What makes me, me...Talking!, Sleeping, Dry Humor, Sarcastic Wit, Music, Shopping, Concerts, Movies, Dining, Just hanging, Picture Taking, Thrift Stores, Flea Markets, Museums, Egypt, NY City, Ice Skating, Sledding and Tubing, Camping, Kayaking, Mountain Biking, Hiking, Crafting, Making jewelry, Vintage Clothing/Accessories, Anything fluffy, fuzzy or shiny!, Cats, Buffalos, Choc. Frappes, Hostess Cupcakes, French fries, Steamers...Love all that!I hate...Spiders, heights, and all the basics that make some people God awful...And all the other basics as well.
I'd like to meet:
Well for friends...
Anyone as long as you're nice, a good person, loyal, and please, don't be one sided! Friendship is a two way street and I'm so sick of the one sided people out there.I take my friendships very seriously and my loves even moreso. I'm not hard to get along with but do expect to be treated with the respect I deserve, I'm tired of bending over backwards for friends and in return being let down the one time I turn to them for whatever it may be.
I realize, we're only human...But by the third let down, I'm all through with the so called "friendship". I just can no longer be bothered if the "friendship" is all give on my side and all take on theirs.
I need people in my life who can appreciate my wit, rather than always think I'm attacking and go for the attack right back...Lame...Or even worse, someone so pathetic who thinks I'm doing nothing but making fun of them and then they just want to curl up and die or spend the rest of the time complaining...Ugh...Draining! Seriously, get a sense of humor already and some damn self esteem! Honestly, there's a difference between a slight ribbing and a condecending jerk, and I am not the latter...But if you look hard enough for the faults in others, your mind will find something...And if that's how you spend your time, you'll also find yourself with one less friend.
Honestly, I take the nice part back...You don't even have to be that nice. I wouldn't consider myself to be overly nice...I'm friendly, but not incredibly nice. So the nice part is marginal...Just be loyal and giving...If I listen to your story...Then you should listen to mine...And so on...It's only fair. So if that's not you...I don't need to know ya.
And I realize that noone ever likes anyone else 100% and you have things you'd like to discuss with other friends about another...But there's a fine line between that and being two faced...And I will not stand for a two faced "friend".I feel I must also add in...At the age that I am...I really have no patience for anyone overly immature, stupid, miserable and/or too ridiculous for not only me but life itself. It's not that I'm a bitch...I have been called a bitch before but really, it doesn't count because take a look at who's saying it...It's either one of the types I've mentioned or just some creep/jerk I didn't want in my life...So there was no weight behind it and therefore, also no affect.
It is true though, an Aquarians motto is, "Don't tread on me"...So there's why I just can't get along with certain people...And why I am the way I am.
I'm not trying to sound negative myself by typing all this out...It's just that I have unfortunately came into contact many times in my life with all these types of people...I feel I have had my fair share and then some...And I am merely stating that I am so done with their negativity...And hoping all those new and old will read this before contacting me.And as for my "buddy list"...I purposely catagorized friends in order of whom I met first...BUT I went with up and down rather than side to side to show that I really don't have an actual order of who I like better...And I so hate the friend list for that reason. I wish I could do away with the top list altogether...At the very least, it's hidden until you view my friends...But then my "order" doesn't show the same way I see it...And I really don't care...And neither should anyone else.
Now for love...Here's my criteria...To sum it up...Don't be a complete jerk, have some manners and try to be a good person as often as you can...
And I must be fascinated...And this is why I'm still single...Cuz less and less people are creative, interesting or even at the least have a sense of style...I blame it on taking art out of our schools. And the bad taste in music...Well that's probably from taking music out of our classrooms as well...What is this world coming to?!Guess I couldn't fully sum it up in one line. But at least I'm now down to one line and one paragraph...Seriously, I used to have a huge list...Still no boat shoes or sandals though...I'm just not budging on that one.Really, I'm surprised that this is proving to be way too much to ask for.And all you collectors...
I don't always just add someone...I get quite a few friend requests, and depending on...1) Who you are2) Where you live3) What you say4) What type of mood I'm inI may or may not just add you...And on a related note, it's one thing to not say hello first, but after I do add you blindly and then when I say hello to you and you don't reply, well that's just rude...And I won't be used just to make your list look colorful...You have a better chance if you say a quick hello to go along with your request to be added...But I myself, have never cared to be popular.
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Music:
Depeche Mode, (And Dave Gahan solo of course) Alice In Chains, (Jerry Cantrell solo also) Madonna, U2, Stabbing Westward, Wolfsheim, And One, Cruxshadows, Covenant, Apop, INXS, Duran Duran, New Order, The Cult, Janes Addiction, Sisters, Ministry, Trouble, Danzig, NIN, OLD Marilyn, Nirvana, Ratt, The Bravery, The Fixx, Phil Collins (That greatest hits is great! Also Genesis' Hits) ABC, Culture Club, Cinderella, Faster Pussycat, L.A. Guns, Guns N' Roses
Movies:
Lord of the Rings (all of course), Shawshank Redemption, The Usual Suspects, Cold Mountain, Black Hawk Down, We Were Soldiers, In the Name of the Father, The Patriot, Saving Private Ryan, Dances w/Wolves, Behind Enemy Lines, Enemy at the Gates, The Count of Monte Cristo, Mississippi Burning, Of Mice and Men, Willard, Signs, Sixth Sense, Wuthering Heights, Indiana Jones, Romancing the Stone, War of the Roses, Alive, River Wild, Vacation(All), Dumb and Dumber, The Mummy, Die Hard(All), Doloris Claiborne, Cast Away, Green Mile, Gangs of New York, Road To Predition, Legends of the Fall, The Burbs, What's eating Gilbert Grape, Edward Scissorhands, Benny & Joon, Sleepy Hollow, Halloween (all, except for that third one), Dracula, Frankenstein, Texas Chainsaw..(Not that ridiculous original with the annoying loser in the wheelchair), Eye for an Eye, Fire in the Sky, War of the Worlds (So creepy...To me, those are the scary movies) Meet the parents, What about Bob, The Money Pit, The Princess Bride, Harry and the Henderson's, The Bear, Homeward Bound, Lion King, Lost Boys, Stand by Me, Goonies, Willow, U2 Rattle and Hum,Tristan and Isolde was sad. Any Abbot and Costello And SpongeBob the movie was pretty damn funny.
Television:
I Love Lucy, Laverne and Shirly, Golden Girls, Wings, Coach, Newhart, Little House, CSI, Law and Order, Blind Date, Seinfeld, RoseAnne (Before she won the money and Dan left her), Cheers, Frasier, King of Queens, Still Standing, Gomer Pyle, The Look For Less, Emergency Vets, Unwrapped, Carol Duvall Show, Martha Stewart, Howard Stern, Garfield, SpongeBob, South Park, Simpsons, The Muppets, Mystery Science Theater 3000And I can't forget all the shows that make me think and amaze me...Ghost Hunters, A Haunting, Beyond Belief, In Search Of, New Detectives, American Justice, City Confidential, Cold Case Files.Nor can I forget how I enjoy watching the late great Steve Irwin...Also, Jeff Corwin...And let me add in, Man Vs. Wild, Bear Grylls and Les "Survivorman" Stroud.
Books:
Wuthering Heights, Little House, Anne of Green Gables (series), The Hobbit, Ghost of Windy Hill, The Count of Monte Cristo, The Cask of Amontillado, Of Mice and Men, And I don't want to live this life, Long hard road out of Hell, Linda Goodman's Love Signs.I am now reading Get Born Again, it's about the life and death of Layne Staley...But I can't say it's even a good book, let alone a fav...I feel the chick who wrote it is an awful writer...It's just put together horribly so I find myself moreso skimming.And I can't forget...The little Red Hen and Socks for Supper (morals to live by).
Nor can I forget my all time fav, Hansel and Gretal...Just such a cool story...Damn older brother for breaking that slide and mini record!Plus, anything on Egypt, Ghosts, Beauty, Makeup, Jewelry making, Horoscopes, Cats or Serial Killers.
