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Ninon

Truth, Beauty, Freedom, Love & Music

About Me

Friends are as important as breathing. I love my friends. I love my life. Don't get on the bus, the limo is coming. Fly low. Drop cargo. The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of non-essentials. "The grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for." "Any situation that you find yourself in, is an outward reflection of your inner state of beingness." Do not do all you can, do not spend all that you have, do not believe all that you hear, and do not tell all that you know. What you think about yourself is much more important than what others think of you. What's money? A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do. Try not to become a man of success, but rather a man of value. “You may never know what results come from your action. But if you do nothing, there will be no results”. We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give. If you want to be truly successful invest in yourself to get the knowledge you need to find your unique factor. When you find it and focus on it and persevere your success will blossom. Knowledge is structured in consciousness. The process of education takes place in the field of consciousness; the prerequisite to complete education is therefore the full development of consciousness -- enlightenment. Knowledge is not the basis of enlightenment, enlightenment is the basis of knowledge. He/She who has a why to live can bear almost any how. If you aren't good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you'll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren't even giving to yourself. The acquisition of riches has been to many not an end to their miseries, but a change in them: The fault is not in the riches, but the disposition. Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we might win, by fearing to attempt. Change is created by those whose imaginations are bigger than their circumstances. It is only when we realize that life is taking us nowhere that it begins to have meaning. The only limits are, as always, those of vision. Old behavior isn't old behavior if your still doing it. Look at you, you madman, Screaming you are thirsty And are dying in a desert When all around you there is nothing but water!

My Interests

"Beauty is truth and truth beauty, that is all ye know on earth and all ye need to know." ~John Keats

I'd like to meet:

Protect me from what I want. The best work never was and never will be done for money. Action is the real measure of intelligence. There's No Other Place That I Would Rather Be. "Nothing in the world can take the place of persistance. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistance and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan "Press on" has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race." Fame is what you have taken, character is what you give. When to this truth you awaken, then you begin to live.If you don't like your own character there may be a new one ready-made and waiting for you. The snake sheds its skin with impunity, relying on the same nature which you rely on. Courage comes from wanting to do it well. Security comes from knowing you can do it well. Confidence comes from having done it well.The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right place but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. Acceptance is not submission; it is acknowledgement of the facts of a situation. Then deciding what you're going to do about it. Love is for Everyone. It's not that they can't see the solution; they can't see the problem. Live as if you were living a second time, and as though you had acted wrongly the first time. Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end. Failure is something we can avoid only by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing. Nothing is more powerful than an individual acting out of his conscience, thus helping to bring the collective conscience to life. Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind. As we advanced in life it becomes more and more difficult, but in fighting the difficulties the inmost strength of the heart is developed.

Music:

Radiohead, Led Zeppelin, Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, Nirvana, the Left-Right, Jimmygirl, the Cunninghams, Jesus Headtrip, the Arctic Monkeys, Babyshambles, Libertines, Eagles of Death Metal, ORBITAL, QUOTSA, Prince, Jellyfish, Satellite Party, Army of Anyone, Desert Sessions, Buckcherry, Mark Lanegan, the Waterboys, Bap Kennedy, Mudbone, Otis Redding, Charlie Parker, Lefty Frizzell, George Jones, Roy Orbison, Steve Earle, Cake, the Panic Channel, the Funk Brothers, Bob Dylan,Richard Ashcroft, the Verve, Pink Floyd, Chili Peppers, Ron Davies, Pulp, Plexi, Francis Albert Sinatra, Antonio Carlos Jobim, Getz/Gilberto, Stephen Stills, Neil Young, Fred Neil, Tim Buckley, Tim Hardin, Damien Rice, the Kinks, the Rolling Stones, David Bowie, Ennio Morricone, Mott the Hoople, Eric Carmen,Todd Rundgren, Brian Eno, Gram Parsons, Iggy, The Ventures, Snakehandlers, STP, NIN, Nino Rota, Miles Davis, the Killers, Foo Fighters, Mars Volta, Coldplay, Depeche Mode, Guns n' Roses, Jeff Buckley, Patsy Cline, Kris Kristofferson, Sonny Boy Williamson, James Burton, Howlin' Wolf, Elmore James, Albert King, B.B. King, Little Walter, Lonnie Mack, Jimmy Reed, Hubert Sumlin, T-Bone Walker, Muddy Waters, Bad Brains, Eddie Hazel, Wanda Jackson, Elvis Presley, Peggy Lee, Faith No More, the Beatles, Edith Piaf, Giorgio Moroder, Sabbath, Marvin Gaye, Pearl Jam, Blur, Scissor Sisters, Prodigy, Echobelly,the Black Angels, 8mm, Moving 2 France, Ringside, the Cesars, Razorlight, the Rakes, the Others, JETS OVERHEAD ....

Movies:

Into the Wild, Reds, In the Valley of Elah,The Diving Bell and the Butterfly, Gandhi, Babel, Crash, Fight Club, Shine, Braveheart, The Libertine, Stage Beauty, Miracle in Milan, Once Upon a Time in America, Juliet of the Spirits, The Good Earth, Sex and the Single Girl, Moulin Rouge, This Property is Condemned, A Place in the Sun, Suddenly Last Summer, Lonely are the Brave, Play it as it Lays, Looking for Mr.Goodbar, Pride and Prejudice(1940), The Fugitive Kind, Finding Neverland, Bitter Rice, Berlin Alexanderplatz, La Notte, Naked Kiss, Le Magnifique, Judgement at Nuremberg, Das Boot, L'Avventura, L'Eclisse, Women in Love, Basquiat, The Fire Within, Gilda, Belle Du Jour, Closer, Every Girl Should Marry, The Lady Eve, The Philadelphia Story, Repulsion, Saturday Night and Sunday Morning, Meet Joe Black, Shampoo, Frances, Being There, Cabaret, Valmont, Marat/Sade, The Devils, Two for the Road, Bad Timing, Breaking Glass, One Deadly Summer, La Cicala, Wifemistress, Turkish Delight, Madame X, Syriana, Traffic, Modesty Blaise, The Italian Job (original), Good Will Hunting, The Governess, Jules et Jim, Velvet Goldmine, Dead Poets Society, Phantom of the Paradise, The Bobo, Casino Royale, I Want to Live!, Capote, Junebug, anything that played on Z Channel and everything: Kubrick, Natalie Wood, Catherine Deneuve, Elia Kaza, Arthur Penn, Susan Hayward, Tuesday Weld, Bette Davis, Joan Crawford, Warren Oates, Hal Ashby, Robert Altman, Ida Lupino, Nicholas Roeg, Laura Antonelli, Barbara Stanwyck, Sam Peckinpah or Sergio Leone and of course--What the Bleep do we Know?, Bladerunner

Television:

Eddie Izzard, Margaret Cho

Books:

Summerhill, Less is More, A Hundred Years of Solitude, The Game of Life and How to Play It, Your Word is your Wand, The Secret of Light, The Mastery of Love, The Four Agreements, The Power of Now, The Book of Secrets, The Lion's Roar, The Fantasy Bond, Doing It for Money: The Agony and Ecstasy of Writing and Surviving in Hollywood, Ain't Nobody's Business If You Do

Heroes:

Dennis Kucinich, Seven Pearson, Billy Hayden, Jeff Scott, Anthony DeMello, Allen Berger, Florence Skovil Shinn, Billie Jean King, Maud Gonne, Virginia Woolf, Alice Paul, Joan of Arc, Marie Antoinette, Mary Shelley, Boudicca, Mary Queen of Scot, Pia Mellody, Stanley Kramer,Naomi Wolf, Gregory Peck, Spencer Tracy, Burt Lancaster, Greer Garson, Tony Wilson, Raul Julia, Zelda Fitzgerald, Gerry Tolman, Maureen Dowd, Helen Mirren, Ninon de l'Enclos, Jessica Lange, Catherine Deneuve

My Blog

Motives, Shadows

"Men are more accountable for their motives, than for anything else ...."-- Archibald AlexanderWhy are you doing what you are doing?Throughout the day, continually ask yourself about your underlying m...
Posted by Ninon on Mon, 19 May 2008 10:17:00 PST

Fear is overcome with action

One of the greatest surprises you'll experience,is when you discover that you can dowhat you were afraid you couldn't do.Your obstacles will melt away,if instead of cowering before them,you make up yo...
Posted by Ninon on Mon, 19 May 2008 11:03:00 PST

Smile, Make decisions, Be aware of your thinking

"Smile, it's free therapy."-- Doug HortonI've learned that if I put a smile on my face when I'm feeling down, my spirits will automatically lift. The body knows that a smile means happiness.Knowing th...
Posted by Ninon on Sun, 18 May 2008 08:13:00 PST

There is a tide in the affairs of men, Harmony, Listen, Meditate

Which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune," said Shakespeare. That flood tide awaits us in the cosmic spaces, the paradise of God.The spiritual substance from which comes all visible wealth is ne...
Posted by Ninon on Sat, 17 May 2008 07:34:00 PST

Imagine your ideal future, Experiences with multiple meanings

"Your imagination is your preview to life's coming attractions."-- Albert EinsteinIf you were to create an ideal future for yourself, what would it be like?All things that now exist in form were once ...
Posted by Ninon on Mon, 12 May 2008 07:37:00 PST

Life force, Baby steps, Laugh

"The spirit down here in man and the spirit up there in the sun, in reality are only one spirit, and there is no other one."-- The UpanishadsWe regard our lives as made up of an infinite number of sep...
Posted by Ninon on Sat, 10 May 2008 10:05:00 PST

FREEDOM!!!, Clarity

"Most people do not really want freedom, because freedom involves responsibility, and most people are frightened of responsibility."-- Sigmund FreudIn his book Nobody's Victim, Christopher J. McCullou...
Posted by Ninon on Tue, 06 May 2008 08:39:00 PST

Ponder the rules, Balance, Leadership is action not position

"To do exactly as your neighbors do is the only sensible rule."-- Emily PostDo you have strong and clear definitions for what is acceptable and what is not?Where have these rules come from? What's the...
Posted by Ninon on Sat, 03 May 2008 02:22:00 PST

Love over fear, Are you half empty?, Part of a whole

"When you fight something, you're tied to it forever. As long as you're fighting it, you're giving it power."-- Anthony de MelloWhat are you fighting?Resistance always brings pain. Examine your strugg...
Posted by Ninon on Fri, 02 May 2008 02:26:00 PST

Pause when agitated, Why procrastinate?, Balance

You can't always control your circumstances.But you can control your own thoughts.There is nothing either good or bad,only your thinking makes it so.It is not the situation,it's your reaction to the s...
Posted by Ninon on Wed, 30 Apr 2008 09:00:00 PST