"I was always disgusted with this notion of I love everything, I love the world... love for me is an extremely violent act. it's not I love you all. love for me is I pick out something and you know again it's this structure of imbalance. even if this something is just a small detail -- a fragile, individual person -- I say I love you more than anything else. in this quite formal sense love is evil."
--Slavoj Zizek
