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Pamela Detlor

These are the soul's changes. I don't believe in ageing. I believe in forever altering one's aspect

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.. WHO AM I? I'm an Artist/Writer/Photographer/Manager/Mother/
Livin' Life To The Fullest, Human Being/Human Doing!

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Music:


As a former rock bar DJ, it's Impossible to list all the music I love. Pretty much anything from Striesand to Metallica. Here are a few: The Sleddogs, David Usher, NLX, Jann Arden, Jen Foster, Lee Aaron, Luba, Sarah MacLachlan, Sass Jordan, Natalie Merchant, Tori Amos, Sophie B. Hawkins, Linda Perry, Melissa Etheridge, Annie Lennox, Sheryl Crow, Heart, Garbage, The Murmmers, Matchbox 20, Live, The Black Crows, Lenni Kravitz, Our Lady Peace, Bob Dylan, Joan Baez, Lisa Gerrard, Dead Can Dance, Pink, The Dixie Chicks, Alanis, Beth Heart, Amanda Ghost, Chantal Kreviatzic, Stevie Nicks, Fleetwood Mac, Concrete Blonde, Loreena McKennit, Moby, Delerium, Enigma, DePhazz, The Cranberries, Green Day, Blondie, Sum41, Headly, Mae Moore, Bif Naked, and on and on and on...


Movies:

Love Independant Film! Also a big fan of good Sci-fi: The Alien series... Ripley Rules! I love movies that make one THINK about what's important in life. Any good Drama. Well made suspense films in the traudition of Silence of the lambs are GREAT. I'm a fan of comedies that aren't reliant on toilet humor, but have solid writing. For instance: Eulogy & I Heart Huckabies.

Television:

Been hooked on ER for 13 seasons. Also love: The L Word, CSI, Bones, Prison Break, Cold Case, The Colbare Report, John Stewart's The Daily Show, Ellen, Oprah, Anderson Cooper 360, TLC, and Discovery channel.

Books:

Fiction:


1) Fall On Your Knees: Ann-Marie MacDonald (1996, Vintage Canada) There are very few things in life that we will look back on and say... "I was forever changed by it". As is the case for most, my life altering experiences have arrived unexpectedly and for the most part – uninvited. I have read and been moved by many great books, relating to characters, understanding their motivations, cheering for the underdog, and every now and then gained valuable insight. However... Never have I turned the last page, closed a book, and knew in my soul that I was no longer the same person. Not until December 1997 when I experienced "Fall On your Knees".


2) The Bell Jar: Sylvia Plath (1963, Faber and Faber) This is an excellent example of first person writing. I love the brutal honesty of the main character’s thoughts. It’s a dark read, but not lacking wit. Plath has delivered an accurate account of mental illness. Having spent some time in the “Bell Jar” myself, I understood the character (Esther) and was comforted by her madness. I felt less alone in my own illness.


3) The Complete Works Of William Shakespeare (1980, Bantam) Introduced to Shakespeare at age 14, I was in awe of the lyrical composition of his writing. It was the most complicated writing I had encountered at that point in my life; I was determined to decipher it. His words were inspirational for a young would-be writer.


4) Edith Ann – my life, so far: as told to Jane Wagner (1994, Hyperion) Hilarious! Makes me laugh every time I go back to it. Wagner’s humor translates from the page as well as it does from the screen, (she’s written for Lily Tomlin for decades), not an easy feat. If I’m having a bad day I flip to a random page and soak up some of Edith’s six-year-old musings about life… I always laugh.


5) A Tree Grows In Brooklyn: Betty Smith (1943, Harper Perennial) I read this book when I was thirteen. I felt a connection to the character Francie, having also been raised in poverty. This is an honest story about childhood, growing up, and family relationships. I was moved to tears and made to laugh. It is a story about truth and love.


6) Virginia Woolf: Just read her damn-it! When I read her work, both fiction and non-fiction, I am certain of two things: 1) I suck, how dare I continue to write. 2) I love words; I must never stop writing. I’m well on my way to becoming the quintessential “tortured artist.”


Non-Fiction:


7) From The Kingdom Of Memory Reminiscences by: Elie Wiesel (1990, Summit Books) Holocaust survivor/ Nobel Peace Prize winner Weisel’s collection of essays and speeches is incredibly uplifting. The book covers a range of topics; one of my favorites is the essay “Why I Write”. Wherein he says: “Why do I write? Perhaps in order not to go mad. Or, on the contrary, to touch the bottom of madness.” I read this book at age 21, each time I revisit I’m astounded by his wisdom. I learned a lot about what’s important in life from this man.


8) Anything We Love Can Be Saved A Writers Activism: Alice Walker (1997, Ballantine) Civil rights, feminism, families, politics, banned books: these are just some of the topics covered in this collection of essays. Alice Walker inspires me in both her creative writing and her activism. This book is hopeful in that we all have the power to make a difference. Very inspiring! (Also read: The Color Purple, The Temple Of My Familiar, and… hell, just read Alice Walker.)


9) The Serpent and The Rainbow: Wade Davis (1985, Simon & Schuster) Harvard scientist Davis journeyed into the secret societies of Haitian voodoo, and zombies. His goal: to explain/prove the existence of human zombification. This book reads like a novel. The author dispels a lot of Hollywood myths about voodoo. I was both educated and entertained by this book.


10) Power VS Force The Hidden Determinants of Human Behavior: David R. Hawkins, M.D. (1995, Veritas Publishing) Hawkins researched this book for twenty years. It’s a mind bender which often reads like a textbook. It is the most interesting book I’ve read concerning science, religion, environment, human consciousness, and how everything is connected. It answers a lot of the “Why?” questions about life. Not an easy read, but a powerful read.


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My Blog

All Hallows Eve

Halloween has ALWAYS been one of my favorite holidays, if not my most favorite. Usually my costume plans kick into gear at the beginning of October. This year I was just not into it. Since my return ...
Posted by Pamela Detlor on Sun, 02 Nov 2008 01:43:00 PST

Daniela Nardi - The Rose Tattoo

Daniela Nardi performed to a packed house at the release party for her greatly anticipated second album The Rose Tattoo. Torontos Lula Lounge played host to the night of music and celebration. I was ...
Posted by Pamela Detlor on Fri, 24 Oct 2008 11:16:00 PST

After The Fall

Its been 1.5 days since the Canadian Election  The Election that should never have happened. Yet, our MIS-Leader, Stephen Harper decided to break his #1 campaign promise by calling this electio...
Posted by Pamela Detlor on Thu, 16 Oct 2008 10:08:00 PST

Giving Thanks

I am blessed with abundance. Every day I give thinks to the sky, the universe, to divinity for all I have. Through the past year  which has been filled with adversity  I have remained grateful for t...
Posted by Pamela Detlor on Mon, 13 Oct 2008 08:41:00 PST

Jack Layton For Prime Minister

For three decades Jack Layton has been politically active on behalf of the everyday man. Both Liberal and Conservative leaders have screwed Canadians nonstop for the past two changing of the guards. ...
Posted by Pamela Detlor on Sat, 11 Oct 2008 11:52:00 PST

The Huffington Post - With Jane Devin

Jane Devin is a gifted writer, great thinker, and an honest voice. Her article 'Anger After The Debate' is featured on The Huffington Post, alongside some of the greatest journalists on the planet. ...
Posted by Pamela Detlor on Thu, 09 Oct 2008 04:18:00 PST

Random Pre-Debate Thoughts

Wolf Blitzer is chatting with Suzy Orman about finance/ investing while the countdown to the second presidential debate ticks away. I spend a lot of time on CNN, BBC online, and BLOGS. Country of orig...
Posted by Pamela Detlor on Wed, 08 Oct 2008 04:23:00 PST

Joe Biden vs. Sarah Palin: Was there a clear winner?

Senator Joe Biden and Governor Sarah Palin came together for the most anticipated Vice Presidential debate in history. With Bidens history of verbosity/ gaffs, and Palins recent ramblings in the pre...
Posted by Pamela Detlor on Fri, 03 Oct 2008 07:39:00 PST

The Shed & The Garden

I grew up on Prince Edward Island, a beautiful island cradled in the waves of the Gulf Of St. Laurence and the Northumberland Strait. Though Ive been gone for 13 years I try to get back to see family...
Posted by Pamela Detlor on Thu, 25 Sep 2008 10:09:00 PST

Cherie Currie  Chainsaw Chick!

Lately there has been lots of talk in the news about maverick women. As a child of the 70's I have been greatly influenced by strong women who were blazing trails long before it became fashionable. Ch...
Posted by Pamela Detlor on Mon, 15 Sep 2008 02:32:00 PST