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J Mikey

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About Me

THE ROAD GOES ON FOREVER
AND THE PARTY NEVER ENDS

GO SPURS GO


There are two mistakes one can make along the road to truth -- not going all the way, and not starting. --Buddha

The best thing I can say about me is that I've always tried to make sure everybody had a good time, and that I always make sure your beer is as full as mine.

"you mean, he'd rather imagine himself relate to an absent person than build relationships with those around him?"

"Take my hand, and.. something else, it doesn't matter, just do that."

One bad thing about me is that I have no sense of timing in friendships and relationships. The analogy is in driving my car: I'll wait forever to make a left turn, and then, nervous because of the cars accumulating behind me, dart into traffic. The result is that in my desire for people I'm afraid to touch them, and then elbow them in the ribs."Try to exclude the possibility of suffering which the order of nature and the existence of free-wills involve, and you find that you have excluded life itself."
-- CS Lewis Some nights of apprehension and near weeping
I will confess; but that's permitted me;
Day dried my eyes.

Love to travel. My recent forays have included West Coast USA, a lot of time in Spain and Germany; the UK / Netherlands / Austria / Switz., and months in Tunisia/Algeria/Morocco . I loved Tunisia, liked Morocco, and was scared for my life in Algeria. But that's the one place where you can go far out past the dunes, deep in the sahara, where nothingness stands bare and essence has retreated on all sides of the horizon, as if impelled by a centrifugal force. Whenever I'm on trips , especially in developing countries, it seems that's the only time I can look at my life with a little more objectivity than usual. It's while traveling that I can make decisions that I cannot make when I'm stationary.

Got my double undergrad degrees in Aerospace Engineering & Geography (minor in Math), and my Masters in Urban Planning (certificate in Sustainable Urbanism). I also completed my MS Arabic I in Fez, Morocco, and would love to get more of that, but alas, the real world called. Ugh.

I support the troops. However, I can't in any good conscience support this war. No, wait a sec. I mean I support our troops . I mean actually support -- I don't just stick a fat sticker on my fat Hummer that says "I support my troops". (sure beats a sticker on the Hummer, now doesn't it?)

Edna St Vincent Millay sums up my loves and passions. Hey it could be worse - what if I said Sylvia Plath or something? (don't hate me Lamonica)

I am Lutheran; ELCA to be exact. I don't believe other religions or non-religion is wrong; Or .. as my friend Adam says about Lutherans: 'We don't just nail the 95 theses - BITCHES' hahaha.

"Those who would like the God of scripture to be more purely ethical, do not know what they ask."
---CS Lewis

I moved to Portland, and I have never been happier in a city. I love the city, I wake up happy every single morning. I really miss all the folks from back in Texas and the folks from Florida. 'I will note that the keenest sorrow of mine, everywhere I go, is to recognize myself as the sole cause of all of my adversities' (Sophocles, 400BC) however.

My Interests

Alcohol, X-Files, Books, Live Music (pop-punk, indie, and/or artsy-fartsy classical), Playing Tennis, Bowling, Running, Rock Climbing (like a mofo in the chinatown), Urban Planning & Architecture, Beaches (lately).

I'd like to meet:



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I would like to meet someone who would kiss me in Fibonacci Sequence.

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I love Edna St Vincent Millay, Madeleine Albright, CS Lewis and Toni Collette.

Read this very closely:
"Foolish Consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds. With consistency a great soul has simply nothing to do. He may as well concern himself with his shadow on the wall. Speak what you think now in hard words and to-morrow speak what to-morrow thinks in hard words again, though it contradict every thing you said to-day.--"Ah, so you shall be sure to be misunderstood."--Is it so bad then to be misunderstood? Pythagoras was misunderstood, and Socrates, and Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton, and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh. To be great is to be misunderstood." -- R W Emerson After careful consideration, I have decided to endorse Hillary Clinton for President of the United States. We can benefit from Clinton's 30+ years as a public servant. She represents change, leadership, unity, and electability. Please visit my blog, "100 Resons..." for a bulleted list of why she is the best Democratic candidate.A vote for Hillary Clinton is a vote to elect someone who has proven over time to me and to this country that she has the experience to make things happen and the vision to return us to a place of prosperity while also leading us to a new place of positive change in our healthcare system, education system, our social issues, and our economy. The need for these changes is urgent, and this is no time for waiting and hoping for solutions from a man who is unable to deliver these things. This is not a game. This is about real people's real lives. I endorse her with confidence and it is an informed decision. She is the only candidate whose past experience and hard work shows that we can elect her with the assurance that real, positive change will begin immediately. You can give my blog, "100 Reasons...", a read, and feel free to comment. Although I am not a revolutionary, I'd like to meet a revolutionary! Revolution is war. Of all the wars known in history, it is the only lawful, rightful, just, and truly great war. This war is not waged in the selfish interests of a handful of rulers and exploiters, like any and all other wars, but in the interests of the masses of the people against the tyrants, in the interests of the toiling and exploited millions upon millions against despotism and violence. I seek in other people one thing: 'humility'. You have to be able to laugh at yourself. ALSO:
Madeleine Albright, Francis Fukyama, Toni Collette, and Katherine Porter (even though she's dead).[Written in 2004:] There are two things in this world that I want:
1) A sequel to the 1998 X-Files Movie (update here )
2) Me to publish one great novelIf you ever say 'Woot', you will never fall into the category of someone 'I'd like to meet'.I love Lamonica 's AbFab quote:
You can't buy happiness, but you can bloody well charge it! I identify with Jenny 's quote:
I'm clumsy. And not in that sexy Don Knotts way.

Music:

Show line-up:
15 Nov 07 - Stars
ABBA
Ash
Beastie Boys
Catie Curtis
Ani Difranco
Melissa Ferrick
Spoon
Muse
Add (N) to X
Freezepop
Ladytron
I Am World Trade Center
Agnostic Front
Le Tigre
The Servant
Clinic
Injected
Pansy Division
Kate Wolf
Mamma Cass
Old 97s
Ours
Patti Smith
Sheryl Crow
Local H
NOFX
Snow Patrol
Die Toten Hosen
Embrace
Die Artze
The Streets
U2
Common Rider
The New Pornographers
Alphaville
LCD Soundsystem
Alkaline Trio
Less Than Jake
Gurdas Mann
John Southworth
Elliot Smith
Mary Prankster
Dar Williams
Cake
Stars
Ramones
The Smiths
Fenix TX
Fly Mordecai
Blondie
The Gourds
Interpol
Grandaddy
Frou Frou
Sugarcult
Sondre Lerche
David Garza
Aimee Mann
Fiona Apple
Electrolese
Bonkin' Clapper
Louis Armstrong
Count Basie
Ella Fitzgerald
Etta James
Duke Ellington
James Brown (!)
Badly Drawn Boy
The Pixies
Cake
At The Drive In
Belle And Sebastian
David Bowie
Clap Your Hands And Say Yeah
Elvis Perkins In Dearland
Sublime
Cole Porter
The Sounds
Wir Sind Helden
Guano Apes
Hot Hot Heat
Placebo
Ben Lee
Steve Earle
Velvet Underground
The Butchies
Star Sailor
South Austin Jug band
Billy Idol
Scissor Sisters
Paris Combo
The Cloud Room
The Transplants
Ditty Bops
The Ms
Toni Collette and the Finish
Tegan And Sara
Frida Lyngstadt
Agnetha Faltskog
Benny Andersson Orchestra
Derb
Naked Eyes
Lisa Fraser
Lipps Inc
Louis XIV
The Faint
Ich + Ich This is just a list of my favorites; of course there are a lot of other bands that are really great. My favorite band (obsession) is ABBA and I've even spent a lot of money to see individual members, collector items.. go ahead and judge me, I deserve it..My favorite live band is Ash by a long stretch. Sometimes their music sounds too overproduced on album, though.The best voices in Europe are Sweden's Peter Joback and Helen Sjoholm.Recently I've been listening to Oasis' new album (shut up and stop judging me - I like their new album even if everything else is shit; I don't care what you say). I like Beck's new album. I like Gomez, particularly their song, 'Silence'. I like that Bombshell Crush cover - Time After Time (and the original, too). I like any bands' covers of ABBA, even though there's some truly horrific ones. A great set is Salma and Sabrina's ABBA covers in Hindi, no kidding. Jason Harwell, Aimee Mann, Jason Mraz, and, yes, even Enya get some airtime on a rainy day. I love classical music and have a huge collection. My favorites are Mendelssohn and Chopin. I like Hector Villa-Lobos, Liszt, Tchaikovsky, Puccini, Leoncavallo, Philip Glass, and the usual suspects: Mozart, Verdi, Giordano, Delibes, Vivaldi, Wagner, Bizet, Massenet etc. My favorite opera is Carmen; my favorite musical is Mamma Mia! although it's no great musical by any stretch of the imagination (well.. it's the largest selling musical ever, so there's something); I also like The Threepenny Opera, Kristina fran Duvemala, and the movie version of Evita.I've been really pleased with The Arcade Fire. I saw them live, and I saw them on SNL (though I can't find that video anywhere), and I like their music. Anyway, this is a great way to put their music to a classic movie (VERY well done; it's also one of my favorite songs - the lyrics are so powerful and haunting): Introducing, The Stars. This song has great lyrics:
And, of course, my favorite band of all time: ABBA. And yes, you can make fun of me, but I will always love them:

Movies:

X-Files
Frida
Lawrence of Arabia
Not Without My Daughter made for tv special on Lifetime
Spaceballs
The Princess Bride
Clue
The Hole (the porn version of The Ring; look it up)
Baghdad Café
Playing by Heart
U-Turn
Go
Saved
Mishima
Dawn of the Dead (2004)
Transamerica
Velvet Goldmine
Deep End
Muriel's Wedding
Dr. Zhivago
Love in the Time of Cholera
Snakes on a (mutherfuckin) Plane
Snow White (the one with Sigourney Weaver)
Mind Walk
Dancer in the Dark
The Hours
An Ideal Husband
Mystic Pizza Jurassic Park
Alien(s)
Angels in America
The Jackal
Beloved
Y Tu Mama Tambien
Priscilla
But I'm a Cheerleader
The Station Agent
Saved
I Heart Huckabees
Sister Act
Splash
Mindwalk
Raising Arizona
2000 Cigarettes
Overboard
Starman
Roxanne
Amelie
Marie Antoinette
Hoodlums
Connie and Carla
Snow CakeAnything with Toni Collette, Gillian Anderson, Parker Posie, Tilda Swinton, or Catherine O'Hara; I also like Kenneth Branaugh's Shakespeare movies. The greatest movies are Mindwalk, Mishima, Lawrence of Arabia, and maybe The Princess Bride.
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My true love, Toni Collette, in "Cosi":

Television:

...."-2"Adult Swim and X-Files only it seems. Everybody Loves Raymond can sometimes make me laugh out loud. I really liked Count Duckula when it was on. Absolutely Fabulous, of course. TV isn't my favourite sport, but I can be persuaded to watch it sometimes, such as the entire NBA Playoffs, the World Cup every four years, and some College Football. March Madness only interests me when there's teams I care about, but I always love the bracket.

Books:

Currently reading:
America at the Crossroads, by Francis Fukuyama. Also browsing around some Marilyn French, or something in that style. Oh, and some Nabokov before bed.There are two camps: Those who prefer Stephen Hawkings, and those who know that Fritjof Capra is the better writer on systems theory. Edna St. Vincent Millay, Catherine Porter, Paul Bowles!, Daphne du Maurier, Kevin Lynch, Jane Smiley, Virginia Woolfe, Robert Friedman, Michner, Ralph Waldo Emerson, CS Lewis, Sylvia Plath, Susan Faludi, Colleen McCullough, Ben Bova, darkly - David Sedaris, Madeline Albright, - Madame Secretary, The Thorn Birds, Anna Karenina, Fritjof Capra, Kim Stanley Robinson: Red Mars, Green Mars, Blue Mars, A Thousand Acres, Nobokov, Rilke, Renault, Thomas Keneally's Shindler's List, and Bill Watterson's Calvin & Hobbes. Love in the Time of Cholera (they're making a movie out of it!), and anything else by Gabriel Marquez. I notice there are categories for Books, Music, Television, Movies, but why isn't there Art? And Theatre? Myspace could be much improved; and perhaps the minds of we, its users..

Heroes:

Madeleine Albright, Edna St. Vincent Millay, CS Lewis, Ann Todd, the brave military men and women abroad.

My Blog

Please Self Reflect

Of all the planets in our universe, there is only one that we know can support life.It's called, "Earth"... One year in the life of the creatures that share our planet.It takes so little, a b...
Posted by J Mikey on Sun, 18 May 2008 12:23:00 PST

Urban Acupuncture & Sex Survey

So there is an artist who is collaborating with dozens of Urban Planners and Eastern Medicine folks, and is planting hundreds of 25’ high ’pins’ into the City of Portland at designat...
Posted by J Mikey on Fri, 21 Mar 2008 09:01:00 PST

Pictures from the Portland Urban Iditarod

Here are some awesome pictures from the Portland Urban Iditarod Race 2008.  Go view them and then click me some kudos and comments.Pictures!Each year, on the same day as the Alaskan Iditarod (dog...
Posted by J Mikey on Mon, 03 Mar 2008 08:21:00 PST

If you watch ONE video.

Then promise me you'll watch this one:... If you never watch ANYTHING I send you about the election, please watch this: Finally, someone has said, "can you name anything he has accomplished a...
Posted by J Mikey on Wed, 20 Feb 2008 06:56:00 PST

100 Reasons to Support Clinton

..>..>..>..>..>..>..>If you'll read all of this, I'll give you a cool picture of a space shuttle at the end!Some people say Clinton is not electable. Some say that it is Obama who represents "hope," "...
Posted by J Mikey on Fri, 08 Feb 2008 10:15:00 PST

Green, Greener, Greenest

Portland & Multnomah County have become the first Kyoto compliant city/county in the United States.  How did this happen? The two adopted a joint plan in 2001 with lofty goals to reduce each...
Posted by J Mikey on Thu, 20 Dec 2007 03:25:00 PST

New Addition to the Family

Grace and I have a new friend, Geraldine!  On December 1st, Geraldine Stark was born and brought into our family.  Of course there was a guy there who was buying a handful of mice for his sn...
Posted by J Mikey on Sat, 01 Dec 2007 01:03:00 PST

Cyclocross

What happens when you combine a World Championship event, 6 kegs of PBR, a limitless supply of Oregon made microbrews, 210 men and 30 women, a heckling contest, a Tequila shortcut and a golden Speedo...
Posted by J Mikey on Fri, 16 Nov 2007 04:14:00 PST

$10 Billion to Cities

As we were given a status report on the war, and asked to increase funding, I thought I'd throw around what ELSE we could do with the money.  Just some idle thoughts.Support Our Cities!Give $100 ...
Posted by J Mikey on Sun, 16 Sep 2007 11:23:00 PST

Mike on Bike

So yesterday (Friday, July 20th, a day that will go down in the history books of hell) I went on a 40 mile bike ride.To you bikers out there, this was an enormous thing for me, so shut up, I hate you....
Posted by J Mikey on Sun, 22 Jul 2007 09:21:00 PST