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Jay

I am here for Dating, Friends and Networking

About Me

Recently moved from the "OC" California to Surprise Arizona. Currently doing what I do best and bartending at the Coyote Alley in Surprise. Im simple, but my simplicity has many complex layers. Intelligent but dont mind acting the fool. Compassionate: about life, love, and the human spirit. I try to respect all that is around me. Love: Liquid Courage, Indie/Foriegn Films, Culinary Creations, New Music, Socializing with enchanted souls, Road trip adventures. I am the happiest camper in my new found home of surprise, happy with who, what, and where I am. I am not rich and am not poor, and at this point in my life could care less which pole the meter points to more. Will never hesitate to buy a fellow traveler a drink, but may charge a conversation as fee for the price of admission. Content in just living life with passion even if that means I will be ridiculed by the average joe for being who I am. Working on my morals (in a reformation stage)....will always be a gentleman. Me in a cracked nutshell. Home | Browse | Search | Invite | Film | Mail | Blog | Favorites | Forum | Groups | Events | Videos | Music | Comedy | Classifieds

My Interests

Local pub, movies, dinner - restuarants, cooking, music, gym, spontaneous travel - locally and abroad, up for anything new, shppping, zoo, picnic, beach

I'd like to meet:

Anybody who wants to come down to the alley and have a good time

Music:

Ryan Adams, James Blunt, David Gray, Stereophonics, Aqualung, Ben Harper, Ray Lamontagne, The Bravery, Postal Service, Death Cab for Cutie, Bright Eyes, Howie Day, Sia, Broken Social Scene, Iron and Wine, Radiohead, Remy Zero, Snow Patrol, Moby, Dashboard Confessionals, Train, The Verve, Counting Crows, The Killers, John Mayer, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, U2, Johnny Cash, Mazzy Star, Lenny Kravitz, Nat King Cole, Miles Davis, Nina Simone, Ella Fitzgerald, Duke Ellington. Love to listen to new music and will be open to seeing live shows.

Movies:

Run Lola Run, The Princess and the Warrior, City of Lost Children, Boondock Saints, Amelie, 21 Grams, Downfall, Das Boot, The Experiment, 12 Monkeys, The Professional, Better Luck Tommorrow, The Woodcutter, Blade Runner, Go, Ponette, Red, Blue, White, True Romance, Requim for a Dream, Office Space, Nepolean Dynamite, Swingers, Favorite Girl Movie: How to Lose A Guy in 10 Days, Favorite All Time - Its A Wonderful Life, Love old films, will watch just about anything

Books:

Emerson, Whitman, Rilke, Gibran

My Blog

All I want is her forever..........is that too much to ask?

"Forever"Not talkin' 'bout a yearNo not three or fourI don't want that kind of foreverIn my life anymoreForever always seems to be around when it beginsbut forever never seems to be around when it end...
Posted by Jay on Thu, 18 May 2006 07:11:00 PST

Moment

Be Mindful of the Moment Neil Harding McAlister   The here and now is all we hold through times of joy and sorrow. We may watch fulsome years unfold -- or may not see tomorrow. Be mindful of the...
Posted by Jay on Thu, 20 Apr 2006 12:15:00 PST

Eternities sunrise

He who binds himself to a joy... does the winged life destroy. He who kisses the joy as it flies lives in eternities sunrise. William Blake.
Posted by Jay on Mon, 10 Apr 2006 03:37:00 PST

Counting the Beats

You, love, and I(He whispers) You and I,and if no more than only you and Iwhat care you and ICounting the beats,counting the slow heart beats,the bleeding to death of time in slow heart...
Posted by Jay on Mon, 10 Apr 2006 03:34:00 PST

Epiphany revisited

I posted this last June......and often re-read it and realize how happy I am right now in my life. Epiphany Current mood: complacent I am not perfect....... For the past few weeks something has bee...
Posted by Jay on Sat, 08 Apr 2006 04:14:00 PST

Together Our Love Is Boundless

Love Song         &n bsp;         &n bsp;       How can I keep my soul in me,...
Posted by Jay on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

In an "Emerson mood these days"

Der Kuss (The kiss, one of my favorite paintings) "The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspirati...
Posted by Jay on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

On Friendship

And a youth said, "Speak to us of Friendship." Your friend is your needs answered. He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving. And he is your board and your fireside. For ...
Posted by Jay on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Everyone should learn something from the Fox

It was then that the fox appeared. "Good morning," said the fox. "Good morning," the little prince responded politely, although when he turned around he saw nothing. "I am right here," the voice sa...
Posted by Jay on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Mon Petit Fluer

Chapter 8 I soon learned to know this flower better. On the little prince's planet the flowers had always been very simple. They had only one ring of petals; they took up no room at all; they were a t...
Posted by Jay on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST