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Den Lille Havfrue

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About Me

I AM AN IDEALISTIdealists, as a temperament, are passionately concerned with personal growth and development. Idealists strive to discover who they are and how they can become their best possible self -- always this quest for self-knowledge and self-improvement drives their imagination. And they want to help others make the journey. Idealists are naturally drawn to working with people, and whether in education or counseling, in social services or personnel work, in journalism or the ministry, they are gifted at helping others find their way in life, often inspiring them to grow as individuals and to fulfill their potentials.Idealists are sure that friendly cooperation is the best way for people to achieve their goals. Conflict and confrontation upset them because they seem to put up angry barriers between people. Idealists dream of creating harmonious, even caring personal relations, and they have a unique talent for helping people get along with each other and work together for the good of all. Such interpersonal harmony might be a romantic ideal, but then Idealists are incurable romantics who prefer to focus on what might be, rather than what is. The real, practical world is only a starting place for Idealists; they believe that life is filled with possibilities waiting to be realized, rich with meanings calling out to be understood. This idea of a mystical or spiritual dimension to life, the "not visible" or the "not yet" that can only be known through intuition or by a leap of faith, is far more important to Idealists than the world of material things.Highly ethical in their actions, Idealists hold themselves to a strict standard of personal integrity. They must be true to themselves and to others, and they can be quite hard on themselves when they are dishonest, or when they are false or insincere. More often, however, Idealists are the very soul of kindness. Particularly in their personal relationships, Idealists are without question filled with love and good will. They believe in giving of themselves to help others; they cherish a few warm, sensitive friendships; they strive for a special rapport with their children; and in marriage they wish to find a "soulmate," someone with whom they can bond emotionally and spiritually, sharing their deepest feelings and their complex inner worlds.Idealists are rare, making up between 20 and 25 percent of the population. But their ability to inspire people with their enthusiasm and their idealism has given them influence far beyond their numbers.
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In this acclaimed Lannan foundation lecture from September 2002, Arundhati Roy speaks poetically to power on the US' War on Terror, globalization, the misuses of nationalism, and the growing chasm between the rich and poor. With lyricism and passion, Roy combines her literary talents and encyclopedic knowledge to expose injustice and provide hope for a future world.For more information please visit: http://www.weroy.org/video_come_september.shtmlWATCH, LISTEN. ONE PERSON WHO SPEAKS OUT, SPREADS THE WORD, STARTS A DIALOGUE WITH ONE OF THEIR FRIENDS, CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE. CAN CHANGE THE LIVES OF COUNTLESS NUMBERS OF PEOPLE. SPEAK OUT, USE YOUR VOICE. ONE.ORG

I'd like to meet:

EXCERPT FROM 'THE HOLIDAY'.... I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible. And how it can actually ache in places you didn't know you had inside you. And it doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends... you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. And how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that, however long all that may be, you'll go somewhere new. And you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. And little pieces of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade. ~ IRIS

Music:

Ani DiFranco, Lauryn Hill, Bjork, Alison Krauss, Damien Rice, Ryan Adams, Rosie Thomas.

Movies:

Monsoon Wedding by Mira Nair - absolutely gorgeous film; Le Fille sur Le Pon - the main character in this film is me at 21; Dogma; Empire Records!! - classic; L'etate Jardin - will definitely become a classic; Dot the i - total mind fuck; Everafter - nastolgic guilty pleasure; Out Cold & Van Wilder - nothing needs to be said; L'auberge espagnole & Russian Dolls - two movies that prove that men who are pieces of shit can eventually come around, realize that they are assholes, change thier behavior and find happiness. Oh, and they're funny too. AND last but not least.. .. .. yes I did like Armageddon with Bruce Willis - - at the end, when he had to say goodbye to is daughter !! - - 'Daddy, I don't under understand (stutter)' - 'I love you Gracie'.. .. .. And then NOTHING. Gasp, sigh, avalanche of tears - - Cuhm the fuck on people! Fine, that’s just fine, You are all made of stone

Heroes:

Mayonnaise, The Library, Platypi, randomenss in general and people who go out of their way to be assholes.

My Blog

Spiced Rum and Cigarettes/ How To Make It Through a Day

How To Make It Through a 'Day' - - VicesA wonderfully warm shower... shaving your legs. Having a good hair-day.Christmas. Enjoying the falling snow on a day off with a good friend and a warm, warm c...
Posted by Den Lille Havfrue on Thu, 29 Nov 2007 06:48:00 PST

Cynical

CynicalHappiness is a choice?  You can just 'choose' to be happy at any second?  Well, - - what about the fight you just had with your brother? Or that boy that you Pine for less and less ea...
Posted by Den Lille Havfrue on Tue, 24 Jul 2007 08:09:00 PST

I would rather be shunned for who I am than embraced for who Im not.

So, I was at a diner with a friend late one night and we were talkin' and he says to me out of the blue: 'Heidi, you know what your problem is?  You sell yourself short.'   Well... It was la...
Posted by Den Lille Havfrue on Fri, 01 Dec 2006 12:41:00 PST