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Melissa

I shouldn't have to compete! So I WONT!

About Me

dont humor me with any phony bullshitLayout made by RazMe? Hmmm I am a college graduate, I am a Hairstylist, I play Spades and I currently dont have the patience to deal with men who act like kids or people who special attention from me. However I love spending time with my friends and having quality time with loved companions but when I am Missing in Action for a few days, don't fret...Im superwoman. I may not be there all the time, But I come just in the Nic Of time!Dont trip on the Native American's on my page. They are a representatio of who I am, Who you need to be and what we will be together...Strong!Unashamed If I changed my mind, if I changed my faith, every time a stop light signaled each time I made mistakes I dont think that I would be where I am today I live my life without regrets what you see is what you getUnashamed of the life I lead unashamed of the strength on my knees of choices Ive made, of the love that Ive saved of the things I've done, my belief in the One Unashamed of the words of my friends, i know who they are make mistakes, make amends follow my instincts, my star on my sleeve i wear my heart unashamed

My Interests

money

I'd like to meet:

NOONE. lol but for real, Im not on here to meet anyone but if you happen to be an interesting individual, then so be it. If i so happen to like your style then u need to be a person who can mentally handle me and not be insulted.i dont like thugs, men under 5'11'', dreads or men under 25.If you dont like it, click the little X at the top right of the screen.I dont know how else to put it but i am still getting bothered by those people. Listen...tweak your ears, adjust your eyesight. take good notes, I'll wait while you go get a pen and paper but IF YOU ARE UNDER 5'11'', GOT DREADS OR R THUGGISH AND UNDER 25...NO, 28! You wont get no play from me. You will get ignored and trashed. Im not interested in hearing your music or listenening to your baby mama drama. I am a nice person I just hate repeating myself. Oh yea, broke people (men and women) KEEP IT MOVING! I should be the only one begging for money!

Music:

def. not crunk, or nasty hip hop. I have a Music degree so I listen not for popularity but for content and artistry.a lil NINA SIMONE puts things in perspective

Movies:

drama, killer, suspense to name a few; primal fear, cape fear, fear...notice a trend?

Television:

L word, big Love...notice another trend?

Books:

Zane all up and through here and self realization novels

Heroes:

Jesus, all the women who still have faith in these pitiful creatures known as men. God bless you, we need yall!

My Blog

undecided

It seems as though we have certain roles in life.   Some people are supposed to be mothers/fathers others mentors and educators and some have various paths.   Lately i have been feeling...
Posted by Melissa on Wed, 23 Jul 2008 12:27:00 PST

when you are an afterthought!

Oh I forgot to Call you.... Oh  now that I have spare time... Oh wait, I can ask him/her, they'll do it...     are all all terms associated with being an afterthought. When you are NEVE...
Posted by Melissa on Tue, 27 May 2008 11:41:00 PST

Men ask for sex

I just kind of find this funny.   Men are so quick to ask a woman for sex whether it is the sneaky way or by coming full out. However, when a woman asks a man for money, they are appalled!  ...
Posted by Melissa on Thu, 13 Mar 2008 03:06:00 PST

Are men threatened?

a woman who makes mroe than you? a woman who is taller? nicer looking?   what threatenes a man? a w oman who is sexually more advanced? I have come to a realization that men are threatened by a w...
Posted by Melissa on Wed, 06 Feb 2008 07:42:00 PST

personality test

My Personality Neuroticism56Extraversion43Openness To Experience16Agreeableness3Conscientiousness19 Mostly your emotions are on an even keel and you do not get depressed easily, however you feel enrag...
Posted by Melissa on Mon, 14 Jan 2008 09:42:00 PST

New Years

As the New Years Approaches people plan for their parties, talk about new plans and focus on the future.   Instead of asking the same ol New years resolution I will ask this... If you knew you ha...
Posted by Melissa on Thu, 27 Dec 2007 10:50:00 PST

New Booty

Lately I have been confronted by men who are in relationships or even married and they are pretty upfront about it and how the relationships have gone awry. Even though I appreciate it, I wonder, WHEN...
Posted by Melissa on Mon, 26 Nov 2007 10:43:00 PST

FLIRTING

How do You flirt? What Turns you on? What is a turn off?   For some reason I automatically think men are supposed to start the process. A casual wink, a smile, maybe even a funny joke is how i th...
Posted by Melissa on Thu, 23 Aug 2007 10:20:00 PST

internet faithfulness: SEX< NET< CHEATING

I picked this color for a reason. Internet Love at an all time high having sites like harmony.com and truelove.com, has become the 1 way to meet and greet your love partners. Most times people have a ...
Posted by Melissa on Thu, 09 Aug 2007 03:01:00 PST

using people for sex

With the Rise and fall, and rise again of women's liberation, I cant help but notice more women are sexually free. Books about womens orgasms, how to find the G-spot (i still havent found mine) and se...
Posted by Melissa on Tue, 07 Aug 2007 02:46:00 PST