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I'd like to meet:
Already did...
A Real Man...
A Real Man holds high ethical ideals without compromise
A Real Man is emotionally balanced. He should be able to laugh and cry as he damn well pleases, and not care what others may think of him
A Real Man can be laughed -AT- as well as laughed -WITH- and not feel insulted, demeaned, or belittled
A Real Man shares his feelings with those he cares for
A Real Man has grace under pressure and does not panic in a crisis
A Real Man is responsible for his actions and inactions
A Real Man takes on the burden of responsibility for those who -cannot- shoulder a responsibility themselves, providing he is asked to and agrees
A Real Man marries for life
A Real Man surrenders his marriage gracefully if it does not work
A Real Man loves and honors his spouse above all else
A Real Man honors and respects *ALL* women, be she Queen or harlot
A Real Man is sexually and emotionally responsive to his spouse or
girlfriend and pays attention to
what pleases her and what does not
A Real Man is one who respects his spouse's wishes when she says "Not
tonight, dear." He does not whine, plead, or beg
A Real Man understands that it is not his job or duty to please
anyone other than himself, which includes his spouse, and which
also includes his spouse sexually
A Real Man desires to please his spouse and children before himself
out of love and not guilt or a "sense of power"
A Real Man supports his spouse in her successes as well as failures
A Real Man is kind to himself
A Real Man does not lie
A Real Man does not steal
A Real Man does not cheat
A Real Man is tolerant of dissenting opinion
A Real Man is NOT tolerant of hate, bigotry, ignorance
A Real Man never strikes child, woman, or man, for ANY reason, unless
in self-defense
A Real Man is well-educated
A Real Man is well-read
A Real Man is clean and well-groomed
A Real Man can cook, clean, iron, wash dishes, change a diaper, and
stay home while his spouse works for a living
A Real Man is kind to animals and children
A Real Man helps those who ask for help
A Real Man knows when to help someone who needs help but doesn't ask
for it
A Real Man does *not* help someone who needs help when asked not to, he respects other's decisions
Real Men love those
who love them, and don't NEED invisible friends
Music:
pearl jam, tool, jimi hendrix, mamas and papas, muse, janice joplin, madonna, tori amos, system of a down, nirvana, smashing pumpkins, nin, metallica, maldita vecindad, the donnas, hole, bdp, ultra magnetic mc's, nas, snoop, eminem, run dmc, rakim and eric b, epmd, ll cool j, james brown ... electronica, country, classical, all of it.
Movies:
matthew barney's cremaster series
office space, pans labyrinth, borat, jackass 1,2, frida, desperado, pulp fiction, pollack, basquiat, the departed, west side story, weird science .. will add as i remember.
Television:
do not watch a lot of tv, but i like to escape to - the golden girls, friends, frasier, the honeymooners, the twilight zone, the odd couple, three's company, bugs bunny cartoons, tom and jerry, the monkees, good times, welcome back kotter, fresh prince of bel-air, the jeffersons, six feet under, charm school, oprah.
Books:
biographical books on influential people, particularly artists - cezanne, picasso, van gogh ... problems of the modern observer, yesterday i cried, critical issues in american art, the art of happiness.
