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Swords and Graves

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About Me

37, female, from upstate NY. I'm into extreme metal, death, grind, doom, black and thrash metal. I'm also into some folk, industrial, and darkwave, and drum and bass, jungle and ambient techno. I prefer women. I'm mostly into the different sub genres of extreme metal, it fits my grim, sardonic, cynical mood. I'm getting more into doom and funeral doom. Extreme metal is an outlet for my abnormality in it's hate filled existence, and finding beauty in that darkness, community in that alienation is what I'm about. Extreme metal is more than just music, it's a culture and lifestyle. I'm more than just your average metal head, and more than just your average woman. ..m/ -l- "Metal is a reflection of society, we just pick up the darker reflections"-Tom Araya of Slayer

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My Interests

Extreme metal, documentaries/movies, civil rights, meeting people of all types and races, genders and sexual orientations, headbanging, reading, writing, death, doom, black and grind metal, knowing thy self, standing up for what you believe in, individuality, deep thoughts, maintaining my poise and composure, fixing this 'puter, cats, watching sunsets, p2p file sharing, writing about metal, breaking conventions, psychology, understanding both the dark and good side of humanity, long drives, long walks, traveling, being anti social, reading books, researching, cultural studies, being alone but not lonely, good sex, being held, holding others, watching animals play, playing and listening to .....metal.., Staying brutal, staying sane, kicking yer ass, being an observer, being objective, sleeping, being quite, being left alone, absolute solitude, privacy and quite, being in a metal environment, knowing the score, not sucking up to authority or the power structure, being empowered, kicking the shit out of egotistical obnoxious people, getting out of this hell hole where I live (No Pulse, NY), being common sense about politics, hating politicians, loving thy self, breaking down this armor and living to love others in this hateful world, being with both passionate, and compassionate people, making people happy, independent thinkers, being a good friend. contactTable {width:300px!important; height:150px!important; padding:0px!important; background-image:url(" ..

I'd like to meet:

Metal heads to go to shows with, women, fun people to drink a brewskie with. Progressive minded humans, people whom like to read, write, and enjoy the outdoors. Gays, bi's and lesbians, and people of color.. Anti racists, anti nazi's. Men and women whom are into extreme metal (not metal core, punk,emo, hardcore,OR RAP or nu metal), Metal heads into death, black, grind, doom, thrash.. People whom make me laugh and smile, whom may see beauty in darkness..People to enjoy the impending apocalypse with, people whom understand the "Essence of what I'm trying to say"..People whom KNOW that humanity is DOOMED. Indie movie and documentary lovers, metal fest goers in Europe and in the USA, mountain lovers, Mets and Giants fans..Good humored people whom see the ignorance in others and just laugh and brutalize, free spirits whom are grounded with no egos, a sense of self deprecating humor whom are spontaneous enough to go on a long journey of hate, love, depression and cathartic expression.

Music:

oh, here we go. Necrophagist, (old) Opeth, Enslaved, Lykathea Aflame, Arsis, Esoteric, Aggoloch, Disembowelment, Suffocation, Cryptopsy, Death, Evoken, Emperor, Therogothon, Immolation, Kate Bush, Skinny Puppy, Death, Slayer, Destruction, Morbid Angel, Darkthrone, Gorgoroth, My Dying Bride, Saturnus,Morbid Angel,Enslaved lots of death, tech/death,doom, funeral doom.

Movies:

I've become an indie documentary FREAK. I love movies, and SCI fi movies too.

Television:

Huh? What's that? When I was a kid, there were no remotes, and we had to get up and turn off the TV set and change channels with our bare hands. Of course the people whom have said that to me had to walk "10 miles bare foot in the snow to grade school". No I don't have cable and I'm glad I don't.

Books:

Alice Walker, Toni Morrison, biographies, books on history, cultural studies, music, politics, poetry.

Heroes:

I was going to say none really, You all suck. Is the glass half empty or half full? Even my political heroes have done horrid deeds, but I trust the art and not the artist. Most extreme metal bands are pretty grounded and down to Earth, they are not exactly rolling in dough. Hmm, my family, civil rights leaders, the genre of extreme metal..I would have to say my family whom I thank for adopting me, and giving me an outlet.I like the term "Antihero."