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Heather

About Me

If I could do it all again I'd be a rock star. Sometimes I take myself too seriously.I would rather hear what you've been thinking about than what you've been doing. I like being 36, but there is a part of me that will always be 17. If you know Myers-Briggs, I'm INFP; If you know the Enneagram, I'm a 4 (the individualist) with a 5 (the thinker) wing.

My Interests

I am usually a reflective, thoughtful person, sometimes I'm reserved but I talk and laugh loudly. Although I mostly occupy the 'beyond' of language, I like having conversations about God, philosophy, theology, religion, society/culture, relationships, food, synchronicity, the mystical flow that is the essence of life, bodily processes and dreams. I love Buddhist and Taoist ideas. Music is important to me. I am (mostly)vegan and pacifist in my lifestyle. I am trying to be the change I want to see in the world. I like laughing, travelling and visiting new places, watching and discussing movies, riding my bike through the streets of London, the moment of take-off in an airplane, walking in nature, dancing, meditating, yoga, baking bread, singing, swimming. I'm ridiculously healthy, except I love white wine and strong coffee. I am a dumb romantic, and I have a weakness for self-help books.

I'd like to meet:

Y'all.

Music:

Anything with soul, or an edge, that touches me: Sophia, My Bloody Valentine, Pixies, Jane Siberry, Einaudi, Mozart, PJ Harvey, Coldplay, The Bees, Kathryn Williams, Kings of Leon, Snow Patrol, The Cure (because first love never dies), Neil Young, Bob Marley, Spiritualized, The Stone Roses, The Doors, The Beatles, Leonard Cohen, The Beach Boys, Cocteau Twins, Jeff Buckley, Gorecki, Nick Cave, Radiohead, The Arcarde Fire, Bright Eyes, East Indian classical music with heavy bass and breakbeats...

Movies:

American Beauty, Magnolia, All or Nothing, Naked, Lost in Translation, The Station Agent, Thin Red Line, Moulin Rouge, Monsoon Wedding, The Truman Show, Everything is Illuminated

Television:

I shouldn't really; apparently the revolution will not be televised. Oh, but I just can't help myself. Lost, The Simpsons, Grey's Anatomy (I'm a girl, after all).

Books:

Philosophy, psychology, theology, critical theory, spirituality, feminist theory, psychoanalytic theory. Catcher in the Rye (my favourite), A Tree Full of Angels, Dance of the Dissident Daughter, Possessing the Secret of Joy, Siddartha, Virtuous Magic, Living Buddha/Living Christ, Extraordinary Relationships, Ian McEwan, Toni Morrison, all things Jack Kerouac.

Heroes:

People who inspire laughter, creativity, deep thought, or critical conversation in me; bold, courageous people who speak out against injustice - despite the consequences.

My Blog

A Prayer

  This naked, dancing beauty that's my soul, that is the whole of me, body infused with light; heavenly flesh; created and creator given form, let her, she who is my roots and branches, flowers a...
Posted by Heather on Thu, 09 Aug 2007 03:18:00 PST

My Shadow Self

anxious compulsive obsessive critical perfectionist addictive narcissistic depressive moody impatient afraid    ...
Posted by Heather on Wed, 04 Oct 2006 04:54:00 PST

My Brilliant Life

Looking through my photo album a little while ago, I remembered what a brilliant life I've had.  In the past five years I've been to Finland, Sweden, Barcelona (thrice!), Northern Ireland, German...
Posted by Heather on Thu, 17 Aug 2006 04:26:00 PST

there's more to life than...

- getting it right:  I learn a lot from my mistakes, especially when I can admit to making them - winning:  the first shall be last, and the last shall be first - having a good time:  o...
Posted by Heather on Tue, 06 Jun 2006 11:52:00 PST

10 ways to more Happiness

1. play every day - play an instrument, play with words, play cards, kick a ball, play your music really loud - whatever you do, have fun.2. meditate (you know it makes sense)3. exercise - endorphines...
Posted by Heather on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Things I love

sunshine on water the sky the smell of newly mown grass brocolli storms riding my bike the ocean slippers tulips butterflies trees books thai green curry blackbirds dreams flutes and vi...
Posted by Heather on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST