Melissa ☆Terminal Uniqueness★

I'd like to meet:

Oprah, Bono, Colbert, William Shatner, J.K. Rowling, Betty White, Carlos Santana, Dr. Drew Pinsky, and definitely Mario Lopez, haha! I like to meet all sorts of people! However, stuck up, judgemental, arrogant people, who are full of themselves really piss me off. Once again, call me a hypocrite, because satanic people really bug me, but that's a very personal thing. Ultimately, I have no greater longing than for, when this is all through, to meet Christ; look into His eyes, fall at His feet, and to hear Him say "Welcome Home, I've been looking forward to seeing you here!" and then for Him to exclaim those words: "...Well done good and faithful servant..." Matthew 25: 23

Music:

I love ALL kinds of music, with the exception of polka and folk music, but I mostly listen to u2 boston kansas eric clapton simon n garfunkel led zeppelin pink floyd jimi hendrix def leppard metallica aerosmith dave matthews riding paper airplanes red hot chili peppers green day blink 182 angels and airwaves cranberries cold play all american rejects red jumpsuit apparatus hinder nickleback my chemical romance flyleaf Christian contemporary

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Psychological/Emotional Abuse:Psychological/Emotional abuse is language or actions designed to intimidate another person and is usually characterised by a pattern of behaviour repeated over time, intended to maintain a 'hold of fear' over the other person.Types of Emotional Abuse:- Treating the person like a child - Humiliation - Emotional blackmail - Blaming - Intimidation - Name calling - Threats of restricting access to others - Insults - Threats of punishment or abandonment - Silence - Withdrawal of affection - Shouting - Denying the person their rights - Coercing - Witnessing family arguments - Forced to collude in family conflict.
PHYSICAL ABUSE: Physical assault is the most obvious form of Domestic Violence, the most visible, and also the most lethal. Assaults often start small, maybe a small shove during an argument, or forcefully grabbing your wrist, but over time, physical abuse (or battering) usually becomes more severe, and more frequent, and can result in the death of the victim. Physical abuse is any act of physical violence on the victim, and can include the following: slapping, kicking, shoving, choking, pinching, forced feeding, pulling hair, punching, throwing things, burning, beating, use of weapons (gun, knives, or any object) physical restraint - pinning against wall, floor, bed, etc. reckless driving, etc. Basically any behaviour which hurts or physically harms, or is intended to do so.
Threats Where threats are made within an violent relationship they can be as debilitating as the violence itself. A victim who has already suffered being battered need not imagine the result of displeasing the abuser, or doubt the abuser..'s ability to carry out the threats. Even where the victim has not been physically assaulted, the abuser will often demonstrate his ability to harm her by punching walls or furniture, kicking the cat/dog, or using aggressive behaviour. However, many threats are not physical but part of the ongoing emotional abuse. The abuser may threaten to ..'disappear..' with the children, report his partner to Social Services as an unfit mother or ..'have you locked up in an asylum..", harm a significant third party (e.g. family member), refuse housekeeping, leave or commit suicide. Whether the threats are of a physical, sexual or emotional nature, they are all designed to further control the victim by instilling fear and ensuring compliance. The abuser becomes not only the source of pain and abuse, but also the protector, as he/she is not only the person being abusive, but also the person who can prevent the threatened action, increasing the victim..'s dependence on him.
SEXUAL ABUSE: Sexual abuse can be defined by the forcing of undesired sexual acts by one person to another. Types of abuse are unwanted touching, forced sexual activity, be it oral, anal or vaginal, forcing the victim to perform sexual acts, painful or degrading acts during intercourse (e.g.. urinating on victim), and exploitation through photography or prostitution. The abuser my use violence to rape his partner, or he may use only enough force to control his partner's movements (known as ..'force-only rape..'). Coercion or manipulation in the form of threats, emotional or psychological abuse may also be used, leaving the victim to submit to unwanted sexual acts out of fear or guilt.
Marital Rape When sexual abuse occurs within marriage, the victim will often feel very confused as to whether or not she has been ..'raped..'. It seems obvious to all (general public, law enforcement agencies, religious leaders, etc.) that when a woman (or man) is raped out on the street by a stranger, that rape has occurred and is wrong. When rape occurs within the marriage, neither abuser nor victim may consider it legal rape. Many women (both religious and non-religious) don..'t believe they have the right to refuse sex, that ..'sex on demand..' is an unwritten part of the marriage contract. When they have been raped by their husband, they are inclined to take responsibility for the abuse, furthering the feelings of guilt and lack of self-worth. This blame-taking is further increased by the abuser..'s justifications. Marriage, however, is a contract based on mutual love, respect and consideration. Each party has a right to their own body, and while consideration for each person's sexual needs is normal, forced sexual acts are not an expression of love, but a purposeful betrayal of the respect and trust which form a solid marriage. .
Your Personality is the Rarest (INFJ)
Your personality type is introspective, principled, self critical, and sensitive.

Only about 2% of all people have your personality - including 3% of all women and around 1% of all men.
You are Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Judging. How Rare Is Your Personality?
Which Positive Quality Are You? Your Result: Love

You are Love. Love is the glue that binds us all together. The love of family, the love of friends, the love between husbands and their wives--these things form the foundation of our happiness, our security, and our comfort. "All you need is love."

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Movies:

I love all movies. I especially like comedy, but not horror or romantic comedies as much. Even boring movies give me something to do on a rainy day. Though I can't say I'm too fond of foriegn and independant films, either. They typically confuse me... If I had to name a few, I'd say harry potter chronicles of narnia kill bill big fish memiors of a geisha transformers catch me if you can bandits starwars the ring butterfly effect anger managment dirty dancing mona lisa smile fried green tomatoes forest gump paycheck notebook the island edward scissorhands pirates of the carribean gladiator madea lord of the rings finding nemo lion king jackass clerks II dazed and confused running with scissors napolean dynomite american beauty the truman show (to name a few).Layouts CT Tables Graphics Quizzes Polls Surveys Layouts CT Tables Graphics Quizzes Polls Surveys

Television:

I love to watch comedy, South Park, Medical Documentaries, Reality T.V., America's Next Top Model, and anything funny...

Books:

Scripture is basically my "user's manual" to life! I also like Harry Potter (I'm a dork, I know!), Chronicles of Narnia, Fried Green Tomatoes, Night, 19th Century Gothic Literature...
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Heroes:

Jesus Christ is my hero, because He has saved me from so much in this life and the next. He walks with me wherever I go- high points, low point, whether I need a hand to hold, or to be carried..... ..