Your Communication Style
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The Ultimate People PersonEffortless and easy describe the manner in which you operate. Almost everyone believes that you are the center of the universe. What ever direction you tilt or turn, others naturally follow. It's almost as if you have a magic wand that you visibly wave to hold people under your spell. You are a charismatic "Pied Piper" without the need for a flute.You intuitively know people and what turns them on. It doesn't matter what conversations others are having or what topics they are discussing, you can join in without missing a beat. Even if you're not knowledgeable about the subject area, you come across smoothly and intelligently.Interacting with OthersYou're extremely conversant. In fact, that's the way you learn best and get others to do your tasks. For you, communication comes as naturally as breathing air. It's that basic. When you walk down a corridor, you'll comment or talk to almost everyone you meet. And, people just love talking to you. They feel light and energized after being in your presence.Your sense of humor is extraordinary. You can make people smile and laugh at the drop of a hat. When you're telling a joke that you heard before or you're creating a spontaneous ad lib, you're naturally funny and entertaining. You're always creating situations with other people that make them feel relaxed with the humor of the moment.Speaking in front of GroupsWhen you have to make a presentation or give a speech in front of an audience, you rarely prepare the whole speech ahead of time. For you, speech preparation is scribbling a few facts or important points that you want to cover on a piece of paper. The rest comes naturally. You'll use theatrical intonations and gestures, personalized comments and humorous anecdotes that are integrated around a few important points to make a complete and very acceptable speech. People leave feeling touched that you personally have spoken to them as individuals.It doesn't make any difference how large the group is that you're leading, you always seem to say the right things at the right times to make people feel good and follow what it is you want done. Even if people question your logic, they're willing to follow you because your charming manner of speaking convinces them to trust you. You're the supreme motivator of others.Dealing with SituationsYou're very intuitive in dealing with people and situations. In fact, it's in spontaneous and chaotic situations that you excel the most. You come up with unusual, sometimes absurd, ways of organizing things, and most people follow your requests anyway. If you're put in the leadership position where everything is predictable and patterned, you may become bored and sometimes fail. You lose your energy and vitality to lead under these circumstances. You need the freedom to arrange, zigzag and feel, rather than to only be logical and stay a straight course.You are an extremely positive force and an eternal optimist. No matter how bleak the situation or how negative the people you're trying to lead, you remain steadfast, upbeat and hopeful. Sure, sometimes you doubt yourself or others, but you have supreme confidence that you can turn the situation around by motivating people and finding a creative solution. Also, you have learned from past experiences that you have a life like a cat with at least nine lives. Almost everything turns out positive and successful.You might glance back at the past or forward towards the future, but you're centered in the now. Processing ideas with people and experiencing the interactions are what you live for. Every moment is centered with connecting verbally and energetically with others. It's not the project or what the project might accomplish that fully excites you; it's the chance to be creative together that makes your juices flow. You are, above all else, people-oriented.Knowing Your LimitsOn a personal level, you can be a little too self-centered. If you're not the center of attention, your energy dissipates and you can become depressed. However, if the moment arises that you can step in and lead the people or the situation, no matter what the consequences are, you'll jump at the opportunity and make it happen.Usually, in individual situations or interactions, you're very personable and make people feel extremely comfortable and delighted to be with you. Sometimes, when you're anxious or feeling insecure, you can dominate the conversation to the extent that the other people can become uncomfortable and feel that you're not listening to them or caring about them at all. In fact, sometimes you just love to hear your own voice and the rhythm of your words. Later on, if you get feedback as to what happened, you may feel genuinely disheartened.What Challenges YouBecause you're so attached to the present and what's happening around you, you rarely plan things in advance. You particularly dislike stringing logical details together or doing the same task over and over again. Having to attend to minutiae and keeping things in serial order depresses your energy level. Sometimes, this resistance can lead to failure. If you are given a choice between success through sustained, up-close focus, and failure through letting your energy out fully, you almost always choose the latter. That's because you believe in your positive processes and that your aspirations will make everything successful in the end.
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