California versus Chicago men at the club |
First let me say that this really means nothing to me but I couldn't help but notice that there is a little bit of a difference with the treatment I received this weekend over how I am treated here in... Posted by ChiTownDeb on Tue, 13 May 2008 10:57:00 PST |
The innocence of a child |
This is the year that my 10 year old takes new steps at becoming a young man. He has new chores and he comes home now after school instead of the daycare. So of course I wanted to tell him that the Ea... Posted by ChiTownDeb on Sun, 23 Mar 2008 09:24:00 PST |
A few Rules that define my character..... |
- Do not ask from someone what you are not willing to give yourself.
- Give people more than they expect and do so cheerfully.
- Don’t believe all you hear.
- It is not what happens to you in li... Posted by ChiTownDeb on Sun, 16 Mar 2008 03:49:00 PST |
They call me sexy................ |
They keep calling me "sexy". I find that very interesting. It is not as if I've ever been physical with any of them. Yeah sure I flirt sometimes but I am always a lady. What do... Posted by ChiTownDeb on Thu, 19 Jul 2007 06:59:00 PST |
If we are seeing each other, Which do YOU prefer?? |
If I don't like something about you...should I tell you or keep it to myself?
If I don't like something about you...should I try to motivate you to change/adjust or accept it?
If I develop feelings fo... Posted by ChiTownDeb on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 03:51:00 PST |
If you call me "MA" you’re wasting your time! |
Adjust the conversation or your approach to a woman based on that women if you have to. If you call me "ma" anywhere in that coonversation, you've just killed your changes. LOL or at least I'm l... Posted by ChiTownDeb on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 02:54:00 PST |
The 80/20 Rule |
I don't believe in perfection but I do have a list of expectations from the one who wants the title of my MAN. I believe in the 80/20 rule which is, look for 80% of the expectations to be met an... Posted by ChiTownDeb on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 02:50:00 PST |
Im losing my friend - What happened? |
What do you do when a friend/sister of over 20 years starts to shut you out for no identified reason? Posted by ChiTownDeb on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 02:58:00 PST |
Can men really handle blunt honesty?? |
I've been told to "be real" , "be honest", "Tell me the truth" Even when it's not requested, I'm in the habit of being bluntly honest about things. I find however some men really don't wan... Posted by ChiTownDeb on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 02:45:00 PST |
Just an observance - Most of the men I see in a club are under 6 foot |
My girlfriend and I were talking the other day about the number of guys we see when we go out under 6 foot tall.
Why is that?
Does anyone have the stats on the average height of black men... Posted by ChiTownDeb on Sun, 11 Nov 2007 01:46:00 PST |