Barbie

WHAT HURTS THE MOST

I can completely relate to so many of these things either because I have been there before or I am there right now...- Letting go of a person you`ve just learned to love- Reminiscing about the good times you shared together- Shielding your heart to love somebody- Trying to hide what you really feel- Trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from your eyes- Loving a person too much- Giving up someone you never thought of giving up- Having the right love at the wrong time- Taking the risk to fall in love again- Hiding your relationship from someone else- Controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend- Thinking of him/her every waking and sleeping moment knowing all the while that he/she never even thinks a single thought of you.- Letting go, because every time you see the person, you only fall deeper- Holding back only to find out when it`s too late, you both felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that you didn`t let the feelings out- Falling in love with someone you didn`t intend on falling in love with- Finding the perfect guy/girl...with only one problem.... he/she doesn`t love you...the way you want him/her to...- Helping the one you love hook up with a friend- Seeing the one you love crying for someone else- The waiting also hurts like hell- Having to hear "... I`ve met someone"- Agreeing to his/her wish to `just be friends`.- Asking his/her freedom back because `he`d/she`d be happier with him/her`- Asking you to `forget that everything happened` and be `normal` friends again.- Hearing that you`re thought of as a sister/brother (ouch!)- You stopped being friends because his/her gf/bf asked him/her to.- Being denied in front of people.- Telling you lies where he`d/she`d been when actually, he/she was with a `new friend` or an `old flame`- He/she told you he`d/she`d be leaving you to get back with his/her ex (the one he/she left you for!)- Breaking someone`s heart- PRETENDING you`re OK when inside you`re dying...- PRETENDING to be strong.... and RECOGNIZING your weakness- Lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can never have...- Being with someone you can`t actually love...- Pretending you don`t love a person whom you actually do love or have strong feelings for...- Being in love...- Letting go even if you really don`t want to... having no right to say you are hurting because it was your decision- Seeing the person you love hurt because of you... and not being able to help that person...- Having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love and finding out afterwards that things will never be the same again when he/she doesn`t treat you with the same closeness as before- Having to face the fact that someone is capable of completely destroying the wall that you have set for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable- Admitting that you love someone despite his/her imperfections-Finding out that the more you try to hate him/her, the more you end up loving him/her, perhaps even more than before- Realizing how stupid your mistakes were that led to your break-up.- The thought that this guy/girl, used to really love you and you loved him/her as well but you didn`t give enough he/she gave up on you- Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else....."- Making a promise....and realizing that when the time has come for that promise to be delivered....the commitment is no longer there...-The hardest thing about love - believing it exists.After you`ve been hurt... ...learning to forgive ...learning to trust and love againBut the hardest thing really is learning to love yourself. We always forget to do this... Always.