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JaiPea

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

The last gouster.I am an extrovert that likes people and enjoy socializing, solo or with the lady in my life. My preference is together, but I understand that’s not the way it will always be, or the way I’d want it always to be. I feel it’s important and OK to maintain individuality and separate friendships.I appreciate quiet romantic time together. I enjoy early morning and late night cuddles, watching TV or listening to our favorite music. And even just being in the same room while reading or writing can be comforting. I enjoy sharing the things that make me feel good knowing it’s not something you’d do all the time, and visa versa. I also like doing the things that we both enjoy. I don’t think you have to sacrifice one for the other as long as there is balance.I’m not a jealous person and strongly believe in trust and respect. So in the matter of friends of the opposite sex, I’m OK with them as long as they’re OK with me. You have my trust first, but once lost it’s very difficult to be regained.The truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. After Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny, I realized that there were other things I couldn’t believe in. I do believe in the truth, nothing but the truth. Not lying. I would be lying if I believed in the whole truth. When I say "not lying", I mean just that. For instance, would I tell you a lie not to hurt your feelings about a particular dress you were wearing, "no". Would I tell you the truth about my opinion on that dress, "yes". One shortcoming is, I may not notice every new out fit you put on, but I will acknowledge every time the sight of you lights a new spark within me, which in most cases will be every time I look at you in it and especially out of it.I will come to you with my problems, and don’t mind you asking. But there are times when I need to play it in my head, before processing any input from the outside. I will let you know that. I’m not shutting you out, just not letting you in YET. You can ask me anything. Day one’s answer may be ‘nothing for you to be concerned with,’ another day will get you the answer you want to know. All things in time.I don’t believe in asking for permission, but I do believe in being considerate. ‘Can I’ fails where ‘if we don’t have any other plans’ will make things a whole lot easier. ‘How long will you be gone’ will be more effective than ‘when are you coming back’ in every case. ‘Did you have a good time’ will get you just as much information as ‘where have you been’. It’s all in how you say what you say.Sharing responsibility in all aspects of a relationship will go a long way. Having some behaviors in common will help too. I will always acknowledge my woman in the presence of others. I won’t behave in a manner that disrespects her or our relationship when we are together or apart. I will put her on a pedestal every chance that I’m allowed. I want her to never feel that I’ve not given enough in our relationship. I enjoy her being the baby, the girl, the lady, or the woman she chooses to be. I also enjoy the mother, the VP, or the Boss that she is, and know how to treat each and every one of them.I am open to new and different things, but at a pace that’s comfortable to me. I may not sense every time there is something going on with you, but I will be there every time you need me. I may not remember the anniversary of every occasion of significance, but I will never forget the moment that they occurred. I may not care for all of your friends, but I can deal with them as if they were mine when we are together.When you entertain your friends, I may disappear to another room. Not being rude, just giving you the space that you deserve. But I will make myself available to do for you and your guest when requested.I'm not perfect, but do believe in the perfect match.That’s just a little bit of me.

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My Interests

Music, listening, making, and live. Bears fan, bogey golfer, great dancer. Writing thoughts, poetry, and things about everyday life. Holistic health. Why 'Building 7' fell.Long legs, big eyes, and nice curves that end at wonderful places.

I'd like to meet:

Beautiful people that are contributors to life. Lovers not haters.

Music:

Dancehall, Reggae, R&B, Alternative, Jazz, and just plain good music of any kind...
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Movies:

DieHard, Resident Evil, Underworld, Blade, Blade Runner, Matrix, Serenity, Silverado, Imitation of Life, Searching for Bobby Fisher, The Color Purple, Kissing Jessica Stein, Malcom X, Freedom Writers, The Jerk, Mahogany, Let's Do It Again, Purple Rain, Being John Malkovich, (to be continued).

Television:

House of Payne, In Treatment, Grey's, NCIS, the Unit, Weeds, ER.

Books:

The Laws of Attraction ,The Secret, Candy Girl, Autobiography of Malcolm X, There Are No Children Here, and Invisible Man.

Heroes:

Dad, Mom, and grandma.

My Blog

Last Love

When I listen to my heart, it makes me want to abandon everything that I've come to believe I've needed in life, and draws me into only wanting you.  I'm not saying that I could live life wit...
Posted by JaiPea on Mon, 12 May 2008 04:22:00 PST

Bone’ petite

I don't easily recall distant past memories that don't have some deep emotional significance attached to them, but the today on my lunch break I bought an individual serving of a no sugar added bluebe...
Posted by JaiPea on Fri, 02 May 2008 10:35:00 PST

My Woman of Ecstasy

Oh baby...... My beautiful woman of ecstasy. The power of your being is such a magnificent source of desire within me, that even in my subconscious hours of the night, I still crave your presence. And...
Posted by JaiPea on Wed, 23 Apr 2008 04:01:00 PST

For Starters

What do I want? Seeing a future that is possible only when two can have a vision as one. Comforts to the soul that only a special one knows how to exercise. The right words spoken when they're ne...
Posted by JaiPea on Mon, 14 Apr 2008 04:25:00 PST

Trusting Love

I don’t love you for what you think you are,              because sometimes what you believe you are       &nb...
Posted by JaiPea on Thu, 10 Apr 2008 04:40:00 PST

Everlasting with You

I really enjoy having you in my life.  When I made the choice to be alone, it was because it was what I needed to do.  And when the time came that I was again ready to have someone in my ...
Posted by JaiPea on Fri, 28 Mar 2008 04:29:00 PST

Getting Back

Four of five months ago I was a little depressed and not too happy with myself, and I felt like no matter what I did I was not moving toward happiness in my life.  So I began a conscious effort t...
Posted by JaiPea on Mon, 24 Mar 2008 09:52:00 PST

Assured

I once thought that what I saw in your eyes was what I felt in my heart.  But as I look at your smile, the way you walk, the sound of your voice, the feel of your body, the smell of your ess...
Posted by JaiPea on Mon, 24 Mar 2008 04:02:00 PST

The Nature In You

The sound of the water as it beats against the rocks at shore. The birds singing in the early morning hours, signs that summer is in the making. The sight of the leaves moving and branches bending fro...
Posted by JaiPea on Tue, 18 Mar 2008 03:48:00 PST

Remember U Today DJ

Twenty-four years have passed and thoughts of you have dimmed, but they never parish.  As this day arrives I have imagined what you would look like today.  I've wondered would we still be to...
Posted by JaiPea on Mon, 10 Mar 2008 04:15:00 PST