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ChiTownDeb

You say you don't know me...but if you know yourself, then you know me very well.....

About Me


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ME TODAY......I am the Girl Next Door!!!!
I am fun, loving, loyal, honest, crazy, light hearted, passionate, sensual and down to earth. I am 5' 2", I feel most comfortable in a pair of jeans and heels. I get most complements on my eyes, lips and my cushion. (Laughing) I am confident but humble. Definitely an extrovert. I prefer receiving quality time over a gift. I've never dated a man for his money. I think it's cool for a woman to pay for dinner or whatever.........occassionally.....just kidding. I've found someome special and I've decided to work at being forever so that means I'm not open to dating anymore sorry :) I'm gonna dance like no one is looking and I will love you with out fear of being hurt. Our destiny may or may not be in our hands but baby I'm ready to walk this path right by your side. I love you Tali!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why you should get to know me...
I don't play mind games because life is too short. I have very little patience for Bulls!@? and dishonesty but I am very forgiving. I have a very kind compassionate heart and am comfortable expressing my feelings. I have remained friends with the majority of the guys I've dated after the relationship ended and I think that says a lot. I like to give and receive affection openly, especially kisses. I am definitely a kisser. I love to smile and to make others smile. I listen to hip-hop, rap and R&B music now but my roots are in old school house music. Slow music, old and new, is a must have. Some have called me pretty, sexy and beautiful.
Yeah...Ok...I see myself as such but it's because I know what can be found deeper for anyone who takes the time to look.
I feel pretty...
because I take pride in myself and my appearance. I work out not only because it keeps my figure young but because it keeps me healthy and full of energy.
I feel sexy...
because I've come to understand, accept and love who I am as a physical being.
I feel beautiful...
for many reasons. I am a very complex but very down to earth woman. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I love to talk, listen and have a good time. I find something good in every person and make the best of any situation. I have a genuinely kind and loving heart and it shows though my words and actions. I am a libra so I am a loyal friend but only to those who are loyal to me. I trust easily but I keep my eyes open. I am from the hood so I can relate. I am educated so I can also relate. I am nice and sweet but I am definitely an extravert. I have a lot of energy so hold on to your hat!!! I'm a bit of a tomboy, grew up with two big brothers and I work with 98% men. So, I will rub your feet when you get home and have dinner waiting for you but I'll also run the table on you in pool and talk shit afterwards. I will slam cards on the table as a run a boston on you and his boys one day but I'll put my hair up and wear the sexiest dress for you on the next. I feel most comfortable though in a good pair of jeans and high heels. I love to dance hip hop...everytime the beat drop. You have to drag me off the floor.

My Interests



Life's been gentle.

I LOVE MUSIC, LOVE TO DANCE, Traveling, Dinning Out, Pool, Bowling, and Shopping


I'd like to meet:



CHECK OUT MY SON AND HIS FRIENDS!!!!!
THEY WON 1ST PLACE IN NAPERVILLE NORTH HIGH SCHOOL 2007 AIRBAND COMPETITION.

I made my layout at killerkiwi.net

Music:

Hip Hop, House, R&B, SLOW SONGS!, Jazz and Pop

Movies:

Seleena, Rush Hour, Diary of A Mad Black Woman, The Omen, Radio, The Descent, Matrix, Bad Boys II, Terms of Enderment, Meet the Fockers, Superbad, Why did I get Married,

Television:

The Wire, Big Love, Band of Brothers, Fox Thing in The Morning, First 48, Raisin in the Sun

Books:

A piece of Cake, Will's Choice, The Darkest Child

Heroes:

My mother (1938-2005) God rest her soul! She raised me and my brothers as a single parent and showed me how to be a strong woman and love God. She showed me how to love someone unconditionally. She also showed me how to pick the right switch off the bush when it was time for that woopin! LOLI love you MA!

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My Blog

California versus Chicago men at the club

First let me say that this really means nothing to me but I couldn't help but notice that there is a little bit of a difference with the treatment I received this weekend over how I am treated here in...
Posted by ChiTownDeb on Tue, 13 May 2008 10:57:00 PST

The innocence of a child

This is the year that my 10 year old takes new steps at becoming a young man. He has new chores and he comes home now after school instead of the daycare. So of course I wanted to tell him that the Ea...
Posted by ChiTownDeb on Sun, 23 Mar 2008 09:24:00 PST

A few Rules that define my character.....

- Do not ask from someone what you are not willing to give yourself. - Give people more than they expect and do so cheerfully. - Don’t believe all you hear. - It is not what happens to you in li...
Posted by ChiTownDeb on Sun, 16 Mar 2008 03:49:00 PST

They call me sexy................

They keep calling me "sexy".  I find that very interesting.  It is not as if I've ever been physical with any of them.  Yeah sure I flirt sometimes but I am always a lady.  What do...
Posted by ChiTownDeb on Thu, 19 Jul 2007 06:59:00 PST

If we are seeing each other, Which do YOU prefer??

If I don't like something about you...should I tell you or keep it to myself? If I don't like something about you...should I try to motivate you to change/adjust or accept it? If I develop feelings fo...
Posted by ChiTownDeb on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 03:51:00 PST

If you call me "MA" you’re wasting your time!

Adjust the conversation or your approach to a woman based on that women if you have to.  If you call me "ma" anywhere in that coonversation, you've just killed your changes. LOL or at least I'm l...
Posted by ChiTownDeb on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 02:54:00 PST

The 80/20 Rule

I don't believe in perfection but I do have a list of expectations from the one who wants the title of my MAN.  I believe in the 80/20 rule which is, look for 80% of the expectations to be met an...
Posted by ChiTownDeb on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 02:50:00 PST

Im losing my friend - What happened?

What do you do when a friend/sister of over 20 years starts to shut you out for no identified reason?
Posted by ChiTownDeb on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 02:58:00 PST

Can men really handle blunt honesty??

I've been told to "be real" , "be honest", "Tell me the truth"  Even when it's not requested, I'm in the habit of being bluntly honest about things.  I find however some men really don't wan...
Posted by ChiTownDeb on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 02:45:00 PST

Just an observance - Most of the men I see in a club are under 6 foot

My girlfriend and I were talking the other day about the number of guys we see  when we go out under 6 foot tall.  Why is that? Does anyone have the stats on the average height of black men...
Posted by ChiTownDeb on Sun, 11 Nov 2007 01:46:00 PST