music, photography , movies, dancing, cooking, love, astrology, radar-invisible sarcasm, cards, chess, the five senses and the sixth, video games, board games, ideas, the comics page, comic books, people (from a good distance), being a generally ludicrous human being
people who keep themself in check often enough to know when it's time to lose control, old friends and new friends, anyone who is actually listening instead of just waiting for their turn to speak, saints, soldiers, sinners, scholars, people who love words and know how important they are, people who know that love and madness are more important than death and taxes, people who like the same music i do and want to tell me what their favorite part of a song is, ditto movies, ditto books, people who have the opposite opinion i do and want to compare notes, people who are full of intensity, but know how to focus it.
you, maybe.
on second thought, forget it.
sunny day real estate, radiohead, faith no more, rise against, mos def, mr. bungle, hum, lovage, bjork, bad religion, team dresch, jawbreaker, jawbox, marvin gaye, sigur ros, ani difranco, tool, al green, subway musicians(not a band), muse, broken social scene, old incubus, eminem, the notorious b.i.g., morphine, a perfect circle, no knife, fantomas, fretblanket, jets to brazil, bloc party, rap when the lyrics are inventive, guns and roses, sade, dj dimitri from paris, miles davis, system of a down, metallica, the sugarcubes, cibo matto, dj db...
memento, rosencrantz and guildenstern are dead, the neverending story, bulworth, night on earth, perfect blue, blackjack, any coen brothers movie except for the man who wasn't there, any almodovar, waking life, a clockwork orange, the shining, alien nation, silence of the lambs, human traffic, very bad things, crouching tiger, hidden dragon, alien nation, 12 monkeys, the long kiss goodnight, chinese connection, the golden child, se7en, the princess bride, the matrix trilogy (despite the mostly crap-ness of two and three), paul verhoeven in general more than any particular one of his movies, hudson hawk (no, really), the tune, jesus christ superstar, the royal tenenbaums
the simpsons, arrested development, six feet under, sealab, woody woodpecker
there are some good shows out there, but as commercials actively make one dumber i try to stay away.
the unbearable lightness of being, immortality, thus spoke zarathustra, catch 22, most shakespeare, the master and margarita, alice in wonderland, the illuminatus trilogy, the adrian mole series, stephen king, tom robbins, terry pratchett, a game of thrones