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J Valenzâ„¢ is in Oahu, Hi from June 3rd to 8th!!

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About Me


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"A Wave is a traveling path of Wisdom, enter it and you shall feel Resistance... So walk beside me and feel my positive energy flow thru you."
Hi and thanks for visiting my page! So you want toget to know more about me? Alright, here it goes... I'ma real easy guy to talk to. I can stimulate your mindand hold interesting conversations if you try me. I loveto hang out and party like I closed a deal. I enjoy thenightlife. I like to go clubbing and dance the nightaway or we can chill in the lounge if you just want tohangout. But don't exclusively think of me as a partyanimal, I do have my "me-times" occasionally to providesome balance to my never ending social life. I can getstraight down to business if I have to. I am Filipino,Spaniard, and Chinese. I stand 5'11". Pretty tall for anAsian guy you say? I get that a lot.
I enjoy walks in the beach, sunsets, and specializein sweeping you off your feet. I enjoy working out 5times a week, and have a strict diet. But don't confusemy concern for my health and appearance to society asbeing conceited; there is a difference you see. I eatanything and everything. My doctor says I have a fastmetabolism, I guess it’s a good thing.
I'm an outdoors kind of guy, and love talking to andmeeting new people. I get along with just about everyoneand can build and maintain rapport and relationships(Business and Personal) easily. I am a doer and notafraid to take risks, but I do conform when corrected.Everyday to me is an adventure. "A lifestyle is aterrible thing to waste." I focus on living life to thefullest drama-free; you may never know what you may missout on. There are two kinds of people in this world: Onewho watches life goes by and one who becomes a part ofit. I am the one who plays center stage at it.
As you can see I am single at the moment. It is rarethat I am. I guess my schedule and time does not permitme to entertain for one. Or am I just lazy to be in one?I miss those rainy days where you call in sick andreluctantly want to break away from a good spooning. Attimes, I do miss being in a relationship. For example,when I see a sweet couple together, it brings sweetflashbacks in my mind. But when I do, I shake it off andsnap back into my "Hustling" mode and start closingdeals. I’ve got to secure my family's future firstbefore anything else. That way, my family, future ladyto be, and I are secured for many generations to come.
"Whatsoever the mind of man can concieve and BELIEVE, he can achieve." ~Napoleon Hill
I truly believe that there is that one special personwho is waiting for me to rescue her from all herproblems and she doesn't even know it. We will finallymeet and I will whisk her away to a far away world fullof happiness and bliss while she lays there with me withthese strong arms around her protected... I sound like ahopeless romantic. Lol!
Ladies, as for the, "What does this guy do?...Wheredoes he work? Is he secure? Can he provide?"questions... I am a California Licensed Real EstateAgent and Mortgage Loan Officer engaging in Real EstateSales, Mortgage Loans, and Real Estate propertyinvestments. I am also currently working on my Real Estate Broker's License as well and plan on specializing in Commercial Real Estate in the next 2 years and expand my operations and employees outside of San Diego. I work for one of San Diego's bestbrokerage in Mira Mesa. Yes, I do wear a suit and tie towork, but like Huckleberry Finn and Tom Sawyer, Iquickly get out of it once I get out of the office andhop into my jeans and t-shirt. I get paid enough. Butdon't confuse me with those stuffy rich snobs, I'mgenerous and very friendly too you know. Also, don'tmistake my kindness as a weakness; I can pull the plugon you if I feel a slight feeling of being takenadvantage of. I love doing what I do and I do it best!Nothing beats the feeling of witnessing my clients jumpfor joy when you help their dreams come true whichleaves a bubbly feeling in my heart that keeps me going.It's no different if you're my friend. I guess it feelsgood to help a soul.
"We are all blessed with a life of our own and we have the power to choose to do what we will of it. We are architects of our own life and destiny. The end result is always written in the stars, but the paths and journeys we take to make history is always in the making..."
I find art in everything especially beauty. You'llknow you're a masterpiece if I comment something niceabout you. I enjoy surrounding myself withpositive-minded and successful people, but I do alsoenjoy sharing my time with those who are less-fortunate.I am very uplifting and positive minded. I'm the type ofperson who wants everyone around me to succeed and comeup. I love music and can't live without it. I love HipHop and R&B. I do occasionally listen to Rock andAlternative to provide balance. I have an acousticguitar that I enjoy playing when I feel sad or stressed.I sometimes write songs I sing and play to when I amangry, happy, or in love. I love to sing. Singing abeautiful song expresses whatever I feel inside. Itfeels good to express what I feel through playing aninstrument (The Acoustic Guitar and Drums), writing(Songs and Poems), singing, and dancing. Music to mehas the power to draw different types of people togetherfrom all walks of life. It has the power to unite all inone rhythm and beat. It also has this effect on me thatgets me in a euphoric high. For example, if we hear afavorite track while driving, I simply turn it up andlet the highs stimulate our minds, the lyrics move ourhearts, and the bass from the subwoofers thump oursouls! It's all about the beats and the rhythm I guess.It feels so good.
"Through music, art, and rhythm, I have found an outlet for the creative and beautiful forces that flows in me"
I dislike drama and would never support it. But ifyou bring it, I can handle it. I've been through a lotin my lifetime and it would take more than that to phaseme. Let's just put it this way, I asked God forstrength, success, and love; He showed me a life full ofproblems, failures, and heartaches. I never quite didfigure it out until I put some thought into it. Believeme when I say this, I have learned from all my mistakesand I am now stronger, wiser, and better than everbefore!
"The majority of men meet with failure because of their lack of persistence in creating new plans to take the place of those which fail." ~Napoleon Hil
I am very thankful for all my friends. They completeme in their own special way. I thank God for all of themand wish them the best! I love them all! If there isanything that I missed, don't be afraid and ask. You'llbe surprised on how friendly, sociable, and supportive Ican be. =D Don't worry, I won’t bite. Well at least Imight. ;P

My Interests


My Passion

That Keeps Me Going

Has the Power to Unite

In One Rythm, Lyric, and Beat...

I'd like to meet:

Positive minded peeps. No negativity here. Cool cats. Someone who see's me for me. A simple down to earth ride or die chick who reciprocates as I do. She will be my number 1. One that enjoys having fun, enjoys the music, expresses art in herself, and radiates beauty to the world! Go shoppin' for fly threads at the mall with me. Uplift me both mentally and spiritually. My soul companion, one who can hold this Taurus down, keep it fresh, and be on my team. Has her game on lock and not afraid to speak her mind, expresses herself thru music, art, and emotion. One that has rhythm, beat, and positive vibes. One that can Stimulate my mind and enjoy a good conversation and You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And all my haters!!! So that I can use your energy to come up more than ever before!!

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My Blog

Just Listed: 17019 Sienna Ridge Dr, - $905,000 - $965,000

17019 Sienna Ridge Drive, San Diego, Ca - $965,000 - $1,000,000 ($1,125,000.00) Single Family Residence, DetachedMLS #: 066090194Bedrooms: 5Baths: 4.5  Floors: Hardwood, Slab  Est SqFt:...
Posted by J Valenz on Fri, 10 Nov 2006 06:09:00 PST

A Rhyme: There's Somethin About Tonight...

So what's the deal?When can you come over,When can we chill?The night's young,I'm diggin your energy,You feelin' the fun.Runnin' through your veins,A euphoric high,I can take you to the sky.Get lost a...
Posted by J Valenz on Mon, 30 Oct 2006 03:46:00 PST

Tips: Personal Tips from Me to You

Personal Tips from Me to you-Hold accountability for your thoughts, deeds and actions. Don't forget to say please, thank you, and sorry. You'd be suprised how the world would react and be a better pla...
Posted by J Valenz on Sun, 29 Oct 2006 03:19:00 PST

A Snippet: Cosmic Law of Attraction

Cosmic Law - Attraction This Law is a primary tool for the Soul to master physical life on the Earth plane. It ensures that all conditions and situations that the Soul desires for eventu...
Posted by J Valenz on Thu, 26 Oct 2006 03:46:00 PST

A Story: The Man Who Lived in a House

"The Man Who Lived in a House"    Have you heard about a man who lived in a house and cared less about what was outside the walls of his house and soley focused on the inside from withi...
Posted by J Valenz on Mon, 23 Oct 2006 12:51:00 PST

A poem: Relationships are Like Seasons

"Relationships are Like Seasons"As the day progresses,I feel the sun fading away.The chilly wind blows,With clouds that are grey.A droplet of rain,has touch my skin.It's beginning to rain.The new seas...
Posted by J Valenz on Sat, 14 Oct 2006 11:42:00 PST

*SOLD in 31 Days! 490,000* 3 BDRM, 2 BATHS, $485,888 - $508,888, Chula Vista, Ca

*SOLD in 31 Days! 490,000*674 Guava Avenue, Chula Vista, Ca 919103 Bedroom, 2 Bath, 1 Car Garage, Hard Wood Flooring, Fireplace, Tiled Kitchen Floor, Huge Back Yard, Huge Lot!1,321 sq. ft,$485,888 - $...
Posted by J Valenz on Sat, 16 Sep 2006 09:07:00 PST

Good Things, Life is Good.

A lot has happened these past couple of months and they are all good. I came across people I thought I'd never see again from before, changed jobs for the better, and the goals I have set for myself ...
Posted by J Valenz on Wed, 19 Jul 2006 02:39:00 PST

Life Long Lessons I have Learned in this World

~I Have Come To Learn Many Things In This Lifetime. I Have Been Through A Lot And Never Regret A Single Thing. I Have Learned That These Experiences We Witness In Life Are Placed Intentionally For A R...
Posted by J Valenz on Fri, 02 Jun 2006 02:22:00 PST

*UPDATED* 2006! A year of positive changes! Make it or Break it!

A good bye to the year 2005. It was a year of pain, lonliness, and tribulations for me. Also a year of great blessings. I am fortunate to meet such cool people and I welcome them in my life with ...
Posted by J Valenz on Sun, 04 Dec 2005 01:47:00 PST