AN EXPLANATION FOR MY DANCE VIDEOS
I feel like I need to
clear this up for a lot of people
that view my page. I danced at a couple Gentleman's clubs September
2005-May 2006 about 9 months of my 23 years existence so this is not who I
am as much as it was something I did at one point.
I have worked in an office since I was 15 years old I have a very corporate personality. At the time I was dancing I also had a 9-5 job and a weekend job. I was just trying to save up money for school and so I could move to an apartment. I never learned to flirt or hustle men out of their money and I never wanted to. I believe in working for what you want and not using other people to get it.
Introduction
I 'm going to be real with you on this page. I know a lot of people put nothing on their page or lies to impress other people. But I don't need to impress anyone. I don't care what you think about me, but this is a glimpse into who I am.I have pretty much answered any question that people would generally ask to make small talk. I don't like small talk. I like having real intelligent conversations. If you want to small talk you probably need to choose another person.
if you looked at my pics and said to yourself wow she's kinda cute. that's fine but for the love of god don't tell me. I don't care. keep it to yourself. If you read the full page you will see that I don't like compliments on my appearance. just keep it to yourself and move on to the next females page. she probably wants the compliment.
if you are thinking wow there is something wrong with this girl someone must have broken her heart. You are wrong. I'm just me. I'm not soft, I don't smile that much unless it's for a picture. I don't laugh at stupid jokes. I don't go around trying to make other people smile. I try them think.
if
this introduction has turned you off, offended you, or intimidated you
than that's probably a good sign you aren't ready to deal with a person
like me and if you are smart you will run with hat and not waste your
time. But if this intro makes you think okay I'm finally dealing
with someone that isn't into games than read on further and send me a note
or and IM.
I don't like that people want to put me in a box to make themselves feel comfortable. So
I like to dance so I like the outfits, but I also have a brain and I'm not a horny teen,
I'm way past that. So what you are saying is I have to be stupid to dance. or I
have to be all prudish to be intelligent. Those are my only options. I can't be myself cause that would overload your tiny mind.
That's exactly why my profile is the way it is so that people see I have different sides
I'm not just one thing. I spend all of my day working 8-5. I go home everyday and stay home and mind my own business, I don't go out and party,
no shooting pool no cards. On weekends I generally stay home I rarely go to clubs and when I do I spend most of
the night just sitting down watching other people. Every once in a blue moon
I feel like dancing I put on my outfits and I enjoy myself.
What do I do all those hours when I'm home, I read, I research, I study. Do I sleep around no I have one steady partner. Do
I date no. Do I go and get my hair and nails done no, Do I hang out with a bunch of females no.
I'm so sorry if I'm not perfect for your ill perceptions of what an intellectual
should be. I'm so sorry for all the people that think I'm not black enough. I'm so sorry for all the
people that don't like how I walk talk and break, but I'm me and ya'll just deal with cause
I deal with everyone else that doesn't fit my expectations by just leaving them alone to be who they are.
Relationship status
Unfortunately Jess and I have broken up but we are still best friends and roommates.
I am technically single, but not interested in meeting anyone.
I have a lot on my plate so I really can't offer my heart and time to anyone. I'm not interested in booty buddies or friends with benefits. I don't do that dating thing and I'm not into meeting new people; just chatting online to kill time.
I have a steady partner, a friend with benefits, but we are monogamous. That means we are only sleeping with each other. Neither one of us is interested in making it into a relationship.
MY PURPOSE FOR BEING ONLINE
like to keep my life simple and drama free. I don't really like to go out and do movies and clubs. I'm just not a highly social person. At my job I spend all day putting up with people that have attitude problems or feel frustrated. My job is to calm these people down and then direct them to someone that can solve their problem. When I get home I don't want to put on my customer service smile or deal with anyone else's problems. I just want to turn on the TV or download some music and chill out.
Humans have a natural need to socialize and I do too, but I prefer to chat on IM than to be face to face or on the phone. I'm not here to make friends. I have friends in my real life so I don't need new ones. I just want to have a nice INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATION. I'd like to discuss religion, sociology, psychology, history, economics, anything enlightened. I consider myself a well rounded person as far as knowledge goes.
The one thing I hate when I chat is a person that only wants to talk about sex. I've done my share of things and I have no shame but I'm not 15 anymore so sex isn't the only thing on my mind. IF YOU CAN NOT CHALLENGE MY MIND YOU DAMN SURE WELL NEVER GET MY BODY.
NAME: MONICA
BIRTHDAY: Feb. 4TH
AGE: 23
ZODIAC SIGN: I'm very Aquarius
RESIDING
(Where I Currently Live):
Greensboro, North Carolina
OCCUPATION (Job): Receptionist/ switchboard operator at A&T state university.
HEIGHT 5'9 1/2
BODY
TYPE: THIN
SCHOOL: I'm an Aggie (NC A&T State
University). I'm enrolled this year in a couple online classes. I'm a Jr. Year
Psychology major. I want to become a Marriage/Sex therapist
GREW UP: Yanceyville, NC. It's a one stoplight country hell hole where everyone is pretty much related and a lot of the kids drop out of school as soon as they turn 16 to go work at the local Food Lion cause we don't have a Wal-mart.
CHILDREN: NONE. I MIGHT like to have kids when I'm married and I'm emotionally, mentally, and financially ready for them. Only 2 kids though.
FAVORITE COLORS: Red and Blue
FAVORITE FOOD: Jell-o (any flavor but strawberry banana or cherry); Fried chicken, pork chops, anything you can put ranch on. Meat any kind of meat, but not turkey dogs.
LEAST FAVORITE FOOD: Onions, mayo, anything including or combining these, bananas, anything with pepper or chili peppers
WHAT MAKES ME SMILE: Penguins, intelligent comedy, reading a good book, anime and hentai
PET PEEVE: Ignorant people; I hate seeing people acting like they have no self respect. It gives me a rash. Don’t do it around me or I will speak my mind and make you feel a ½ cm tall.
I don't like sports. I respect them for what they are. It takes a lot of training to be good at them and the games have some merit to them but I don't have a team and never will and I refuse to watch a whole season of anything or care at all who the stars are.
Sports interrupt the shows that I really like The Simpsons and Family Guy.
Traveling, I hate to travel. If it's more than an hour from home I don't want to be there. I like stability and knowing where I am.
FAVORITE SHOWS: Anything on History Channel, A&E, Court TV, National Geographic, Animal Planet, I love Law and Order: Special Victims Unit and Criminal Intent. I'm big on anime. Bleach, Naruto, One Piece, Bobo bo bo bo bo. I like to collect the seasons of shows that come on Cartoon Network.
LEAST FAVORITE SHOWS: I pretty much can't stand reality shows. I hate BET and MTV.
WHAT I DO IN MY SPARE TIME: Usually when I'm at home I'm online downloading music, chatting, watching dvds. doing research, or reading in a nice bubble bath. I do not have a lot of company over. My home is my sanctuary from the stupidity and bullshit and life and I refuse to allow it into my own house.
DRINK/SMOKE: I smoke Black and Milds only. No drugs I feel like I'm past the youthful folly days in my life. I drink socially from time to time when I go out and as you know I don't go out much.
EMAIL ADDRESSES AND MESSENGER SCREEN NAMES
http://www.blackplanet.com/sweetblkitty
http://360.yahoo.com/unique_rebel21 (MY BLOGS)
http://www.dailymotion.com/delandra34 (MY DANCE VIDS)
http://ncat.facebook.com/profile.php?id=11211233
http://unique-rebel21.hi5.com
http://www.myspace.com/unique_rebel21
http://photos.yahoo.com/unique_rebel21 (MY PHOTO ALBUM)
MY
CHAT RULES:
1.DO
NOT CALL ME SEXY OR ANY OTHER PET NAME, ADDRESS ME AS MONICA ONLY.
2. I DO NOT MEET PEOPLE OR TALK ON THE PHONE SO PLEASE DON'T ASK ME TO, I WILL ALWAYS SAY NO.
3. I JUST CHAT SO I DON'T REALLY CARE WHAT PEOPLE LOOK LIKE SO DON'T ASK ME WHAT I THINK OF YOUR PICS, I DON'T LIKE PEOPLE COMMENTING ON MY LOOKS SO I DON'T COMMENT ON THEIRS.
4. IF YOU ARE GOING TO CHAT WITH ME I DO NOT TALK ABOUT SEX SO DON'T ASK ME THOSE TYPES OF PERSONAL QUESTIONS
5. NO FOREIGNERS. IF YOU DO NOT SPEAK OR UNDERSTAND ENGLISH DO NOT CONTACT ME. I'M SICK OF PUSHY FOREIGN PEOPLE AND PEOPLE THAT DON'T UNDERSTAND ME WHEN I SAY SOMETHING.
MY
WEBCAM RULES:
I
DO HAVE A WEBCAM.
I USUALLY ONLY TURN MY WEBCAM ON 1:15-1:50 WHICH IS MY LUNCH BREA AND ABOUT 5:15 TILL WHENEVER I GO TO BED.
1. I DO NOT DO NUDITY OR XXX STUFF ON MY WEBCAM. PLEASE DO NOT ASK!
2. I DO NOT WATCH OTHER PEOPLE'S WEBCAMS,
THE FEED SLOWS DOWN MY PC AND MAKES IT FREEZE. BESIDES I DON'T WANT TO SEE ANY DICK OR ANYTHING.
3. IF YOU ARE GOING TO CHAT WITH ME I DO NOT TALK ABOUT SEX SO DON'T ASK ME THOSE TYPES OF PERSONAL QUESTIONS.
4. MY NAME IS MONICA; DON'T SAY "WHAT'S UP SEXY" AND STUFF LIKE THAT IT IS SO FUCKING OLD.
5. WHAT YOU SEE ON MY WEBCAM IS WHAT YOU SEE, NO REQUESTS.
I'VE LEARNED IN MY LIFE THAT PHYSICAL APPEARANCE DOESN'T MEANS SHIT IN LIFE SO WHETHER YOU FIND ME ATTRACTIVE OR UGLY DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING TO ME. WHAT I THINK IS MOST IMPORTANT IS MY INTELLIGENCE AND CREATIVITY. COMPLIMENT ME ON THINGS LIKE THAT NOT MY LEGS.
I DO NOT DO PHONE CONVERSATIONS, I'M JUST NOT THE TYPE OF PERSON THAT LIKES TO SIT AROUND AND TALK ON THE PHONE. THE BEST THING TO DO IS HIT ME UP ON ONE OF THE FOLLOWING MESSENGERS.