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Cassandra Park

Cassadra Park (AKA Sandy) on fantasy, pain, topping, bottoming, and relationships

About Me



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I'm a switch, 44, from Queens, NY. I'm mostly into spanking and discipline, but I also like bondage and other S/M play. My favorite position is OTK, and my favorite toys are the strap, belt, or cane. Naturally, a bare hand is exciting as well.I've been playing in various ways since my early 20s, and have been part of the public spanking and BDSM communities for about seven years.I'm looking to meet friends with similar interests, to play with new people on occasion, and to keep up with old friends. I play with my husband and a few special friends in private, with others at clubs and parties, and I do private, non-sexual sessions if arrangements are made. E-mail me at [email protected], or visit my website: http://pandemos.net/mscassandrapark/

My Interests

BDSM: explained at right. Vanilla: Art, writing, motorcycles, cats, mosaics, home improvement, hiking

I'd like to meet:

* Sensitive but tough tops/doms who are just looking for non-sexual scenes at parties * respectful but fun bottoms/subs(especially ones who can take a hard spanking and other toys) * friends of all orientations for conversation.For private sessions, e-mail me** Please note, if you're going to email me: I expect politeness. A proper greeting would be nice. Providing your name would be nice. If you don't have a profile, tell me something about yourself and why you are writing. Before sending the email, check spelling, usage, and grammar. I am pretty serious about this. I don't mind an occasional typo; everyone's fingers slip once in a while. I'm talking about spelling basic words correctly and knowing the difference between "their" and "they're." Please AVOID unnecessary abbreviations. Do not refer to me as "u." Do not ask how much I weigh. That's one of the rudest things you can ask a woman. My pics are recent, and that's my real body. Do not ask my bra size. My husband doesn't care about that; why should anyone else? Do NOT send me pictures of your cock. Thanks for allowing me to rant.

Music:

Singer/songwriter, folk, jazz, rock, classical.

Movies:

Casablanca and other Bogart movies, especially those with Bogie and Bacall. Gone with the Wind. The Big Chill. Contact. Pulp Fiction.

Television:

Boston Legal, The Office, The Daily Show, Colbert Report.

Books:

Authors: Margaret Atwood, T.C. Boyle, Anita Shreve, Janet Evanovich, Henry Miller, Charles Bukowski.

Heroes:

My mom

My Blog

Guess I need a spanking or something

I'm feeling mentally and physically drained, but today, Saturday, is starting off well with a mostly blue sky, a three-quarter moon still visible to the west and a breeze through the window revealing ...
Posted by Cassandra Park on Sat, 18 Oct 2008 05:33:00 PST

Back to work

I'm pledging to be calm this morning on the commute in. Will not get upset, no matter what. That means be prepared for SOMETHING to happen that I wasn't expecting to happen. I think that's why I get m...
Posted by Cassandra Park on Tue, 14 Oct 2008 03:47:00 PST

Diet Rant

I just wanted to say I hate dieting. And I'm really not trying to "diet," I'm trying to "eat right," exercise, and "adopt a healthy lifestyle." But who's kidding who? I want to snack, I want ice cream...
Posted by Cassandra Park on Sat, 11 Oct 2008 03:19:00 PST

Weary

Not much of a blog today. I feel a bit sad and worn down as the week comes to a close. I was listening to Joe Strummer earlier on my i-Pod, which helped my mood, but I've been listening to ANYTHING on...
Posted by Cassandra Park on Sat, 11 Oct 2008 07:59:00 PST

"Ill be good" vs. "OK, thats enough"

I mentioned yesterday that I played with J. (of J.and L.), and that L. was watching while we played on Saturday night. I had been watching them play earlier, because he's a hard player and they're fun...
Posted by Cassandra Park on Tue, 07 Oct 2008 01:55:00 PST

Sore all over

I am feeling sore (in a good way) today. Part of that is from my workouts, I intensified things last week -- ran on the treadmill on Friday and today, did my push-ups and some reverse push-ups; and ro...
Posted by Cassandra Park on Tue, 07 Oct 2008 07:11:00 PST

Just did my pushups...

And the bike is about to come out of the corner.I'm back on track with exercise. I was up to 60 push-ups a day, plus 50 "reverse" push-ups (that works the backs of your arms) every day, AND running an...
Posted by Cassandra Park on Sat, 04 Oct 2008 09:47:00 PST

Work angst, potentially dangerous train incident

I was back at work today, struggling with a head cold (and possible stomach flu -- I'm waiting and watching). All was going fine, I was a tiny bit tired but in an overall okay mood. I brought chocolat...
Posted by Cassandra Park on Wed, 01 Oct 2008 07:55:00 PST

Folsom Street is insane!

A few photos from this afternoon:And a few mental images: An old guy, completely naked except for sandals, slapping sunscreen on himself. A lady in a suit holding a leash,leading a leather-clad man wh...
Posted by Cassandra Park on Mon, 29 Sep 2008 06:48:00 PST

Quickie

Dolores, our Shadow Lane friend, stopped by our studio after she left work yesterday (we are staying in a studio apartment while we're in San Francisco). I made us all dinner and we watched the d...
Posted by Cassandra Park on Sun, 28 Sep 2008 06:57:00 PST