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MaRaBeLLa

HoLa BuBa!!!

About Me

"How to Tell Love From Infatuation""IS IT LOVE OR INFATUATION?Infatuation is instant desire--one set of glands calling to another. Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. Your are excited and eager but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you--to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know he is yours and you can wait.Infatuation says 'We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him.'Love says 'Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence.'Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together you hope it will end in intimacy. Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he's cheating. Sometimes you check.Love means trust. You are calm, secure, and unthreatened. He feels your trust, and it makes him even more trustworthy.Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regreat, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before." Ann LandersTADASHI/PAUL MITCHELL FASHION SHOW

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

People who are genuinely goal oriented, positive, nice, smart, easy going, loyal, and funny... I'm not on here to date so please check out my motives. I enjoy good converstations and people that actually have something to say besides trying to "cyber" flirt with me... And someone that DOES NOT try at all...

Music:

The Notebook
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Movies:

My Best Friends Wedding, How To Loose a Guy in 10 Days, Dirty Dancing, 50 First Date, Kill Bill Vol 1&2, The Italian Job, Bring it on, 8 Mile and the list goes on...

Television:

I'm a sucka for reality shows and that 70's show...

Books:

I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris

My Blog

random

just as u think things will get a bit different since there's a bit more time blahze blah-- they're not... what can i do but to simply wait. on a better note i have 2 kids with me since my sister tri...
Posted by MaRaBeLLa on Thu, 22 Dec 2005 09:56:00 PST

thoughts...

Do you know you have asked for the coasliest thingEver made by the Hand above?A woman's heart and a woman's life---And a woman's wonderful loveDo you know you have asked for this priceless thing As a ...
Posted by MaRaBeLLa on Sun, 23 Oct 2005 09:12:00 PST

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Someone once said, "Happiness is not the absence of conflict, but the ability to cope with it." Sometimes people think that they can meet someone in an evening, fall in love, and that's it... a love r...
Posted by MaRaBeLLa on Sat, 20 Aug 2005 01:28:00 PST

Life goes on...

This year, there have been so many things that has changed in my life. For one, being a "true" full time mother w/o any weekends off has come into play. I LOVE IT!!! Today, I started to feel rejuvenat...
Posted by MaRaBeLLa on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Bummed

Lately I've been going through some funky scenarios in my life. I must say I'm not very content with school right now due to the adjustment that I made to my schedule. Although I'm ecstatic about my n...
Posted by MaRaBeLLa on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Bored

Suddenly this myspace thing is a bit too boring these days. I'm not really sure if I want to stay on. Boo!!! Maraian will be turning 4 this coming Friday!!! Awww that's so awesome!!! I'm excited to be...
Posted by MaRaBeLLa on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

First Day...

It's raining n' I'm so darn cold right now... Well things have been pretty pleasant the past few weeks. My vacation was great and I'm truly satified with my grades from last semester. I can't wait til...
Posted by MaRaBeLLa on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Interesting weekend...

So I got super drunk on Friday at my girlfriend Maurine's house. She threw a X-Mas party and there was so much liquor available for everyone to drink. I had a great time of course up until the end of ...
Posted by MaRaBeLLa on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Sigh...

I'm sad today... I don't know why... I know that I should be happy because finals is finally over. I'm finally going to get back on writting on my blog... At least for a little while... Up until schoo...
Posted by MaRaBeLLa on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Applications now being taken... hahah

name: age: birthday: zodiac: 1.why do you want to be my boyfriend? 2.what are your hobbies? 3.do you like to stay in shape? 4.favorite bands/artists? 5.boxers or briefs? 6.do...
Posted by MaRaBeLLa on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST