix, Behind the Green Door, most all Film Noir, Harold and Maud, All About Eve
The Simpsons (but mostly before 1997), The Daily Show, ESPN, The Sopranos, Six Feet Under, Rome, most HBO, in fact, except the pathetic Deadwood...
Better For All the World, The Secret History of Forced Sterilization and America's Quest for Racial Purity