Magus

I like movies, books, ideas, friends, deep conversations, subtle humor, Monty Python, Beatles, horror films, theater, and lots of fun spanking (females on receiving end).I am a pure spanko, a male top who plays only with females. It's inextricably linked to my sexuality. Being shy and kind of embarrassed about the spanking kink made it hard for me to connect with people when I was younger. I guess I thought I was some kind of a freak. I largely kept that side of myself hidden.It wasn't until I started going to Shadow Lane parties about five years ago that I started to have some really fun spanking experiences with wonderful ladies. I have written some spanking stories which have received some accolades, including one that's a pastiche of P.G. Wodehouse's Jeeves stories.I'm overweight, but decent-looking otherwise, with a good set of dark brown hair. I'm in my forties but generally I'm taken for being younger. I have a subtle sense of humor and am considered a kind and empathetic person. At least I hope so.I favor the fun, romantic kind of spankings. I don't like brutality or undue harshness. A lady can be spanked without being denigrated... that's what I'm about.I don't know where the spanking things comes from. It wasn't really a part of my houshold when I was a kid. But by the time I was four, I was fascinated by any spanking images I came across, in cartoons, comics, books... in fact, I remember being riveted at a very young age by a German wine bottle that depicted a spanking on its label.I like to have a rapport with female spankees before playing with them. Forums like Shadow Lane are great for getting to know people before meeting in the flesh. I like spankings that start with the hand on clothing, then proceed down through layers of clothing..I'm pleased to meet new folks who share this odd but endearing kind of ours.