I enjoy music, movies, massage and moving my feet (walking, hiking, dancing, bicycling). I miss the sailing trips I used to take when I lived in San Francisco, but the beach is still fun on occasion. Not a huge fan of bars and clubs, though I do enjoy going out for music and/or pool, my favorite clubs are the kind with special furniture and toys.For those on whom that last part was lost, I am a BDSM switch (top/bottom), and though I prefer to submit to women, I am happy in any role I am not stuck in. While D/S is not central to my life, it is an important and even spiritual need of mine. Pure vanilla in not on my diet.
I'd like to meet:
For friendship: musicians, writers, artists and serious BDSM players, especially women. I don't add people just for the sake of adding them, so just don't ask to add me because you think I'm hot. I'm flattered, truly, but I'm more interested in friends than in joining your MILF gallery. I don't accept friend requests from people with Private or mostly-empty profiles unless they send me a meaningful letter of introduction.
For dating and potential LTR: too late, I already found Her — a woman with whom I can laugh and cry and discuss and play and work and share and enjoy our lives together. I am happy beyond my wildest dreams!
Ladies, please don't ask to be added as a friend if you're main purpose is to promote your business. Try sending an email first and if I like you and what you're selling, I'll add you.
MEN, I have no romantic/sexual interest in you and my life is very full as it is. Unless I already know you from real life, expect your emails and friend requests to be deleted wihout comment. Sorry if that sounds stuck up, but I have many more important things to do. If you're interested in my professional services as a dominatrix or an adult performer, visit my website .
Music:
Rock of nearly all stripes (excluding skinhead neo-Nazi and other hate-based genres), Jazz, Classical. Classic Rock, Glam Rock, Metal Rock and, most of all, instrumental rock guitar. Any kind of instrumental music, however, is likely to find a fan in me. BTW, though I have her video here and appreciate that genre, I'm not a *huge* fan of the Christina/Britney ilk.
Movies:
Top Ten:
1. The Matrix
2. L.A. Confidential
3. The Titanic (James Cameron's)
4. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
5. Kiss Kiss, Bang Bang
6. The Princess Bride
7. Bound
8. Groundhog Day
9. Almost Famous
10. Postcards from the Edge
Honorable Mention:
Devil's Advocate
Fight Club
Magnolia
Secretary
Thelma & Louise
The Breakfast Club
The Crying Game
Mulholland Dr.
Memento
The Incredibles
Miss Congeniality
Television:
I'd rather put out a cigarette on my eyeball.
Well, I do love ER, especially seasons 1-7. Beyond that, I have too little time to let the toob suck my brain dry.
Books:
Top Ten:
1. Illusions, Richard Bach
2. The Key, Cheri Huber/Zen Buddhist Center
3. Myth of the Goddess, Baring & Cashford
4. Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Hunter S. Thompson
5. Hitchhiker's Guide books, Douglas Adams
6. Colors Insulting to Nature, Cintra Wilson
7. The Stand, Stephen King
8. L.A. Confidential, James Ellroy
9. Gender Outlaw, Kate Bornstein
10. Homeboy, Seth Morgan
Honorable Mention:
Most of Stephen King
Most of Hunter S. Thompson
Everything else by Douglas Adams,
Joseph Wambaugh (The New Centurions) and
Richard Bach (Jonathon Livingston Seagull)
Transgender Warriors, Leslie Feinberg
Gender: An Ethnomethodological Approach,
Kessler & McKenna
Postcards from the Edge, Carrier Fisher
Codependent No More, Melody Beattie
Siddhartha, Herman Hesse
Heroes:
Aside from my mother, I admire Tina Turner, Princess Diana, Dr. Jeffrey Wigand , Erin Brockovich , Margo St. James , Frank Zappa, Billie Holiday, Janis Joplin, Courtney Love, Hunter S. Thompson and, like it or not, Larry C. Flynt.
And, for recording this song and making this video, Christina:BEAUTIFUL (by Christina Aguilera)
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