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Remembering Emmanuel. taken by a drunk driver!

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It's just a place to come to, so I can show my love I know that you're not here now, you're with the Lord above but its all that I have left now, it's where we said goodbye I like to come and bring a flower, and have a little cry.I know it will never bring you back again, but as I walk away, I feel i've spent some time with you, and it brightens up my day.Sis I am so sorry, I love you, and if I could turn back time I'd swap our places just so you would be back on earth again. but we'll be together in the end, so I hope you're the one who holds the gates open for me.all my love Psalm 115:16 "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints". Phil.1:21: "For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain" Please don't drink and drive! Hopefully this page will make a few folks think twice before they make their plans for the holiday festivities. If we can prevent one injury or death, won't it be worth the time it takes to raise awareness on this issue? I'm NOT trying to preach to noone,i'm just simply telling my brother's story since he can longer be here to speak out against drunk driving. His voice has been made silent. I am being his voice. simple as that. I know this is what he wouldv'e wanted me to do. To those people who feel that they are invincible, and who are going to drink anyway.... HEY! Wake up! Think about the other guy (like my older brother and countless of others) Please use the common sense which God gave you, and if you are going to drink, DESIGNATE A NON DRINKING DRIVER!!! ------------------------------------------------------------ -------------------- Drinking and driving is definitely Not cool. Please!!! Think before you drink!You're my big brother, the one who's always there. But because we fought a lot sometimes no one realized how much I cared.God called you back home, before I could even say good bye How could He let this happen, when I had already lost a nephew 3 years before u died?My love for you is unconditional, though i pestered u alot like a lil' sis does When I think about never seeing u again on earth I can't help but cry my eyes outYou give me courage, and help me to stay strong. You give me the confidence to keep going on when my days seem way too long.And even when I don't show it, and no one else can see. You're always on my mind, you're a big part of me DO NOT STAND AT MY GRAVE AND WEEP Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there; I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the softly falling snow. I am the gentle showers of rain. I am the fields of ripening grain.I am in the morning hush. I am in the graceful rush of beautiful birds in circling flight. I am the star shine of the night.I am in the flowers that bloom; I am in a quiet room. I am in the birds that sing; I am in each lovely thing.Do not stand at my grave and cry. I am not there; I did not die. We all grieve differently Some grieve quietly Solemn in their grief not wanting To show their pain While some are loud Letting the pain out for all to see and then beginning The long battle of healing Some hold their grief in for so long That eventually it eats at them Causing them to misdirect it In different ways unknowingly pointing The pain of loss toward others not wanting of it or deserving When instead they should be letting go and moving onGrief is not a friend For it makes one angry, sad, exhausted, and confused Grief is an unwanted guest for it stays for a long, long, time Seemingly never wanting to leave Once in a while it will allow some peace but for only a brief time span It would rather curl it’s black tentacles around and keep you in it’s grip foreverAnd then one day you realize you are starting to feel a little better As the seasons change so do we In time we shall heal You start to get back into your routine and realize grief is finally Packing up to end it’s long overstayed visit For it was a long process this visit from grief Each day gets a little better Keep on moving Stay busy One day, Grief is finally gone Until the next time it is required to visit again Blessed Web - Free Christian MySpace Layouts

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All Content has been taken from the following website which I highly recomend EVERYONE looking at. On the website you will find and be able to use a blood alcohol content calculator!!!
Also be sure to check out the male and female aclohol to body weight ratio charts that are on the website!
http://www.ou.edu/oupd/bac.htm copy and paste the URL into your browser"If I have too much to drink, I can drink a lot of coffee to sober up quickly. Right?" Ha. Tell us another one! Drinking a lot of coffee after drinking too much alcohol may, however, increase your discomfort through the need to use the bathroom while being transported to the jail on DUI charges. Only time reverses impairment. ""Will eating breath mints after drinking fool a police 'breath test'?" Eating mints will not affect your BAC level since it isn't the smell of your breath, but the alcohol content, that's measured. Using breath mints, however, may earn you points with the arresting officer if you normally have bad breath. "Well, at least eating breath mints might fool the officer, right?" Ha. Sure, police are really fooled when they see a combination of erratic driving behavior and powerfully minty breath. Yep, that one fools us every time. Get real. "I've heard preparing yourself by eating certain foods before an evening of heavy drinking will help keep your sober. Is that true?" That story has been around since before your grandparents were born. The only relation we've seen between what you eat before drinking and your drunkenness is that the more you drink, the more likely we are to find what you ate on your shirt, or on the floorboard of the patrol car. ""Ok, but if I eat a BIG meal before drinking, won't that help keep me from getting drunk?" How much you have eaten, and how recently, may have a small effect on how quickly or slowly the alcohol you consume will enter your bloodstream — but it won't stop the alcohol from entering. If you drink too much, you will become intoxicated. There may be, however, a direct correlation between the size of your meal and how much of your meal may be found later in patrol cars and jail cells. ""Will splashing cold water on my face or taking a cold shower help sober me up?" Splash away! And by all means, take a cold shower. It may make you cleaner, but it won't sober you up or make you a safe driver. The deputies at the jail, however, prefer clean drunks and recommend showering prior to doing anything that will lead to your arrest, such as driving after you've been drinking. "Will running around the block a few times sober me up enough to drive home?" Exercise won't sober you up any faster, but feel free to run around the block as many times as you like. The deputies at the jail ask us to remind you to shower after your long run and before you drive a car. "They were serving a spiked punch, but I couldn't even taste the alcohol in it. I can't be drunk!" Party-goer, beware. Fruit juices have the ability to mask the taste of alcohol. A fruit "punch" can contain a substantial amount of alcohol without the taste of the alcohol being noticed — but it will make you just as drunk as alcohol which you can taste in another kind of drink. A mild-tasting cup of punch at a party may contain more alcohol than any normal drink you would buy at a bar. Nothing sobers up a drinker except time.0.02 — 0.03 BAC : No loss of coordination, slight euphoria and loss of shyness. Depressant effects are not apparent. Mildly relaxed and maybe a little lightheaded.

0.04 — 0.06 BAC : Feeling of well-being, relaxation, lower inhibitions, sensation of warmth. Euphoria. Some minor impairment of reasoning and memory, lowering of caution. Your behavior may become exaggerated and emotions intensified (Good emotions are better, bad emotions are worse)

0.07 — 0.09 BAC : Slight impairment of balance, speech, vision, reaction time, and hearing. Euphoria. Judgment and self-control are reduced, and caution, reason and memory are impaired (in some* states .08 is legally impaired and it is illegal to drive at this level). You will probably believe that you are functioning better than you really are. ( * —As of July, 2004 ALL states had passed .08 BAC Per Se Laws. The final one took effect in August of 2005.)

0.10 — 0.125 BAC : Significant impairment of motor coordination and loss of good judgment. Speech may be slurred; balance, vision, reaction time and hearing will be impaired. Euphoria. It is illegal to operate a motor vehicle at this level of intoxication in all states.

0.13 — 0.15 BAC : Gross motor impairment and lack of physical control. Blurred vision and major loss of balance. Euphoria is reduced and dysphoria* is beginning to appear. Judgment and perception are severely impaired. ( * —Dysphoria: An emotional state of anxiety, depression, or unease.)

0.16 — 0.19 BAC : Dysphoria predominates, nausea may appear. The drinker has the appearance of a "sloppy drunk."

0.20 BAC : Feeling dazed/confused or otherwise disoriented. May need help to stand/walk. If you injure yourself you may not feel the pain. Some people have nausea and vomiting at this level. The gag reflex is impaired and you can choke if you do vomit. Blackouts are likely at this level so you may not remember what has happened.

0.25 BAC : All mental, physical and sensory functions are severely impaired. Increased risk of asphyxiation from choking on vomit and of seriously injuring yourself by falls or other accidents.

0.30 BAC : STUPOR. You have little comprehension of where you are. You may pass out suddenly and be difficult to awaken.
0.35 BAC : Coma is possible. This is the level of surgical anesthesia.
0.40 BAC and up : Onset of coma, and possible death due to respiratory arrest.

HOW TO GET THE KEYS
Here are some helpful tips and advice from focus group research on how people can get the keys away from a drunk driver:
1. If it is a close friend, try and use a soft, calm approach at first. Suggest to them that they’ve had too much to drink and it would be better if someone else drove or if they took a cab.
2. Be calm. Joke about it. Make light of it.
3. Try to make it sound like you are doing them a favor.
4. If it is somebody you don’t know well, speak to their friends and have them make an attempt to persuade them to hand over the keys. Usually they will listen.
5. If it’s a good friend, spouse, or significant other, tell them that if they insist on driving, you are not going with them. Suggest that you will call someone else for a ride, take a cab, or walk.
6. Locate their keys while they are preoccupied and take them away. Most likely, they will think they’ve lost them and will be forced to find another mode of transportation.
7. If possible, avoid embarrassing the person or being confrontational, particularly when dealing with men. This makes them appear vulnerable to alcohol and its effects.
Friends Don't Let Friends Drive Drunk. Pass It On.
I recommend everyone watch this video!! maybe it will change your mind the next time you are going to drink and drive or get into a car with someone who has been drinking We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord (2 Corinthians 5:8). 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 (King James Version) 13But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. 14For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him. 15For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep. 16For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first: 17Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord. 18Wherefore comfort one another with these words. Hope (Psalms 42:11 KJV) Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted within me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him, who is the health of my countenance, and my God.(Romans 5:1 KJV) Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ: (Romans 5:2 KJV) By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.(Ephesians 1:18 KJV) The eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints,(Colossians 1:5 KJV) For the hope which is laid up for you in heaven, whereof ye heard before in the word of the truth of the gospel;(1 Thessalonians 4:13 KJV) But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. (Psalms 23:4 KJV) Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

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