~<( DJ )>~ aka "smiley guy" profile picture

~&lt;( DJ )&gt;~ aka "smiley guy"

....nothing done for Love is ever done in vain.

About Me

Hi MySpace Layouts I'm happily married to my high school sweetheart. We have two beautiful kids. I'm a curious free spirit, and I enjoy socializing on the internet. You never know who you are going to meet or what you are going to learn. :)

I find the internet to be a wonderful place to explore...to express ourselves openly, and deeply...to listen and learn. It provides an outlet for creative, passionate, and expressive people.... like me.

The internet helps us to get beyond 'proximity',
which limits us in 3 dimensions,
to find other kindred spirits
who are near in comprehension.

My Interests

As a curious person who is interested in learning and exploring new things, I have a wide array of interests.

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You might find me... OPEN
HONEST
SWEET
SUBTLE
AFFECTIONATE
COMPASSIONATE
CURIOUS
FUNNY
SERIOUS
DIRECT
INTENSE
PASSIONATE

I like getting to know people, getting close the them, and exploring who they are...and at the same time finding out more of who i am. This is how i learn about people, the world, and myself; this is how i learn to know soul. Figuratively speaking,
i like getting
'naked'.

I'd like to meet:

I'm open to meet most anyone. Just as i like all kinds of music, i like and appreciate all kinds of people.

Kindred spirits is what i enjoy most - other spiritual beings having a lucid, human experience. Loving people; friendly, thoughtful, caring, and affectionate. Creative people; passionate and expressive. Intelligent, loving people who are able to understand and share compassion instead of judgement.
I especially enjoy the company of women.... They are naturally beautiful and loving... i can relate with them well... and I usually find the deepest and most satisfying relationships with them. For the most part, I don't drink, don't fish, don't hunt, don't watch sports, and therefore don't have the usual "bonding" agents for relationships with most "regular" guys.
In the end, i generally like people who are nice to me. It's very simple, really. I'm not that complicated, and i don't ask for much.



I've found that I often like people who refer to themselves as "Dorks". I think it's because they are usually very real. They are comfortable with themselves, and not trying to prove anything to anyone. They are humble. They don't behave as if life is a competition. To the contrary, they like to help others survive...and flourish. To this end, I embrace "Dork" as part of my self-identity.

Friends
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Music:

I love all kinds of music. I'm not stuck on any one genre, and I do not exclude any genre. I like to hear and feel a good rythym. I also enjoy sweet melodies. Meaninful lyrics also get my interest.



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Movies:

I love a movie that makes an important statement; points out a fundamental truth; or addresses a pivotal question.


My favorites movies are generally drama, comedy, or a thriller. Those three genres are the most satisfying to me. Some examples are:

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Television:

I rarely find time to watch TV...

or at least, i don't make time to watch it much.


but shows I love to catch, include: Sienfeld, Crank Yankers, Family Guy, SNL, SpongeBob Squarepants, Friday Night Stand-Up,.. used to love Dark Angel, X-Files, Cheers

Books:

My favorite books are about life, love, and relationships....friendship, Sexuality... ethics, values, and morality.

Heroes:

I admire people who love openly, deeply and unconditionally. It is an ideal to love without boundaries, without conditions, and without expectations.


Yet as humans in a fallen world, it often becomes necessary to protect ourselves.

I admire many things about many people. People who offer themselves in love and sacrafice and others are "Heroes" to me. People who LOVE without condition


People who DEFEND the oppressed


People who practice HUMILITY


People who RESIST hate to EMBRACE Love
People who live OPENLY and HONESTLY... putting their RAW character on the table, and ACCEPTANCE at risk.People who SUFFER


And those who accept me, who share themself with me, who are willing to touch me and be touched by me, are the ones who help me feel love, life, and ultimately -- God. These people who open and share themself with me are my personal Heroes.~Liza~

Some heroes promise forever,
others can only share a while,
while some can only spare a moment.
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My Blog

Index to My Stuff

Some of myPoetry, Prose, and Thoughts ..> I'm just a Tumbleweed Restless Ocean What i Know Lions Heart   Upon my Cross Love is an Ocean     Lust and Infatuation Lovers Song Fore...
Posted by ~<( DJ )>~ aka "smiley guy" on Mon, 05 Feb 2007 04:27:00 PST

Break the Cycle (alcoholism)

These words of wisdom have always meant a lot to me; since i was a teen in high school.  I come from a long line of alcoholics.  The disease spreads wide within my family:  aunts,...
Posted by ~<( DJ )>~ aka "smiley guy" on Wed, 09 May 2007 07:00:00 PST

Spring is Here! (about my life)

~ Spring is fully here!!!  The weather has been so nice.  I've really lost a interest in some my indoor "hobbies" over the the last month.  This happens to me ...
Posted by ~<( DJ )>~ aka "smiley guy" on Sun, 29 Apr 2007 02:07:00 PST

My Righteousness (Easter prose)

To all my friends,whether Pagan, Buddhist, Muslim, Christian, atheist, agnostic, or whatever... May you feel the love that i have for you,and know how much you all mean to me. I Love you ALL!&n...
Posted by ~<( DJ )>~ aka "smiley guy" on Sun, 08 Apr 2007 10:42:00 PST

With His Eyes (Easter prose)

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Posted by ~<( DJ )>~ aka "smiley guy" on Sun, 08 Apr 2007 10:47:00 PST

Meek & Humble (composition)

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Posted by ~<( DJ )>~ aka "smiley guy" on Thu, 05 Apr 2007 04:24:00 PST

My Loneliness (prose)

A poem inspired by both Love and lust.  It is a duality ~ two meanings in one poem.  Reflecting, i believe, some universal elements of human experience and condition....
Posted by ~<( DJ )>~ aka "smiley guy" on Mon, 02 Apr 2007 04:13:00 PST

Sex, Lies, Videotape (life & movies)

  It is said, the Truth will set you free. and that to gain your Life, you must lose it.   It is also true, i believe, that the truth will set you free. and that to gain your life, you mus...
Posted by ~<( DJ )>~ aka "smiley guy" on Thu, 29 Mar 2007 08:04:00 PST

Be My Mistress (poem)

You be my mistress, and i'll be your lover.   It doesn't matter, if there should be others.We are what matters; it's just YOU and ME.  It's OUR love that's shared, unlimited and free.&n...
Posted by ~<( DJ )>~ aka "smiley guy" on Mon, 26 Mar 2007 04:57:00 PST

Flowing (about me and my wife)

The quote and picture above was originally posted as a blog on my space in Jan of 2006.  I reformatted it and post it again because it relates and connects so well with my Restless Oce...
Posted by ~<( DJ )>~ aka "smiley guy" on Wed, 21 Mar 2007 03:57:00 PST